My girlfriend looks Butt-Ugly without make up and good with it what should I do?

[Anonymous]

When I SAY ugly it means she looks a little lower then average. I always knew she put on a lot of make up but I never knew it was because she was trying to cover up the mess she had. I feel like I've been lied to. She stayed at my mums house and was in the bathroom cleaning up before sleeping. She came out and BOOM there it was. She had acne and she didn't look near as sharp as before. I didn't say anything and tried not prolonged stare at her but she notice my off behaviour which was why I watched TV and let her sleep so that I could avoid the situation. Does she know I'm shocked? She did ask what's wrong because I was silent plus staring. I don't know what to do the change is drastic and I'm thinking of your offering a new skin care type thing I actually don't know what to do?

[Errhh]

If you couldn't notice her acne with makeup on , i feel sorry for you.

All people who have acne, can only make it MORE visible with makeup. The only difference with it being, that without the makeup they look redish. but with makeup, although redishness is covered, the bumps on the face are unmissable!! Unless you NEVER saw her up close before that night? which would be ridiculous cause of course you've seen her up close. ... so ultimately, you knew she had acne, and secondly, you're the type of guy who is attracted to girls who wear a shit load of makeup, so get used to the awful transformation you'll be stuck with at night and first thing early mornings xD lol D:

Anyway!!! this only proves you only liked her based on looks, and therefore you can conclude that you don't ACTUALLY like this girl, you were purely superficial in dating her. That's awful.

A lot of guys are attracted to that type of girl. (ones who wear a ton of makeup) That's what you like..
poor guys.

[Araya]

Why say anything? You might look repulsive to her period and she might be with you because of something else.

If you, for some reason, NEED to say something, why not say "I love it when you dress up in make up and cute outfits". That way, you're not pointing out her face.

Or you can buy two skin care product packages so that she won't feel like you're simply telling her that she needs to clear acne (one for yourself and her). Tell her you got a good price for it.

[XRabbitHeartX]

If you aren't attracted to her then do her and yourself a favor and end things. I'm perfectly sure she knows she has acne and for some it's very difficult to get rid. If you can't find the beauty in her despite her acne then you're not the right guy for her. Acne doesn't change her. It doesn't take away her good features. It's just her skin. If that's so difficult for you to accept then she should have the chance to find someone who will adore and appreciate her.

[Sportygal111]

But to be fair you have to admit acne or any "flaw" that appears would make someone less attractive, like if a guy you were dating out of nowhere took off his wig you thought was his hair because he never showed nor told you about it, and you didn't like bald guys as much as you prefered hair, you'd think they're less attractive

[XRabbitHeartX]

@Sportygal111 I'm 100% sure that if her acne was SO bad and hideous looking he would have been able to see it through her make up. Make up can only do so much. Unless she has a airbrush machine.

[Poppykate]

I have the opposite problem. I don't wear makeup day to day. So when I do, the guy I am dating is usually floored. Back to your problem.

She needs to give her face a rest. Go without makeup for a while. Maybe a month or two. Get treatment for her problem. Allow her skin to breathe and heal itself. She needs to starts a twice daily beauty cleansing routine.

[Jaron29]

I tell you what you should do, Love her.

As for her skin problem, you can introduce your skin product to her but do so in a kind and gentle manner with an accompaniment of praises. Just be sensitive to her emotions is what I meant to imply essentially.

Yeah, this simple it is.

[ak666]

Sounds a bit superficial to me. Her body looks the same, right? I doubt she uses make-up there.

Acne is mostly just a youthful thing. You don't see older people typically have (mid-20s onward).

How about try to get over it? I'm sure she also tries skincare and all that.

[ak666]

s/superficial/shallow/

[Miss_Confused]

Well make up can be a great mask, so I don't blame you to be surprised after seeing her real beauty, however, there is no need to be nasty.

If she wears a lot of makeup she is obviously insecure about her looks.

It's ok if you aren't attracted to the real her without makeup. It also shows you care more about her looks than persona. Let her go but be gentle!

[heywhisper]

Wow man.. harsh much? you sound vain as hell. She can't help what she looks like and makeup probably makes her feel confident and sexy. If you don't like her face without makeup then gently break it off and find someone else. She deserves a man who sees beauty in her with and without makeup.

[Peachy7]

You obviously don't love her for her. If you don't like the real her, then break up with her. She doesn't deserve you, it shouldn't matter what she looks like.

[redeyemindtricks]

Dude, just wait until you find out that she farts, and has armpits that smell, and takes shits, and stuff.

It's like she's actually NOT a Stepford Wife robot.

Who knew.

[ted22]

WTF women do those tthings? Are you ladies human beings too? I no longer what to be in this world if this is true :)

[redeyemindtricks]

@ted22 Yr innocence, kid. Today's the day the last shred of it falls off. LOL

[ted22]

Hahaha, don't tell me you all deserve equal pay as well cause I'm jumping off a building.

[redeyemindtricks]

@ted22 Oh, I hate that shit. I hate any and all "let's compel de-facto equality for _______" movements. Dude, I'm female and Native and Latina, so that's at least triple-seething-hate, right there.
All that does is ensure that those of us who CAN hold our own, without an artificial boost, won't be taken seriously.

Besides, we're totally there already. content.time.com/.../0,8599,2015274,00.html You HAVE seen that study, right? Right? lol

[ted22]

I'm fully aware, I was actually being sarcastic. Lol I do agree with your last point tho.

[redeyemindtricks]

@ted22 Obvs sarcastic, but, yeah, I really do not like that stuff. Nope. It's very limiting. Totally caters to the lowest common denominator, and all that.

[Aquariusmystery]

Firstly, women wear makeup for themselves and not you. Maybe she was just insecure and wanted to look nice. Also, are you really that shallow that you're put off by her natural face? She deserves someone better than you.

[-perfeect-]

In my opinion you shouldn't be going out with someone cuz they look buff or cute or pretty or whatever. You should be going out with someone cuz of their looks you should go out wiv Dem cuz u like dem..

[laughingdeer]

Accept her for who she is. You love her right? Never start liking a girl just because she looks good due to all that makeup.

[Darkbrunette96]

(No one is perfect, if it really bothers you then end your relationship.) Sometimes what matters what's in the persons brain and heart too. Looks are very important too so I understand.

[orphan]

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[Just_Meee]

Acne is actualy more noticeable with makeup caked onto it.

[tolmbyy]

Sell her into prostitution and find another girlfriend

[I_am_repulsive]

You should grow up dude

[Anonymous]

So you went out with Halle Berry but end up with Halle Scary?

[daintydollface]

Reality check...

[Polocrew]

Dump her lol

[skeptic007]

yup I agree

[Dog19]

Break up