No where on here did you express any heartfelt feelings for him.
To me, when I see the word "sugar daddy" I think arranged relationship that has nothing to do with emotions. He takes care of the woman financially and she provides him with sex. There is no room for tenderness in that type of arrangement. I find it pretty cold on both parties parts - he knows he's paying for sex and she knows she is being paid for sex. How can anyone, being aware of the facts, can honestly think that there is a chance for a real relationship? There has to be a part of him that thinks that you wouldn't be interested in him if it weren't for his money. And how can you not wonder, even a little, that he may not think about moving on once he is tired of you? Seeing that you're still active in the SD sites tell me that you have thought of that.
I can't see how you can even remotely think there might be a chance for love with what I see as a business arrangement. Maybe he was just seeking comfort in what was available for him and now he's fine. My suggestion isn't to wait, it's to give up the notion that you are going to be seen as anything more that what you present yourself as when dealing with men who are willing to pay for sex.
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Omg are you serious? You just said you waited for a man to treat you right and he did just that no he didn't! He was paying you for letting him touch you that's it. Your never gonna find a man who loves you for you because the guy that could love you for you will run away after he finds out your a gold digging prostitute. I don't know if you were being serious when you said that because how can you think a sugar daddy cares about you? He cares that your hot and young but that's about it as soon as you get too old he will find another. If you want a real relationship your looking in the wrong places. That's such a superficial relationship. You want to wait until your sugar daddy can afford you? Do you hear how f***ed up that sounds? Of your just in it for the money then find a different sugar daddy because thinking a sugar daddy cares about you when the only reason why your with him is because he's buying you things is like a kidnapper thinking the kid he just kidnapped loves him. It doesn't work that way. I suggest you stop being lazy get a job get some confidence and self esteem make some friends and introduced yourself to some guys. It may be a bit hard at first but its a less lonely life to live and its definitely happier
Maybe a little, but you're not his girlfriend or wife. You're both just using each other, and it looks like for now he can't afford to keep you around. He has to pay bills and work on his business. That's where his money need to go. Of course you're not a priority. If he can't pay for your stuff and that's all you want, then I don't know why you'd wait around.
You caught feelings. He probably cared for you, but not in the boyfriend/girlfriend way but the sugardaddy/ young girl way. The number one rule with your kind of relationship (as welll as FWB) is not to catch feelings. you have an arrangement it it is your responsibility not fall for him. He wants your body and you want his cash. It is a sort of transaction. Sugar daddies are very manipulative people if you start straying away from from your relationship or if you start wanting more. They will feed you story after story that will make you think that there is a future when there really isn't. It is time to move on
Next time try finding an actual boyfriend and stop using sex to get what you want in life.
You're prostituting yourself. It's as nasty as the ads I see on craigslist where college girls offer sex in order to get the funding they next for their textbooks.
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what else do you expect from a guy you call your "sugar daddy?"
The only reason he wants a girl like you is to use you for sex, and for that he will say anything he thinks would please you. But you will never be a part of his life nor will he ever care for you.
This might seem harsh, but you shouldn't have given him your virginity. You should have given it to a guy you genuinely care about, and who genuinely cares about you, not just a guy who uses you for sex.
Just learn from this experience, and maybe not look for another sugar daddy? IMO, it's basically like prostitution: you're offering sex in change of nice stuff. That reminds me why I would enver agree to have sex with a married guy or a guy much older than me.
I'm sure you can find a guy your age who would appreciate you.LMAO he's a sugar daddy, you think he seriously cared about you? He's paying you to date him, doesn't even seem like you cared about him all that much either seeing as you dated him & slept with him for money. You're essentially a prostitute to him. Men don't have feelings for prostitutes.
I really hope you get help with your daddy issues(not your sugar daddy issues, your real ones)Isn't this charming, a still recently virgin prostitute who got feelings.
I know you won't care, but you should change your lifestyle, before your lifestyle changes you.He knows that if the money dries up, so does your p****. He was cutting his losses.
I don't know, but probably you wouldn't be a part of his life for long
he got tired of being used for his money?
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