I saw that show "Sex Decoy: Love Stings" on TV where the people hire sex decoys to flirt with their mate to see if they would take the bait. I can see maybe hiring a P.I. or setting up cameras in your house if you think your boyfriend/girlfriend was cheating on you, but I thought it was kind of sneaky to hire someone to seduce and trick your partner.
Would you hire someone to flirt with your partner just to see if they would take the offer and cheat on you?
Absolutely not. I think it's so immature and invasive, and indicates all kinds of problems with the relationship and/or the person hiring the decoy. If someone has so little trust in the person they're dating that they would go to such extremes to "trap" the person they supposedly "love," the relationship is already over anyway.
I shudder to think about how I would feel if someone did that to me... yeeech.
I wish a girl (lady) when i am seriously into her will send a female decoy my way. This is only premise on the fact- 1.) i welcome it because this "real" man who is mature, work hard and loyal will say no. 2.) i welcome it because i would look at the chick no matter how"hot'she think she is and proudly tell her, you're not even near in comparison to what i have at home waiting on my arrival to get to her. so i am ok with a chick setting me up or as a friend close to me call it by 'testing me."I would pass. Only little boy's who are immature and manho3e types cheat. #RealMenDontCheat
i think it is worth it to test your partner, very early. it get the deceit out the way so you are not then "investing"too much into the male h#e. Most important? your heart. Protect it if you're suspicious. Not worth it. Life2short or dishonor.