How can I trick my girlfriend into having sex with another Guy out of her own choice?

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I've told her many times I'd give my left arm to see her have sex with someonelse. She said I'm sick minded but I'm not. Personally I view her as innocent but sexy looking so I think her being 'exploited' turns me on.
I think I'm slowly breaking her down but it feels soo slowww. she's asked me if she ever was to consider it whether I would stay to watch and if I'll be happy if she does it... In the past week I've asked a gazillion times but at the back of my mind I feel guilty. 
How can I make her want this and speed up the process? 
This is all I think about when im around her now. Is there anything I can do to reassure her it will go swiftly? What is her reasons for saying no other then feeling like she's cheated.
One last thing is, pretend you were my girlfriend what would u trade with me for this (within reason)? Is there any incentives like a gift?

ThisGurl · Accepted Answer

ummmm hmmm! I think that it does not interest her, and she may not like you having sex with another girl... almost like "Treat others how you want to be treated".

If I were your girlfriend... ummmmmm I would not want to trade anything, because that would consist of me wanting to have sex with another guy.(Which in her case, from what it seems like, sex is more intimate than something you see in porn) I don't know... what if she likes it with him? Aren't you afraid of her falling for him or something? hm

Vesuvius87 · Accepted Answer

If a boyfriend were to keep insisting for me to participate in any threesome whether it's him with other women or him wanting to watch me have sex with someone else, I would really reconsider the relationship and break up fast.

In fact, the more he kept trying to pressure me into sharing me the more I would feel so disrespected as if I'm not good enough. Personally, I'm not into sharing nor getting shared. If someone has to be with others, then I don't think that's a serious, commited relationship.

playdatesx · Accepted Answer

Listen to me very closely.

First of all, it's not unusual or unheard of to have a fetish like that, I'm not judging you. However, you can't make someone get into what you're into. If they're not comfortable, you can't do it, and you just gotta accept that. She doesn't exactly need a reason other than she's not comfortable. If she's not comfortable, she's not comfortable. It's as plain and simple as that.

thatsjustdandy · Accepted Answer

Fuck you, stop manipulating your girlfriend. If she doesn't want to, she doesn't have to. She doesn't need a reason. She doesn't want to, that's her reason.

You are sick-minded. Not because of your fantasy, but because you would even think of coercing her into doing something sexual that she doesn't want to do.

WiseTruth · Accepted Answer

go see a shrink dude. Its not normal. But there are guys like this who enjoy this kind of stuff. It is because they want this other man to tell him what a man he is that he has such a girlfriend. It is a huge inferiority complex which stems from childhood. You will never feel satisfied or happy, just gratified for your ego. Don't do this to a girl

Bandit74 · Accepted Answer

Lol, I really don't see the appeal to this but good luck.

TyraMayes · Answer

Shouldn't pressure her if she doesn't want to then dont force it your fantasy isn't really going anywhere so just push it into the back of your mind for the next relationship or somthing but yeah don't annoy her to do it if she doesn't want to cause you might push her to do it and you'll never know the later outcome that has

Rainie_ · Answer

Don't pressure her to do something she's uncomfortable with. Seems like she's just not into that kind of thing, and you'll probably have to find another girl if you really want this.

Anonymous · Answer

Dump her. It's the best way to guarantee she'll sleep with another guy!

karahiri · Answer

TOO MANY PREPOSITIONAL PHRASES. [does not compute].

BubblyMaria · Answer

My ex asked me for the sane thing. I also considered it but never did it.

Anonymous · Answer

Seriously? You are basically offering to pay her to have sex with another guy!!! You need to learn how to treat people with respect.

foxxychic · Answer

omg this is so funny.

OrangeBoy · Answer

Get another kind of girl. She's not into that.

Anonymous · Answer

you are WHITE right?

How can I trick my girlfriend into having sex with another Guy out of her own choice?

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