Did I blow it completely? Women help?

[Anonymous]

Would a girl that hasn't contacted a guy in a month still be interested? Quick story. I asked her co worker about her, later that day she passed on her number to give to me. We talked a lot the next couple of weeks. Then she texts me "Happy New Years I Love You xxxx". She liked me not even a question.

Anyways my phones crashes, lose all contacts. She didn't i text me during those two weeks of no contact. I get it back and we go on a date. It went beyond good. We're texting everyday after for a week. She texts first and texts goodnight and good morning. I go hang out with friends instead with her one night. Bam down hill after that. She doesn't text me much after. She flakes on our next hangout. Valentine's day we kinda go our separate ways. After that she ignores my texts. Until i text her that i enjoyed spending time with her and she is a great girl yet i think we need to go are separate ways. Then after 8 days of ignoring 3 text messages she finally responds. Saying she's been going through a lot, she shouldn't date anyone im an awsome guy, hopes we still can be friends. When i read that text, i was out with friends and had a little to much to drink and just deleted her number. I know childish. It's been a month since we last seen each other.

No contact from both parties. Anyways we work right next to each other. My friend who was outside said when she pulled up and she kept looking over where i usually work at while walking to her job. I was talking to the guy who gave me her number the other day and asked if she was ok? He seemed enthusiastic and said i tell her you where asking about her. My question as a woman would you ignore give the silent treatment to a guy you like? Even for a month?

[Anonymous]

She may not have been taking your get togethers seriously or she may have thought you weren't.

You say she always started the conversations, youve gone some time without contact and had mentioned going your separate ways..

I would have thought you were cutting me loose and that is not including whatever it was that she was going through at the time.

[Asker]

Only reason i told her we should go our separate ways, was because she was ignoring my texts. I wanted to meet up face to talk. But figured she was to mad to see me. I don't know i couldn't handled it better i guess

[BellePepper]

If she hasn't talked to you for a month I would move on. We're young but still don't have the time to waste an entire month in limbo. You sound like a nice guy so I'm sure there are tons of other girls who would be thrilled to date you

[Asker]

Thanks. I've been talking to other girls but i really like her and the way we connected on that date was amazing talked for 6 hours straight. We came up with other plans too. Ahh well i guess i need to learn a lesson, what ever that is lol.

[BellePepper]

Sometimes things work out like this. It's no ones fault or proof that one person did something wrong. It just didn't work out and that's okay. There's always next time!

[Asker]

You're right, it's going to be hard but I've had worse. Lol a lot worse but bounced back. I appreciate you taking the time though! But one day i might not have the air to keep bouncing

[BellePepper]

Dude you're only 25. You've got awhile. That's the most I'm putting in the pity pail.

[Asker]

I definitely forgot to put lol at the end. Why would you pity me? I had fun while it last. Just because it didn't go my way doesn't mean im mad. Just confused but like you said. It could've been ment to not work out :)

[BellePepper]

Sounds like a good approach