cus I've been hanging out w a guy who I'm interested in and I playfully hit him and he was like why do you do that and I just smiled. I asked one of my guy friends and he said maybe its too soon for him to be able to tell that's how you flirt. I'm not good a flirting so instead of playfully hitting him what else can I do?
I've found that when girls "playfully" hit me, it's sometimes a red flag that means they'll quickly graduate to non-so-playful hitting when they're angry. Lots of girls are outraged at domestic abuse, yet they think it's okay to hit guys.