I have this theory. Most girls seem to think they understand men, I think they don't understand men at all. The reason? Men are expected to do most of the approaching.
I think most girls have never really approached a guy, and if they have, they usually do not get rejected because the guy is flattered.
Because of this women, never really understand rejection, or fear of rejection and do not realize how much skill and effort it takes for guys to get good at approaching.
I have always said that a lot of guys get rejected the first few times the approach a girl when they are 12 or 13, and they are shocked by how much they get hurt, women do not have this experience as part of growing up. It is much safer to "wait for him to make the first move" than risk getting hurt by putting yourself out there.
Am I right or am I wrong?
Girls have you ever approached a guy and been rejected? If so did it bother you or not? Also, how old were you at the time of your first rejection?
sigh.
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