Do guys like extreme tomboys?

[hotshotgirl]

I am an extreme tomboy. Not like those girls who dress like boys but act like girls. I'm basically a guy in a girl's body. Do guys like that?

[asker999]

I have dated a few girls that were tom boys when they were younger before we met. They all grew out of it some and became more feminine in their 20s. I like dating them because I am really really really laid back. They didn't put the same pressure on me like other girls do. They were more laid back like me. It was more like hanging out. They liked sports and got along with my friends and family. The flip side is that because the relationship was so laid back, she didn't give off any signs about how things were. So the relationships took more open conversation.

My advice, just be yourself. Don't let guys take advantage of you. But be open to learning more about your feminine side. That doesn't mean you have to go all out with a dress and high heels and makeup. And it doesn't mean you have to do it tomorrow. But if you are open to it, in time you will probably find at least one thing that is more feminine that you could get into. Maybe it is the color pink, or a certain type of top other than t-shirts. You will probably be intimidating to some guys, so you will have to find a way to show your interest or they might not approach the subject.

But to answer your question. Yes, some guys will like that. But guys still want to know they are with a girl and not a guy.

[hotshotgirl]

I tried being more feminine but it didn't work

[asker999]

No one really knows what they are doing at your age. These boys you know included. Figuring out what does work is just part of growing up. Don't try to force yourself to change. Keep a good attitude and just keep trying. If one guy doesn't work out then move onto someone else.

[Phoenix98]

I don't see a problem with it, my first girlfriend was actually a pretty big tomboy, joined the army and everything. It can be attractive but this differs from person to person, it certainly wouldn't be a deal breaker or anything though.

[Anonymous]

isn't that like... lesbian? of course guys don't like that only thing in common is liking girls.

[hotshotgirl]

um i didn't know that was a lesbian thing cause i'm not

[Opinion Owner]

most extreme tomboy girls are lesbian aka butch orr they are just really harsh people in general.

[Jerusha]

Some guys do, but they are kind of rare. @Klatuu51 likes real tomboys lol

[Jerusha]

@klaatu51

[Klaatu51]

yay!!!

[Thewhitestdudeever]

It wouldn't bother me. I prefer girly girls though because that is generally what I am used to.

[badger25]

Well as you still look like a girl! I'd probably be into you

[Keyspirits]

there use to be a tomboy at ma school and i sure did fall for her ;3

[Anonymous]

Everyone has their own thing, but I'm personally really turned off by that. I like a girl that is the opposite of me; feminine.

[GrowStrong]

nope, i like girls not guys.

[AdamThomas]

No I like feminine women.

[SnowHearth]

I have some friends who do.

[Klaatu51]

yes it's sexy

[Anonymous]

No. Because "Extreme Tomboy" sounds dumb.

[GoldCobra]

Absolutely not

[babu_001]

Yep.

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[dsrice]

Yes, it is sexy.