Is it true that some girls are so vain that they won't like a guy just because he has a bad haircut or didn't wear a cool shirt that day they will write him off as boyfriend material?

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Hey what's up ladies? Can any girls answer these honestly because the girls I know won't! so I'm gonna ask some questions that might be kind of off the wall but I 'm hoping there are still honest girls out there who can tell the truth. I saw some similar questions on this site a while back. these questions are only to be read and answered from girls over 18 because some involve female body issues!I will award best answer points to who is most truthful! So girls ...

1-Is it true that some girls are so vain that they won't like a guy just because he has a bad haircut or didn't wear a cool shirt that day they will write him off as boyfriend material?

2-Why do you love jerks but say you want guys in romance movies ? I know a lot of girls who will date guys that treat them like crap for a long time and then bitch about them all the time but still date them for years.

3-where do you look when you see a really pretty girl naked?

4-where do you look when you see a really good looking guy naked?

5-do all girls grow a little hair around their butt hole?

6-can you actually admit that you poop because a lot of girls can't

7-why can't some girls admit that they poop? is girl's poop gross ?

8- what do you think of the types of girls who appear in those girls gone wild commercials?

superbus17 · Accepted Answer

1) I will not talk to you if you have a bad haircut. I'm looking for a house, not a fixer-upper. I'm not about changing a man, and I don't see men as works in progress. I'm going to let you be who you are. If I look at you and I already see things I want to change about you, then I'm moving to the next. Now, if you just styled your hair badly or have that one hideous shirt that almost every guy has that's different. If we both liked each other I'm pretty you could change your hair or not wear one ugly shirt for someone you like.

2) Men need to stop putting words in my mouth, because I have never said I loved jerks. I have never said I have a type. I just like who I like. As much as I like those yummeh boys in the movies, they are only fantasy fodder. I wouldn't really want one. I'd turn over while we were laying next to each other and ask. "Are you sure you don't have ovaries. Because you sound like a chick." I need some masculinity. A jerk not so much. And I wouldn't be with one for years to come. As soon as he does me wrong, he's gone.

3) Where do I look when I see a pretty girl naked? I've yet to see any girl naked in person. I've seen parts of girls without clothes. Either top or bottom. Usually I tend to look at the midriff, collarbone are, neck...etc. I think those a really attractive areas of the human body regardless of the person's gender. I really don't care that much about the female figure because I have all the parts, if I see a woman naked I look at what I don't have which usually means I concentrate on the facial area, or the shape of the body (i.e. legs, arms, back, shoulders..etc) It's purely an aesthetic thing.

4) Good looking guys naked...it's all about "The run down"- Start at the eyes, then slowly wander down to the chin and jaw, next the neck and collar bone, the pex and torso area, the six pack, and then that area where the thighs meet the torso. Here's an example: link That line right above the Calvin Klein band on the left side of the pic. I LOVE THAT. I don't know what it's called but it's hot.

5) I'm pretty sure they do grow hair there. I've heard pornstars get it bleached so you can't see it.

6) I poop. Will I admit it to my best friend? Yes. My other girlfriends? Maybe. My best guy friend? Possibly. A Guy friend. No. A Guy I liked? HELL No. Everyone poops. We all know it. Do I really have to admit it. I don't find it necessary. I don't really care what you do in the bathroom, so I don't really feel the need to share. What do you want me to say. "Honey, I had such a rough day. My boss yelled at me, I got a parking ticket, oh and I got really constipated from dinner last night I spent the better half of my lunch break taking a major sh*t">

7) Most girls I believe think it is unsexy, other's find it embarrasing, and some hope if they don't share you won't feel the need to.

8) They were drunk, but that is irrelavent. They were gonna be on Girls Gone Wild anyway

Standingpretty · Accepted Answer

Well, the truth is different for everyone, because every girl is different, so, there is no "true" answer really, but I'll be completely honest from my view point.

1.No, not for me. I hate the haircut my crush has now, I wish he would grow it out, but despite that I still like him. I also admit I do hate some of his shirts but that doesn't make me write him off. Some girls would write a guy off for something stupid like that probably, but it doesn't matter anyways because these girls are inmature and obviously have a lot to learn if they only judge people on clothes.

2. For many reasons, What nice guys don't see is that these jerks were nice to get us girls in the first place when they first started dating us but turned into jerks over time(and when you love someone, you overlook their flaws). Jerks are also good liars, so it's hard to see past this facade that they put up that they don't have up when they're around other guys. Girls do want nice guys, but girls don't want to have their asses kissed 24/7. Also, girls do want nice guys just not all of them. Have you ever though of this also? A guy is nice, he is going after this girl who is his friend but out of his league, at the same, there is a nerdy girl that likes the nice guy that he doesn't even notice, see what I mean? Guys who say they are nice go after mean girls for there looks, while nice girls who like the nice guys get ignored, so it's not like they're unattractive, but they're so busy chasing someone out of their leage that they don't notice any other girls.

3.Um, away, because I'm not lesbo. But I admit, sometimes I do look at other girls bodies to compare and I usually look at the torso and see how everything is arranged, and whatever I think is attractive is automatic.

4.I usually look at his arms and around his shoulders, I usually don't look down there unless he is turned on. Then, I look at his face then legs.

5.Everyone does, it's so when we sweat the hair will absorb it, it's a fact so anyone who says "no" either doesn't realize that they do or is lying.

6.Yes, but I don't, because really, who wants to know that?

7.It's not that they won't admit it, some people are just grossed out talking about that. I usually don't waste time thinking about pooping..Come on now, don't be stupid, everyone poops the same, roughly depending on what you eat.

8.They have problems. Really, put a shirt on. I know you have insecurities about your childhood but making out with other girls isn't going to solve that. Most girls who are "slutty" are the way they are because of past issues, it's a really sad thing. So, I don't want to outright call them sluts because they are hurting inside.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

1. Not all girls are like that. Now a bad haircut can make a guy less attractive than what he really is. and physical attractivenes is important to a girl, just as well as personality. But if he wears a weird shirt, it doesn't really matter. But then again clothes can give a window about what hispersonality is like. So if he has like half naked girls on his shirt, I might second guess starting a relationship with him.

2. I have never really been in this situation. I think it is hard fo a lot of girls to let go of that comfortability of being in a relationship, especially since they don't know when they wll begin a new one. The girls that stay with jerks are usually the ones that need a guy in their life. My friend is dating a real jerk. He doesn't physically abuse her or anything but he is a jerk,. But she is one of those girls that just HAS to be in a relationship. And she won't break up with him because she knows there won't be anther relationship right off the bat. And also sometimes her boyfried can be nice, so I think she overlooks all the bad things about him, and the one nice thing he does rules out everything else.

3. I don't see pretty girls naked in real life that much. Actually I never have. But if I see one on Tv or something I just loook at her face. I mean she doesn't have anything I don't have, there;s no need for me to be looking there.

4. Everywhere! I look at his face, I take in his body. everwhere haha

5. Humans are hairy creatures, some are more harier than others though. So I think everone has a little hair around their butthole, I know I have some. But some girls probably have more than others. And it is really hard to shave that area

6. I can admit I poop lol. I can admit I fart and burp too. No problem. haa

7. Girl's poop is the same as guy's. But girls are a little more lady like and proper than guys are. So I think to some girls it is"gross" or "unladylike" to talk about pooping.

8. I think they are trashy. They can't get anther job except to exploit themselves and it is pathetic.

hope this helped

camptravis · Accepted Answer

I know this is for girls but I think I can help you out!

1. This is sadly true. Some girls have such unreasonably high expectations that they will probably never be in a real relationship and grow old lonely and bitter. These are usually the brats that got everything they wanted from daddy and then turned bitches once they hit puberty and expected everyone to treat them like princesses. It's best to stay away from them, they don't even deserve a second look.

2. Women don't nesscarily like jerks, its that they like a guy who can take control, either for the better or worse. I know a lot of women will disagree with me on this but I've seen it enough to condense it to a science. In romance movies they guys are still in control, hence why women are "swept off their feet". They never asked to be swept off their feet, the confident/ controlling men do it without asking and this is what women are attracted to. Its just that the jerk kinda guy realizes this and so if a woman isn't meeting his needs than he knows he is "hot" enough to just find another one, so he is called a jerk, because he can treat her badly without her leaving because she is still attracted to his controlling/confident nature. He eventually gets bored or irritated with her clingyness and finds a different girl. Wow that was a lot of writing. lol

3.vagina

4.N/A

5.I have no idea

6.haha that's funny, I'm quite positive everyone poops lol

7.Girl's are born to lie. They are never held accountable for anything they say, so they say all kinds of dumb stuff. Another thing is look at what girls do to lie about their appearence. They change their hair color, put on tons of make up, wear certain clothes to look thinner, and get plastic surgery to look skinny, busty, and younger. They try to be something their not. Most girls that I've meet have been very self conscious about their appearence and will not answer or lie to silly meaningless questions like how old or how much do you weigh. Sorry for exposing you secrets ladies, but someone has to. Oh and I'm not positive, but girl poop is probably not much different from a guy's! lol

8. They are young and drunk and wanna be on tv, so Joe Francis, geniously takes advantage of this.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

interesting survey

babymama2010 · Answer

I'm a very honest person :) so here are my very honest answers!

1-Is it true that some girls are so vain that they won't like a guy just because he has a bad haircut or didn't wear a cool shirt that day they will write him off as boyfriend material?

Yes, that's true. There are plenty of girls out there who are like that, but they are mostly self-obsessed bitches that think they are better than everyone else. And who cares about that type of girl anyway?

2-Why do you love jerks but say you want guys in romance movies ? I know a lot of girls who will date guys that treat them like crap for a long time and then bitch about them all the time but still date them for years.

A girl with true respect for herself would NEVER settle for less than she deserved. Girls who date guys that treat them like crap, in my opinion, have low self esteems and keep him around because having a boyfriend makes them feel liked and special.

3-where do you look when you see a really pretty girl naked? Boobs. Just to see if I can tell if they are real or fake lol.

4-where do you look when you see a really good looking guy naked? Well, guys that work out obsessively don't impress me so I wouldn't be checkin' out the abs or nothin. Most likely I'd be lookin at his d*** cause I think they're weird and funny lookin :) But I never see any good lookin' guys naked except my boyfriend.

5-do all girls grow a little hair around their butt hole?

Well, butt holes are an area I stay away from! I wash mine, but I I've never checked it out for hair or anything. Hair covers most of the body so to answer your question, I'm sure every girl has a little hair there.

6-can you actually admit that you poop because a lot of girls can't?

Yeah. I think its dumb when girls get all shy and uncomfortable about that kind of stuff. It's normal to sh*t.. everyone does it.

7-why can't some girls admit that they poop? is girl's poop gross ?

I really don't know why they can't admit it. Everyones poop is gross, but everyone does it so it shouldn't be such a big deal.

8- what do you think of the types of girls who appear in those girls gone wild commercials?

SLUTS. HOES. 2 CENT WHORES. I feel bad for their parents.. they must feel like failures lol.

Rareity · Answer

1. Yes. But don't say girls are vain as a whole. All women are different. You have to understand when choosing someone for "boyfriend material" it's the same as you choosing a girl. Have you ever seen a girl that was sweet, but a little thick for your tastes and you thought, "I'd never date her?" How is that any different. Sometimes it's a front and sometimes some things JUST AREN'T compatible. If I meet a guy and he has dirty feet he is immediately crossed off my list. Now I even said I wouldn't date this one guy because his name was "Dryse." I mean wtf? That was his actual name. Come to find out I only thought I felt that way because I actually liked him and I made that excuse to convince myself I didn't like him when I did. Sometimes girls do it to protect themselves from rejection instead of because they are for real. You have to understand though, some little details will make or break you depending on the girl.The truth is if she really likes you she wont' give a sh*t in the end so no sweat.

2. I can't speak for all girls, but here's me. I want to feel like I "won" something. Or I am special. I don't want a really sweet guy who is a push over. I want a tough guy who has a warm sweet interior that I have to work to get to. This one guy I'm falling for, acts like he's an ass, but I'll catch him helping old ladies with boxes and little things like that. He has a good heart and only acts like a jerk to protect his feelings. He doesn't want to treat me like a queen because I may reject him. This is the kind of man I want, but eventually I would want him to treat me like a queen.. but I want to work for it, I don't want it just handed over to me on a silver platter, where is the fun in that? Girls who are with real jerks inside and out has to do with self esteem issues, they feel like they deserve to be treated like sh*t.

3. What? If I see a pretty naked girl I check out every inch I can see. I love the human body and I love to compare my body to her body. What does she have that I don't? Does she work out? Should I try and tone my own body to look better? Are her bigger breasts really more attractive then my small breasts and so on.

4. Believe it or not I am actually a lot less interested in seeing a naked man.. but I usually look straight to the chest. Does he look strong? Like he could protect me? Then the penis of courses, but not because size matters to me, but just because it's an immaturity thing. "Like oh look, ha, ha it's a willy!"

5. Oh yeah! I shave my little patch of butt hair, it's so annoying.. Stupid butt hair..

6. I take fat sh*ts.. Lol... Yeah I poop two times a day.

7. This is really dumb, but girls are so easily trained. We are taught when we are young that poop is gross and dirty. Boys love dirty, but girls are supposed to be clean and pretty. So if a girl won't admit to pooping and farting, she is afraid of rejection and not being accepted. I know it's really dumb.

8. I think it's cool for them, but not for me.

jrose · Answer

1. Some girls. Personally, and I'm being completely honest here, I might second guess liking a guy with a terrible hair cut or bad shirt, but if he impressed me before those things happened then all he has to do is be himself to re-convince me. And if he didn't, then he still has a chance, admittedly less of one, but still a chance.
2. I've been with some jerks and I KNEW they were jerks, my reasons were that I was either coming out of a relationship and didn't want to be alone or was feeling bad enough about myself that I didn't think I deserved better. I think a lot of girls fall into the same traps I did.
3. Depends on the girl, if she has nice boobs, then boobs, but if she has a nice butt I might notice that too. But generally, boobs first. (I am straight, just giving you the honest answers)
4. Kind of travel down him lol, from chest to penis.
5.Yup, as far as I know.
6. I CAN, but I don't really want to.
7. I assume it's the same as guy's, it's just that guys are socialized differently. You're taught that boogers, poo, blood, farting, burping and spit are funny, socially acceptable to talk about and engage in. Girls are taught that while those things are NATURAL, we don't need to talk about them or engage in them in public or even with anyone unless absolutely necessary ie medical reasons. Some of those things are easier to overcome, like the burping and spitting (which I have), but pooping is just kind of taboo for conversation/behaviour with girls.
8. Part of me is disgusted- why would you ever parade yourself like that and pander for attention from guys who obviously don't care about you at all, you're perpetuating the culture of objectifying women! Then there's the part of me that is amazed at those girls' level of confidence and security and pretty impressed that they don't let society dictate to them what's "appropriate" behviour for women- down with the damn double standard for sex! So I guess I'm full of disgusted admiration? I don't know, it's complicated!

BittersweetLover · Answer

1- Yes its true there are very vain girls out there, I however had a boyfriend once and I didn't really "make" him cut his hair... but he did it to make me happy after I said I hate his hair... LOl...

2-I don't know how to answer this question since every girl is different, my best guess is that they like some qualities of this "jerk" and the good out weighs the bad so they deal with it. But I think in any relationship one of the two people will bitch to their friends just to vent and talk about things they can't to their significant other, so the friends only hear the bitching and don't hear/know of the good things that make that person stay in the relationship to begin with.

3- Her face, then her body then go about my business LOL.

4- Look to see how well endowed he is.

5- Yes, some girls shave it though.

6- Yes, I poop.

7- Because its unlady like to talk about poop and farts but everyone even girls do it. And of course girls think poop is especially gross. Also some girls probably are too embarrassed to talk about it and/or think it will gross the guy out.

8- That they are having fun and are confident enough to flash the world LOL.

xXcheesecake · Answer

1. ABSOLUTELY!
Hate to break it to ya, babe.. but we can be shallow. We won't penalize a guy for dressing bad *one* day, but if this becomes a problem.. you're done. Bad haircut.. you are gone. I'm sorry, but its true.. Some girls, however, are not like this.. some don't care at all what you look like, but most do..
2. We like the idea of having a boyfriend, and we like the idea of having a tough guy to protect us, and we are always afraid to make the wrong choices. If we are with this jerk for a long time, we don't wanna get rid of him, because it seems like.. oh, we've been through so much together, I can't just throw it all away, blah blah blah.. and we don't want to believe that they are really jerks. We often convince ourselves to like certain people, or stay with certain people, because we are "supposed to".
3. Even straight girls will check the girl out, not because we are attracted to them or whatever, but because we are jealous, or checking out our competition or whatever.. We like to compare ourselvesss :P
4. Most girls will stare at his ass and his abs. Truthfully. If you don't have a nice stomach, no matter what else you got that is good, we will look away and not care. Same goes fro your butt. If it isn't cute, we will pass...
5. Oh yeah.. totally normal. Some of us shave, though. It can be a bit disgustingg.
6. hahahahaha. GIRLS POOP! just as much as boys do (:
7. A lot of girls think it is gross to talk about poop, and also gross to poop, but I am pretty sure our poop is just the same as yours. haha. We are suposed to be cute and ladylike and all that, and pooping doesn't sound very sweet. haha.
8. I think that those girls have very low morals and probably didn't have a good upbringing. I think that is just kindof disgusting and stupid. Do guys really like girls who act like that? yuckk.

MawyBee · Answer

1. Yes it's pretty true. But, only on first impression.. Generally girls like guys that have a haircut that suit there face, no matter what it is.. and the shirts don't generally matter, once it fits him nicely and makes him look buff..

2. Because simply girls like drama, but they love the idea of romance.. but when the romance isn't there and there is no drama.. then it's too quiet for most girls. So girls like to be with bad guys.. espc when it puts things into perspective.. they look forward to the good bits and appreciate them, because there are bad bits too..

3. At her?

4. At him?

5. Uhhmm, a little I guess. I'm not sure.

6. Yes I poop.

7. Because girls think that people won't like them and will think of them not attractive and gross if they admit they poop. It just depends on how the girl feels about herself.

8. I would love to look like lots of them.. And most girls would.. But, it varies..some think it's ridiculous.. but some think it looks fun.. and some are caught between both..

londongirl357 · Answer

1 - Yes, I'm sure some girls do that just like some guys would reject dating a girl just because she didn't wear hot enough clothes (granted, they'd still !@$* her probably).

2 - The bad boy is hot. Being a little bit dangerous and a little bit rebellious is sexy in guys just like it is in girls. Girls really do want to be treated well, but they want a guy who is a bit bad too. A nice bad boy?

3 - Don't look in changing rooms, that'd be betraying the trust. But if it was some other situation, I'd look at the curve of the waist/hips first - so hot.

4 - Back, chest and then down to stomach and then...

5 - Yes. But you can get it waxed off in a brazilian/hollywood wax.

6 - I don't really talk about it, but I can admit that yeah I took a dump this morning just like you did.

7 - Because it's not something that's very classy to talk about, it doesn't really come up in conversation.

8 - Ignorant/naive. They're cheap and desperate for attention because of low self-esteem, they need to be validated by horny drunk guys telling them they're bangable. They need to learn about self-respect.

Hope I helped =)

KJMiller · Answer

ok:
1. it would have to be a really bad Hair cut! and I mean really bad... There's only been one guy I ever turned down because of how he looked and that was because he was like a steve urkel in the dress department and he had really bad BO and I just couldn't take it!

2. as for dating the jerks, I've dated my share and I can tell you that I don't always realize how big of an ass they are, I know that sounds stupid. but when I date a guy I usually only see what I want to see. and even though I know he's treating me bad I will refuse to believe it. also some times the guy really isn't an ass, but a girl's not going to complain about a guy buying her flowers or talking her out to dinner... you're only going to hear about her bitching if he does something that she doesn't like.

3. and 4. ... I look at her boob and down to her hips... I like the shape of bodies and in fact I'm the same when it comes to guys. I'm all about the chest and abs. and I'm not going to lie I'm not a fan of seeing guys fully naked because seeing the dick just seems so...ugly I guess is the word I'm looking for... I'd rather see my guy in nothing but a pair of jeans.

5. O.o You know... I've never really check for hair so I couldn't tell you...

6. and 7. ... I sh*t... everyone sh*ts I have no clue why anyone would make such a big deal about that...

8. I've never really see the videos just the commercials on tv at night when there is nothing on... and I guess from what I've seen I think they're just girls who are having fun and being sexy adventurous but I'm sure most will regret it by the time they hit 40's and have kids.

budphillips · Answer

1-Is it true that some girls are so vain that they won't like a guy just because he has a bad haircut or didn't wear a cool shirt that day they will write him off as boyfriend material?

yes.

2-Why do you love jerks but say you want guys in romance movies ? I know a lot of girls who will date guys that treat them like crap for a long time and then bitch about them all the time but still date them for years.

those are girls that are in love with having a boyfriend, not actually their boyfriend. it happens a lot in girls between the ages of 15-20. they don't start wanting nice guys until they hit their early 20s, usually. it takes patience, but it's worth it.

3-where do you look when you see a really pretty girl naked?

i doubt girls really worry about this, they might check them out out of curiosity but they don't ogle them.

4-where do you look when you see a really good looking guy naked?

the same place you'd check out a really good looking naked girl.

5-do all girls grow a little hair around their butt hole?

...

6-can you actually admit that you poop because a lot of girls can't

of course girls poop. everybody poops.

7-why can't some girls admit that they poop? is girl's poop gross ?

insecurity. they'll grow out of it.

8- what do you think of the types of girls who appear in those girls gone wild commercials?

probably mixed between curiosity and disgust. just my .02.

Besu4 · Answer

1. Some girls are that vain. Unfortunately the only way to tell is to get to them better.

2. Most of US don't know why we do that. I think we feel like if we can get a "bad boy" and he changes for us that means he loves the girl he is with now more than any of the girls he was with prior. We like to feel like we are the only one in your universe for you. It's selfish, but read any romance novel and you'll know it's true.

3.Personally. I compare my breasts to hers. Then the stomach, then the thighs. All girls focus on what they are critical about in themselves when they see another woman naked.

4. His penis. That's something we ALL do.

5.I've never had a conversation with any other women about it. But I would imagine so, other wise the Brazilian Wax job wouldn't be so popular. It gets rid of any hair there.

6.HA. Well you can't deny that when you live with someone now can you? Our digestive systems aren't alien to a mans'. We weren't born with some unique skill that allows us to process all food in a flattering and feminine manner. We are just like you.

7.Ha. I'm not sure why you want to know? But most girls just don't want to talk about it. It's embarrassing to talk about something negative that we can't control. Ha.

Kelsey_3 · Answer

~~~I have had a boyfriend for a little over 2 years now, I don't know if that makes a difference on how you view my answers

1 - I think that a man should want to look nice for her woman, but their haircut is the least of my worries so long as they know how to style it.

2 - I have "the guy from the romance novel", but he also pulls off the bad boy too.. I always went for the bad boys before I decided to get serious.

3 - Umm... I don't really see a lot of girls naked other than occasionally on tv. In movies I always look at faces first, then butts and boobs.

4 - I look at guys' butts first ;D I am that type I guess lol. I really love green and blue eyes though too. Its kind of a toss up.

5 - Umm... VERY WIERD QUESTION! lmao! I know that girls have hair everywhere as do guys

6 - I think that this is a very immature question... Ya. Everybody poops... :-\

7 - Ummm... Same as #6 I guess...

8 - I think that they are fake! Girls don't really ever act like that... Even in college. Sorry!

Mesonfielde · Answer

Hairstyle is a key of physical attraction. If the hair sucks, then the whole image does. It's not vanity - the hair is really important.

but yes most girls don't take the effort to discard their first impression knowing that any person can have a bad day at some point. and clothing also adds to the image that you can find physically attractive, unfortunately. but behavior has a lot more to do with being boyfriend material, but they really can judge that in 20 seconds.

And girls don't say they want guys from romance movies. Romance movies are made to create false hope for the people to believe that it's all easy and anyone can get a girlfriend. But it is not so. Girls aren't necessarily looking for bad boys, however there are two things that are a factor for WHY they MIGHT want them instead.
1. Because bad boys are confident and interesting and not boring and have control and all that mainstream stuff people say and bla bla bla.
2. Because bad boys provide girls with a type of action that they hadn't experienced before. If girls were grown up with everyone around them being just nice to them, they will be used to that, and will be looking for something new. And that is what would fill the void.

By the way, they bitch about them because at that moment they feel like baaaaaaaawwwwing. but on the long run they
1. enjoy the fact that there is something to bitch about
2. like being with the person regardless of his "flaws".

But yes. Everything in terms of cognitive, physical and behavioural aspects of a male is analyzed by females and they make an assumption in about 20 seconds to determine if you have a fatal flaw that would make you not dateable.

sarahmichelle · Answer

1) Yes it is true, but on the same note there are men who will write a girl off because she work sneakers and jeans... so we shall just say there are people like that.

2) We may see the good in a person where others can not. Dumping this person then becomes a cheques and balances thing, "will he change, I don't want to be treated like this anymore, but I love him, I don't know what to do!"...which can last for years. Women may also do this because they are self destructive or simply immature women. Fear of being alone can also be a driving factor," yeah he's a jerk but its better than being alone".

3) In the mirror at my own body :P

4) chest, d***, chest, face, d***, shoulders, d***, face... and so on.

5) I don't know, I haven't seen all girls but holes :P, but I think its common.

6 + 7) Yes I poop? I think for women its not that they can't admit it, they just feel its an inappropriate topic of conversation and avoid it. All poop is gross, yours isn't made of cinnamon and sugar I'm sure.

8) I think they had a drunken night and they wanted a free teeshirt and made some bad choices as a result.

sabbasabba · Answer

1) depends on the girl! I know someone who dumped her boyfriend just because of the way he wore one of his shirts it was ridiculous! but she's a snob so that's probably a big contributor...

2) the guys I end up with are usually douchebags because those are the ones who are confident to go after girls and do something. I won't go out with someone whos too scared to talk to me, if you don't talk to me and are too shy to ever say anything or hang out how will I know you like me? plus this is a huge thing too guys always ask this question,

but in my experience this is what happens, the guys put on a HUGE act acting like they're "different" than other guys, and once they finally have your trust you see their true side and they're actually a douchebag and they've been putting on a HUGE act and lying... this always happens to me. They will bend over backwards trying to portray themselves as something they aren't! :/

these questions are kind of strange...

because its embarassing it isn't female "poo" that's gross its ALL of it. in general.

8) SLUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUTT! lol

shadowcat517 · Answer

1) Yes. Isn't it the same for some guys, too?

2) Bad boys make insecure girls feel special, then when they treat them like crap, they remind girls that they're the best they're ever gonna get, and, since they're insecure, they buy it because they think they can change him into their own personal Edward. That's the short version, anyway.

3) I look away, or look them directly in the eye.

4) The abs, shoulders, and back - I would use every fiber of my will to deter my curiosity and not look down.

5) Probably not ALL girls... I think the amount of hair girls grow anywhere varies.

6) What the heck? Of course I do; it's a natural body function. If someone flat-out asked me, I would blank-stare them. That's such an awkward question to ask, though...

7) It's un-ladylike, and the only time this would come up in conversation would be something where a girl wouldn't want to admit it's their mistake/smell/whatever. And all poop is gross. It's a compilation of everything solid that your body rejects, and it smells. Not exactly a pleasant thing for anyone to talk about, really...

8) If they're gonna be that sloppy with yourself and your appearance, I don't understand how anyone can take them seriously. It depresses me that girls would willingly do something so degrading...

I don't understand someone not wanting to answer 1 and 2, a little about not wanting to answer 3, 4, and 8, and completely understand not wanting to answer 5-7, especially face-to-face. We can do this here because you have no idea who we are or what we look like.

daniellispinelli · Answer

1. Girls aren't vain, it varies some girls may have a specifiv type where the always go for guys with similarities, for example the way they have specific haristyle or taste in music. Not all girls are likes this, like I tend to go for personality rather then looks of the guy. But you do get both females and males that do base things upon attraction.

2) Its not like we pick out the jerks, like you do come across really nice guys that we do meet and get into relationships with. In some cases when you get into a relationship and you don't no the guy well they may be nice and then they can sometimes turn into a jerk. My ex was a jerk but I've never said a bad word against him he was lovely but come to 6 months he completely changed.Its just the way things go. Everyone wants to meet that special someone in there life but it can takes ages and loads of relationships before you finally meet your match. However within reality sh*t happens that we have to deal with in order for us to find happiness.

3)im straight I don't look at a girls body but I recognise if they are pretty or not. But even the people that aren't pretty have nice features that stand out about them.

4) Again I don't really look at guys until I no I like them. When I do I tend to recognise there eyes and arms first its quite a weird combo.

5) think so

6)yesh girls do

&) agian girls keep things like that private

8)hmmmmmm

CuddlyCarla · Answer

I have to be honest with you. There are men out there that won't even be friends with a girl if they aren't attracted to her, so let's just admit there are some men and women who are superficial and lame and obviously those aren't people I'd pay attention to anyway. Secondly, girls aren't attracted to jerks or bad people. They are attracted to confidence, assertiveness, people who have independent minds, and who stand up for themselves, their women, and the things they believe in. These are qualities shy or nice guys rarely ever have. If given the choice of being with a nice person or a bad one, they would prefer nice. It's the qualities that tend to go along with those personality types that are attractive, not the negative characteristics. A lot of guys who describe themselves as "shy" or "nice" are really just using nice words to say they are fearful, and women aren't attracted to men who are afraid, especially of them. They like romance, too. The rest of your questions are pretty lame, so I'll stop there.

justme91 · Answer

1- What you are describing is not vanity, but simply a girl being shallow. however, this is a huge generalisation on your part, and it's not true. of course a girl will judge a guy on his appearance, but if there is chemistry, then it doesn't matter.

2- Women do not love jerks, they love the guy that happens to turn into a jerk. We all want the happy ending with the perfect romantic man, but this is real life and sh*t happens, even to the best people. you've just got to learn to live with it.

3- Why do guys seem to imagine that when alone girls just strip off? sorry to disappoint but girls do not often see each other naked, and if I saw a girl naked I would look away - that's the polite thing to do.

4- As I said before, if you see someone naked, it is most polite to look away, otherwise it's just uncomfortable for everyone. (unless it's a boyfriend, of course)

5- Everyone has hair all over their bodies - EVERYONE. in some places it's just fairer than others, and on different people.

6- I 'poop' - everyone poops, get over it

7- since when do you talk to girls about poo? girls are not going to enjoy that conversation

8- I think that they're drunk, and wild ?

and congratulations to you for posting anonymously. that's very brave of you

lulu1423 · Answer

well I don't no about all girls but my answers would be ...

1. a bad haircut does gve the guy personality and is usualy in the top 5 musts, but it does lose you some points if its bad. sorry

2. girls like the idea of jerks. they picture themselves walking in on them with another girl than running off and having you chase them begging for their forgivness. but it does seem to us being very seductive and mysterious or HOT.

3. we probably look at them then call them a slut and a whore than try to find their flaws and point them out to u.

4. where do you think hun?

5. umm .. not really and last time I checked there wasn't any there.

6. everybody does. and if you don't you need to see a doctor.

7. noppe. same as urs probably. its just embarrising when you talk to it about us. were girls not ur best friend. treate us with respect.

8. I think that their young and wild. and probably if every girl had a camera crew and those bodies and faces they would do it to. as long as everybody in their family were dead and couldn't witness it.

audreymarie21 · Answer

1.) if the guy is too shy to show me his personality, and all I have to go on his his appearance, then yes, a weird shirt or bad hair cut might turn me off to them. but let me get to know your personality and I will barely notice your appearance.
2.) I don't love jerks. of course every now and then I think my boyfriend is being a jerk, but he thinks I'm being a b*tch. people fight, it's normal. people seem to talk a lot more when things are bad, then they do when things are good. so it always seems like everyone is dating a jerk. take this website for instance, how often do you see a post titled "i love my s/o, they could never do wrong"
3.) her vagina, then everywhere else
4.) his d*ck, then everything else
5.) I haven't seen every girls butt hole.
6.) yes I poop? retarded question. everyone knows that every human poops.
7.) because they are retarded.
8.) all poop is gross dumb a$$
9.) lol I'm thankful that those cameras weren't around when I was a drunk 17/18 year old or else it would have been me up there! I think the guy that does that is a douche... I can't remember his name, but those girls are unable to think of the consequences at that age and under the influence of alcohol.

Is it true that some girls are so vain that they won't like a guy just because he has a bad haircut or didn't wear a cool shirt that day they will write him off as boyfriend material?

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