Girls, is my stepdaughter flirting with me?

[Anonymous]

My 18 year old step daughter seems very flirtatious when she's around me alone. She often stands or sits very close to me, so I can feel her chest on my body. She looks me right in the eyes when she does it and stares longer than normal. I can't figure out her intentions, if any, or what she is up to?
Any of you girls with step fathers know about this? What would be the right thing to do?

[far2gud4u]

tell your wife she is making you feel uncomfortable... tell her you love them both but it feels a little inappropriate. Another option is to hide a camera and get it on tape so if your wife protests you have the proof?

I know its not easy :(

[Asker]

Thank you. don't really want to go the camera route. But as a last resort it might be the solution.

[far2gud4u]

Well talking to your step daughter isn't the best route as she can cry all sorts of things to get between u n her mum. Teenage girls handle rejection viciously

[Asker]

Right! A good conversation with her mom seems to be the way to go.

[CHARismatic110]

My "stepdad" has been in my life since I was 2. I w
could never think of him like that. Your best bet for now is to keep ignoring her. Make it 100% clear nothing will ever happen.

[Asker]

That's exactly what I'm doing. Hope she'll understand at some point.

[CHARismatic110]

Yeah, fingers crossed. Thanks for MHO.

[Anonymous]

OMFG you're fucking sick she's not flirting with you it's your Perverted mind who think she is !!! THE RIGHT THING TO DO ITS TO SLAP YOUR FACE WAKE UP AND REALIZE THATS MORALLY WRONG!!! To even think about that

[Asker]

Sorry to infuriate you like that. I might have explained myself wrong, or posted under the wrong category. I would NEVER even consider going that route with her. Not a chance in hell! She's an awesome person who I've had in my life since she was 5, and I love her as much as if she was my own flesh and blood.
I just don't know what goes on in the mind of a late teen girl, as I've never been that myself.

[Opinion Owner]

Well honey listen she's not into you she if something 18 it's the age when a woman starts developing and feeling more confident. Please don't get this confused or thinking that she's into you more like she sees you as a father

[Opinion Owner]

And the right thing to do it's ignore her give her the cold shoulder so she knows YOU HAVE BOUNDARIES AND YOU DONT WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH HER

[Asker]

Thank you. That's what I'm doing. I walk away when she starts doing that stuff she does.

[Klxoe]

Yea it seems like she is maybe gesturing that she would like to have a better and more closer relationship than just step dad and step daughter.