Why does she keep making excuses?
This girl and I have known each other for about 8 months, and have gone through a lot of stuff together. We recently started dating about 2 months... Show More
Most Helpful Opinion
Wow never thought Id have to say this to a guy but never bring up the relationship status unless its clear that she would be open to it. the more you ask the more of a turn off it is especially since she already gave her answer once. Quite frankly she tired of hearing the same old questions from you. "Go with the flow" is code for shutup, you're rushing things. If you can't wait longer than 2 months then she's not "the one". Hang out with her as usual and don't mention it again. When you are ready to give up then just give up in actions by backing off and don't say anything. If I was her and you ended it after 2months because of this then I wouldn't feel too bad about it because Id think I wasn't that special to you if you could walk away so soon because I'm not comfortable yet. I wouldn't think that you would be a very understanding mate in the future either. That actually may be what you are making her question about the relationship. I guarantee you, back off with the words but continue to do the same things you're doing. I know its tough but pretend she's just a friend you are trying to get to know. You might want to back off the "I love you's" too. Only say it when it's really appropriate, not every time you hang up the phone 2 or 3 times a day lol. Good Luck
What Girls Said 2
I think you should get yourself a girlfriend and she how she is . If she likes you can tell straight away and if you notice a difference then say I'm crazy about you and always have been but you are wasting my time so I have moved on
You sound like an amazing guy so why waste anymore time on a girl you may get or may not get . You are only young ones so make the most of it Chine up make her do the running you have done your bit and if you are really meant to be you will be together in the end :)
all the best :)
What Guys Said 1
wow man, your story is actually EXACTLY the same relationship as one of my ex's. She kept mind messing me from kissing her for about the first 2 weeks, lol but in texts she told me she wanted it more than anything.
If she has a physical attraction, chemistry attraction, etc. You gotta make her want you by giving her a really amazing intimate back massage. I did it to the girl, and she was CRAZY about me. I kid you not, thatd be a good Valentine's gift.