Girl masturbation, are you embarrassed to admit you do it?

[SomeGuy37]

I never thought about it, until I met a GF that was REALLY embarrassed, admitting that she LOVED masturbating (like that's 'wrong'?) Ladies, do you feel embarrassed, afraid, unsure, doing what is so normal? If you do, why?

[BuchitaBuchys]

I used to be. But that's cuz I was raised in a ridiculously religious "everything a girl does is slutty" environment. In fact, when I was younger, everyone called my virgin friend a whore for masturbating. Why? Cuz apparently "girls don't enjoy sex. Only sluts do." But now I'm like "fuck that!" Lol I masturbate and I'm not afraid to admit it anymore haha. I am really gonna make a shirt that says "Proud Masturbator" lol

I'll tell you something about me. Do you know why I love my middle finger so much? It's the only finger I can use to say to someone "fuck you" and then go and fuck me later on haha ;)

[BuchitaBuchys]

Thanks for MHO :)

[xandra248]

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[xobrowneyedbeauty]

not embarrassed that i masturbate. but when frequency comes up or how often i'm horny, then i get embarrassed. i think my sex drive is too high for a woman (and especially too high for one on birth control!) so i am kind of ashamed of that honestly. it's not feminine to be horny all the time, or so that's how it feels.

[SomeGuy37]

I think that the definition of 'feminine' needs to be updated, because it isn't representative of our time!! You shouldn't feel any kind of anxiety, feeling what you feel! Everyone is different, so why should you feel uncomfortable liking what you like, AS MUCH as you like, afraid to be 'labeled' like there was something wrong, but there isn't!!
Feel what you feel, and find a guy that likes you, being open, honest, and loving your sex drive!! Don't think you are wrong, or anything like that!! Be who YOU are, and if that guy can't deal, he's the wrong one!!

[Llama32]

Great answer

[Anonymous]

Well I was until I found out a friend of mine also does it. We have a friend who constantly says it's wrong and gross, and she made me feel awkward about it and like it was wrong I guess. But it's not, so I do and although I don't shout about it or anything as I'd probably still be considered wrong if I did, I'm a l

[JackKerouac77]

Nah dawg, girls gotta be comfortable with themselves.

[Copperhead]

I've always had an overactive sex drive, so when I was younger I often felt embarassed/ashamed, whatever. Now that I'm older I'm more comfortable with my sexuality, and I don't mind talking about it with my man. I think its all a matter of time, age, maturity, and upbringing.

[SomeGuy37]

I agree. As we get older, some things matter less. It's good to have some 'Mentors' for the younger ones that are confused and questioning. . .

[angel_katie]

Yes. I think it's my upbringing that makes me a little nervous and guilty about it. Girls aren't meant to be immodest, dirty, etc. I know it's not wrong, but I've never been comfortable with it until I met my boyfriend, ha. There's definitely a double standard going on between girls and guys in that department.

[SomeGuy37]

Yeah!! I hate the double standard, like girls 'shouldn't' and if guys do, it's 'gross' or something like a sin!!
Please do feel guilty, or embarrassed!!! Any guy that is worth your time wants to know how you like to feel, and if you know what feels good, yourself, you can show him how to make you feel AMAZING!!

[SammyGurl]

Yes there definitely is a double standard, both of my brothers have been caught with their pants down multiple times by my Mom no less. She never said a word, they just sit around like cats that just ate a cage full of canaries, with their smug little grins.

Just once, I sort of had my hand a little too far down my panties to be an itch! = ] It wasn't, well not that kind of itch! My very "Southern Belle Mom" went nuts, how "Good Girls" didn't need to do that. (Like why Mom, because good girls never get horny!!!). She really doesn't even talk about it or admit to ever having "Petted her Kitty".

[LucyColes]

If I did, I wouldn't be ashamed to admit it, its a very natural thing. But if a guy was to hear a girl admit that they do it, then they'd start getting ideas and questions

[SomeGuy37]

I don't think that you should feel any shame!! IT'S NORMAL, and WHY CAN'T you do it, when boys are? Why is it different, for girls? It shouldn't be!! I think I would be more attracted to a girl, later, in college, knowing, she was comfortable, and KNEW her body!! When you grow up, and start dating, knowing what you like is good!!

[Kyndra]

I think it's normal, everyone has needs. But I wouldn't go around telling my friends who I was fantasizing over the last time I did it. It's something that I'm only comfortable with sharing with strangers (like you people) and my boyfriend.

[mswriter12]

Sometimes with my friends and family but it's all normal. I would rather know my own body than not... but I mean, it's not something I would talk about to some people

[jnp11]

im not ashamed to admit I masturbate its a normal thing

[SomeGuy37]

Thanks for just saying that!! There are so many social stigmas, and this shouldn't be one!!

[Llama32]

Great answer

[SammyGurl]

Not really, it's not something I run around telling everyone I do. It's natural relives horniness, stress and helps me sleep sometimes. What's not to like? = )

[Rcjh1987]

It something I find completely natural why be embarrassed or ashamed. we have our needs to ya know..

[Yellowbone]

No... it's no one's business anyway.

[musicbrain5]

Not at all.

[Llama32]

Good stuff