I am missing part of my hip and my entire right leg because of an accident that I had when I was a younger. I sometimes use my prosthesis but most of the time I am on crutches. I feel really lonely and at my age, I haven't had any guy approach me ever, in parties I am always sitting by myself and no guy looks at me. I try to keep in shape and my family says I am pretty and I do have friends and I am pretty friendly, but I don't know what do you think, would you date a girl like me?.
Actually that'd be fine. The only physical things I care about in a girl is a pretty face, and a healthy weight. Also, any guy that wouldn't want to date you just because you're missing a limb wouldn't be the right guy for you, so there's no need to lose any sleep over it. I'm sure you can find a good guy who won't care about that. Also, whether or not I would date you would depend on your personality.
Hell yes. I'd date you in a heartbeat honey. I had been in a relationship with two different women who had both been confined to a wheelchair. As I found out, much to my surprise, they were very much more sexually energetic and very passionate. I wouldn't doubt for a second that you are an attractive woman. It's a shame I am already attached to somebody (although I am very much regretting it and not happy at all) and that I am to old for you anyways. You are the kind of woman I would love to take to a very nice dinner and just look into your beautiful and at your pretty face. You are the kind of woman a man would be proud to have on his arm as he walked along with you in front of everybody else. It would be really nice just trying to get to know you and see if you had felt the same way too. Trust me sweetheart, I wouldn't even think twice about your having a missing leg. Matter of fact, you'd probably be putting on your prosthetic just trying to get away from me. =) I am sure you are a very beautiful woman. I just wish I was closer to your age and close enough in the area where we could go out and get to know you over a very nice dinner at a very nice, quiet restaurant. - Dave
it's not that big a deal imo, your just missing a leg, I actually know a girl who lost her leg also in a car accident but she is so friendly and has such a great personality that she is more attractive than the other girls who have all their stuff, she also has a boyfriend while a lot of the other girls are single which all comes down to her personality imo, but she definately doesn't moap around, she is very active and does rowing so she keeps herself fit also
hmmm don't know what you look like. but no a leg and crutches would not be much of a problem. in the end you are going to use both prosthesis and crutches most of your life so personalize it a little bit? make it your own have it in a pretty colour or a style that suits your clothes you personality etc. I'm sure people say don't let it define you which is all nice to say but reality is, people will notice it, but if you can show that you are not ashamed with it and are comfortable with it will make a big difference.
i knew a guy in a wheel chair who used humor to deflect a little bit but that's besides the point, he was outgoing and a ladies man. and was studying law last time I checked. point is if he can, so can you. watch out though some people may find you a bit of a fetish for them. some people have Asian of black or chubby fetishes etc. its not that it is bad, but make sure they like you because you are you. your smart enough I'm sure you'll work it out you've got time
hmm, it depends on the attitude for me really, if you are still a really nice person, and were "all good below" I would still go out with you for sure =P but I would suggest maybe not going to so many parties because drunk people will steal your crutches in a heart beat
I will tell you a true story. My boss' at work,his wife has polio and she had polio since birth inspite of all that he dated her and you guys won't believe it that they have been happily married for 35 years. It's real life story I am telling you.It's all about what you are inside,outside matters only for some time. Once a person finds the inner peace outside and inside really doesn't matter.
I would date you if you were nice and cool to be with. the thing I have to be honest with is weather I would approach you, and to be honest, dispight how much I wish I could honestly say yes, I don't think I would.
I have an amputated leg, just above knee... I don't go chasing for girls, I chase the weights and the double bag at the gym, girls do stop and stare but I am just waiting for the one to approach me lol keep your head up girl, you'll find the right person that will literally sweep you off your feet.
Yes I would date you. You have not found the right person. Who will take the time to find out who you are inside
Of course that I would date you if you fulfilled the other criteria: humor, wits, good weight, availability, and large breasts. This last criteria is not necessary mandatory but, for me, big breasts are very attractive and would compensate if one of the previous criteria are not fully fulfilled. But, as stated before it is not mandatory since my current GF(and future wife, if she still persists in keeping her word), is not large breasted at all.
The fact that you miss one or more limbs is not a big deal at all, at least for me, especially if this does not stop you from keeping in good physical shape.
Aww I'm sorry honey. That must be awful. I can't even imagine that. People must admire you so much! I would! Guys your age can be slow on finding the "keepers." So just hang in there! I've seen a lady on TV that was missing both her legs (congenital disease) and she still married someone and had children (still had uterus). It was very interesting. The point is that there's no rule that says you'll end up lonely or anything. It has to do with how you portray yourself and the group of people you surround yourself with (how mature they are, open...). Don't be afraid to be different. Find someone who will love ya more because of it! You know? There are so many role models out there in similar situations. Maybe research them and join a support group! Best of luck hun! =)
i know this is so for guys, but I think that the only people who wouldn't be okay with that are extremely shallow people. with me to be friends with people or something they have to be nice have a great personality and have a sense of humor. I actually know someone who won't talk to people shorter then 4'0 . people that are shallow like that are not worth it, don't let those types bring you down. you seem like a great person, like someone said down there I wouldn't go to so many parties, drunk people can get people down
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