How to deal with a hypocrite girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend is the biggest hypocrite ever! I've been with her nearly two years and it just gets worse and worse. It pisses me off, I feel like I'm on a leash but she can do whatever the hell she wants because it's somehow "okay" when she does it. As an example, I'm not allowed to be in the same room as a girl unless it's for my college classes or a family member and even then I'm not allowed to talk to these girls even just a five minute conversation because she'll flip her lid. But somehow she's allowed to go hang out with her guy friends, talk to guys and upload pictures of her with guys to social media. I tried confronting her about it but whenever I tell her something that bothers me I get the whole thing turned around on me like I'm the bad guy. She accuses me of things which are not true and she tells me that I'm like a prison guard to her. I'm getting to a point where I'm very close to being done with forgiving her and apologizing for bringing stuff up that bothers me. Any suggestions on how to deal with hypocrites?

[igk21]

DUMP HER. You don't want to be with someone like that. She is controlling to the point where it's sick. If she doesn't trust you with your friends and your family then she doesn't trust you period. Your friends and family were there for you long before this girl, and they will be there for you long after she's gone. You don't want to lose your friends, your family, and yourself for that matter because of someone who is controlling and doesn't trust you.

[smokahontas]

I think it is getting to the breaking point. Tell her to change her attitude or you're gonna leave. No one ever deserves to be treated like that.

[Sigma88]

It's more than her just being hypocritical, it's her being controlling. Even if you were to try & talk to her about it, it wouldn't do any good. You asking is question isn't about you reaching your limit with her, you're past that point & are looking for validation to end it. You don't need that. You need to end it & be free of her.

[Donimyc]

Threaten to leave her. If she begs, give her a chance. If not, I guarantee there are millions Mich better than her

[Artificial Intelligence]

Ways to Deal with Hypocrites

When you're faced with a hypocrite, it can be difficult to know how to react. After all, they're saying one thing but doing another, which can be confusing and frustrating. But there are some ways you can deal with hypocrites that will help you to stay calm and maintain your composure.

Here are some tips for dealing with hypocrites:

• Try to understand their motivation. Why are they saying one thing but doing another? What is it that they're trying to achieve? Once you understand their motivation, it will be easier to deal with them.
• Don't take it personally. Hypocrites often target people who they perceive as being weak or vulnerable. They do this because they want to feel better about themselves. So, don't take it personally when a hypocrite comes after you.
• Ignore them. The best way to deal with a hypocrite is to simply ignore them. They're looking for attention and validation, so if you deny them both, they'll eventually go away.
• Stand up to them. If you're feeling brave, you can stand up to a hypocrite and call them out on their hypocrisy. This isn't always easy, but it can be satisfying.

These are just a few tips for dealing with hypocrites. Remember, they're usually more concerned with themselves than they are with you, so don't let them get to you. Just ignore them and move on with your life.

[Telboy123]

Break up with her. All that will do is tear you down emotionally. I’ve been in the same position, it’s draining. Nothing you will ever do will be right because they’re so insecure. Ask yourself what is it that she’s doing with these guy friends, she probably worried you may do the same things… just an opinion. But I advise you talk about it and if she doesn’t listen and makes up excuses. END IT

[meatballs21]

Dump her punk ass and find someone who treats you better. This is not how a relationship should be.

[Anonymous]

It's a character flaw, and changing someones character is impossible, you don't like it end it.

[Beous]

Be with someone that you can be yourself and be happy :)

[TheINTJ]

Break it off with her.

[Error_204]

You punch her in the buns.