GIRLS SERIOUS QUESTION ASAP! If you really, really need money would you concider to escort?

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So My friend suddenly came up with this idea of an escort. She found a website and got informed By mail. You don't need to have sex if you don't want to, just go on a date, have dinner and a few drinks that's it. You get paid 200-300 euro's per hour. 
My friend get 400 euro's a month OCMW i don't know how they call this in  English , But bassically studente who doesn't get financially support from their parrents gets this. I don't cause my parents "earns to much". 
I work my ass of to get this same amount of money wich i find very frustrating at times, cause i pay everything myself, all The stuff i want, things i want to do, my school,.. This depressed me at times because iT so hard to combine work and school together. We always made jokes about Why we just don't be escortes so we get money easier and faster for a few hours But never did i know that this day Will come that She would really concider iT. 

I kinda want to do iT But also not because Truth always comes out. 
But i kinda really need the money :s 
I'm 21 my friend is 20.

Please be Nice it's not that i already done iT i just need advice. What would you do in my position?

Theshaft169 · Accepted Answer

I have to say , your expected to have sex. They say you go on these dates? Yea that's the cover. The date is meet for sex.
There's no going out on a date anywhere.
Now , I could say. You like sex so why not get paid ? Have some fun too.

Nothing wrong with a married man hiring a escort. Married men are clean. No std , s for the most part. They have a wife. The single guys playing the field are the ones you need to worry about having std, s.

Now , you can make good money online with out having sex. You can go on cms sites. Show and play with yourself. Masturbate. Keep your face out of the cam if you want. Girls are making thousand son there. Some win cam girl if the month. $5-$10,000 in bonuses. Now they do some wild stuff. Like lesbis ext. The younger 18 ye old girls make huge money. It's those old married men with money sending girls tops. The web site sends you money for those tips weekly.
Worth some thought. For you and friend Whos escorting.
I check cam4 some times im bored.
Have a look see what it's all about. Free.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If you think you're not expected to have sex then you are only fooling yourself.

These guys have message boards where they write about their sexual experiences with you.

First with your name, your height, weight, tattoos or not, whether you have a bush or you're shaved.

Then they list yes or no to specific questions like: Does this girl do anal? Does she swallow?

Then they write about it in a summary.

All I am saying is that this is a hard thing to get into but even harder to get out because I got addicted to the girls. But on the girls side, they lose all feelings with themselves because sex becomes meaningless and they resort to drugs to feel something more.

There are other ways to get money, but I recommend you ask God for help first.

vmw2008 · Accepted Answer

I think it's a quick fix to a temporary problem that will have lasting consequences.
1) Think about the type of men using this service. How will this affect your view point of men seeing the desperate, the sexist, the repulsive, the lying/cheating on their wives and families, etc. You'll see a side better left unseen for your future relationships.
2) Think about what you'll start to think about yourself using this service. You'll be forced to put up with all sorts of treatment because they're paying you to. You may have trouble remembering you deserve more when it comes to your own relationships.
3) This will be an incredibly difficult thing to reveal to your future partner

and last but not least, 4) If you really think you're going to make good money without prostituting, you're crazy. These guys are expecting sex. "Escort services" were a legal way to get around calling it prostitution. These guys expect you to put out or they won't go out with you again and you lose the client.

FlyingTurtle · Accepted Answer

If:
I was single
I got in writing that I was not required to have sex
I spoke with a superior of this company, whoever was setting this up, and got a very clear answer that I was not expected to have sex or provide any kind of sexual favors
I spoke with the man I was dating before the date and made very clear that anything more than a bit of kissing was off-limits, and he agreed to that
I spoke with the man before the date and let him know there was no guarantee I'd want to speak with him or associate with him outside of the date, and he was okay with that
It was in a public place the whole time
I spoke with girls who were already experienced workers and liked what I heard about how business was done

then maybe I would consider it.

bubble_tea · Accepted Answer

I thought it was just a fancier word for prostitution. And they worded it that way to not get into legal conflicts and to make the client feel desired. "oh she had sex with me because we had a lovely dinner together.. not because she had to" They say it's not mandatory, but it's expected or you won't get booked again. At least that's what I heard. A friend of a friend did escort and when I asked that friend if it's true that the escorts don't have to have sex... she laughed as if I asked the silliest question ever.

Brian-Brain · Answer

Hi.
I’m not a girl but I am someone with an opinion. Personally I have no problem with this work. It is just work. However these are the things I heard about it over the years
1. The money is addictive. Once people do it, it is hard to get out of because they get used to the money.
2. The people in the business want to keep you in that business. Being blackmailed back into it is a possibility.
3. Constantly being pressured to do more than just date. Because the real money is not in the just dating. Eventually the girls do have sex with the clients.
4. Clients putting something in your drink (without you knowing) so that you cannot resist having sex with them.
5. Never let anyone suggest you this work. I don’t who your friend is but she could be some recruiter for these people.
6. Girls disappearing.
My advise is to not ask it here but ask someone who is in the business. Ask it face to face or by phone. Because is not trust worthy. Don’t ask someone of management because they will tell you anything you want to hear. Ask someone who does the same as you want to do and only then make your decision. Good luck.

PS: There are other safer and more satisfying ways of earning money. For example lot’s of students do promotion jobs for clubs. If you have foreign language skills there are companies who need people like that. Just give it a thought.

linkywinky · Answer

No, if I was struggling for money between paychecks I would just suffer through as I have been. I usually find some way to at least feed myself once a day and that's what counts, right? If things get TOO bad I luckily have parents who aren't opposed to helping me out.

thetundrawolf · Answer

You will end up having sex.

Many escort customers not only will ask, they will expect it.

Is it worth the money to become a whore? Spreading your love across many men, some of whom you will never see again?

Your heart is valuable, and worth more than every penny (Euro?) in the universe. Keep it, and guard it. Work your ass off to make the money, but keep your body, and your heart intact and pure.

Innocence is hard to keep, but it is almost impossible to heal once you've lost it.

Jersey1 · Answer

That repuation and the impact of being one will follow you for the rest of your life. I would never have a wife that was an escort, or more bluntly, a whoe, prosititute... No, there isn't a difference no matter what you want to believe. I notice that the youngest girls on here say to do it but honestly they know nothing of life or consequences. The wiser women say no on here.

SpunkyLVR · Answer

I would never do it. I know how hard and stressful it can be when money is tight and I have had my fair share of unfulfilling jobs to make ends meet, but you can never get your past back and being an escort can be so dangerous. If you would like to talk more I would love to help... Feel free to message me if you want. Be safe and good luck!

harakiri · Answer

no. just don't. i had a friend who used to escort and some of the guys she met were -truly- repulsive people. don't get involved.

if you do it, then let someone know where you are and check in periodically. fucked up shit can happen.

Anonymous · Answer

If you honestly think you are not supposed to have sex, then you're naive.
As an escort, you will be fully expected to have sex. If you don't, clients will not want to hire you. It's that simple. You might get one client or maybe two, but once word is out that you won't fuck them, your new career is over.

Alej27 · Answer

If you are going to an event or dinner guess it's fine. As long as you don't get involved in something u don't want to or feel pushed either way your choice!

Sugardaddy870 · Answer

Tell her to become a findom then she doesn't have to have sex and probably make more money

Anonymous · Answer

Oh hon. I would do it if I really needed the money. Escorts here make up to $800 dollars an hour. But see there's different escorts. It doesn't have to be about doing it. Some are just for companionship. And I suggest you go through an agency.

BelleGirl21 · Answer

I wouldn't because I cannot fake enthusiasm for guys I find annoying or rude or creepy or boring...

Anonymous · Answer

You have to be careful with stuff like that because you never know who your client could be and you may end up walking into a dangerous situation. Just try and find a different kind of job if you can.

Meatball · Answer

I would do it if i didn't have to sleep with them why not

linahh · Answer

Yes, if it's safe as possible and if I really need the money.

Anonymous · Answer

I would do it without the sex! No sex! just take it as going out with a friend. One or two drinks not enough to get drunk.

kangy · Answer

Not worth it I wldnt want the deed to haunt me for life

Izzex3 · Answer

If it's safe, then yes I would. If it seems sketchy then no.

Anonymous · Answer

If you don't want your parents to find out.. dont do it.

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly yes if I needed money and had no other way I would do it

Anonymous · Answer

I'd suggest going to a website called adultwork if you are interested in that stuff

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