Girls- why would the dumper want closure?

[Anonymous]

We dated for 2 years but left me for her current bf. They have been together for over a year and I have not seen or spoken to my ex in about 10 months. She didn't want to talk to me. Well 10 months later, she emails me out of the blue and ended up calling me. She said we can't talk after the phone call because she has a bf and it's not fair to him. She said it was a closure phone call. Why would she end up contacting me after all this time and tell me we can't talk after this phone call? Why would she need closure being the dumper and in a long term relationship with her current bf?

[Mefriend]

Sort answer: Bitches be crazy. Long answer: she feels guilty for how it ended, she wants to feel like you still want her, that she could have you back if she wanted, she wants you to contact her back so she can say to the bf "my ex won't leave me alone", she wanted to not feel like the bad guy, like she's really reasonable, so she can say you people you're on talking terms, so you will talk about her to others, (if things aren't going well with bf) to make him jealous and so on. So yer stick with bitches be crazy... It's easier. Cut loos don't give her the gratification of you talking to her. She a dick

[Asker]

I messaged her after saying I do care about her but she is being selfish. Then a mutual friend talked to her after telling her that she can't do stuff like this. My ex said okay. Two weeks later I message my ex asking about donating things to a school and she re blocked my facebook.

[SexySam2013]

She probably feels guilty about the way she treated you and is being selfish trying to rid herself of her guilt.

[Asker]

I messaged her after saying I do care about her but she is being selfish. Then a mutual friend talked to her after telling her that she can't do stuff like this. My ex said okay. Two weeks later I message my ex asking about donating things to a school and she re blocked my facebook.