Me and my girlfriend are best friends. We spend all our time together. We have been together four years, and she means the world to me. But sometimes I feel like she doesn't care about me. She is really... Bland when it comes to showing me how she feels. She trys to avoid it all together. I feel like I'm not one of her top priorities. Like I don't matter at all. I've tried talking to her about this and all she ever has to say is "She cares about me and feels like she is giving me all her attention," or that "Shes sorry and she doesn't know what I'm talking about." When I bring anything important to me up she wants nothing to do with it. I have sat and told her how I feel for hours at some points and all she's responded is "Are you breaking up with me?" She doesn't participate at all.
Am I being unreasonable with my expectations? I just want her to at least pretend she cares about me. Maybe even tell me how she feels. Do you think it's possible she does not have the ability?
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It can be that she isn't a very affectionate girl... I have some gfriends that really don't like being affectionate or even talking about their feelings, because they feel that if they start talking about it they may become vulnerable and people could hurt them deeply.
Don't worry.. If she didn't care for you she would have dumped you long time ago.. A girl doesn't stay with a guy if she doesn't have feelings for him. Give her some time... Then probably she will feel more comfortable talking about her feelings.. Really..DON'T WORRY
There's many girls out there that seem to have a stone cold hard when really they have deep feelings, the problem is they don't know how to show them.