Why is this guy ignoring my texts?

[Anonymous]

we've hung out...as recently as over a week ago (10days)..we went to see the batman movie

we've kissed but he always say 'why don't you make the first move" ...i get really nervous so I just wait for him.

its been 10 days since we last hung out..i texted him Friday saying "hey jake what's good :P"

i texted him earlier today about hanging out before he leaves..and nothing ...yet I went on Facebook, and it says he's listened to songs on spotify

hes going away on a cruise...i don't know if he already left or what

hes not the type of guy that just ignores stuff...hes said I don't bother him with texting and that he always responds.

is he ignoring me? I didn't do anything bad tho...i waited to text him...

[annalove2]

I'm in the same situation. Don't text him again, wait until he does and don't answer too eagerly. Make sure you ask what he was doing that took all that time to give you a simple text. Tell him how you felt as well.

[Anonymous]

Um maybe he has other compromises & doesn't want to hurt you or maybe he's very busy. Why don't you just call him,? Simple as tht.

[marythom]

have you talked at all within the 10 days or has he just ignored all of your texts?

[Asker]

i haven't talked to him since we hungout. I texted him Friday...no response. today...no response. and I'm not texting him again. I feel stupid rite now. I basically said "do you wanna hangout before your cruise" and nothing.

[Asker]

i used to like his brother who treated me very badly. and he texted me saying he was sorry and he wants to hangout... I did tell him that I like his brother that I've been hanging with and that I don't flip flop beyween guys and he was likee "he doesn't care ..hes not looking for anything serious" I KNOW He's not. but I like hanging with him. its fun

[marythom]

ugh I'm kind of dealing with a similar problem, so I feel for you. maybe try to call him (instead of texting) and see if his phone is on or if he answers because maybe he already left for the cruise. but at most I would give it one last chance of contacting him, and if he blows you off again, then I would wait for him to contact you, and if he doesn't than he probably lost interest unfortunately...

[Anonymous]

Yes! That's exactly what he's asking you to do so don't even worry about seeming clingy, you won't be.

[Anonymous]

yes, that's always a big possibility.

[Anonymous]

he may just be busy with other things right now.