Girls, Do Male Strippers get Fully Naked?

[Anonymous]

my girlfriend is going to a friend of her's birthday party on Friday and they are going to have strippers there. What goes on with male strippers? Have you been to a party with them?

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Some other girls please

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Just wanted to bump this up for my opinions

[redeyemindtricks]

If yr girlfriend's party is at a CLUB, then, you have nothing to worry about. Clubs are SUPER rulesy, and they are pretty no-bullshit about following the rules, too. (Not because they have airtight morals, or anything... but, rather, because they understand that violent aggrieved boyfriends/husbands are bad for business).

If it's a private party at a private location, then, there are no real rules other than the decorum/atmosphere of the party itself.
* If the girls at the party are classy women with respect for their relationships -- AND if they do not drink to excess or use mind-altering drugs in these kinds of situations -- then, again, you have nothing to worry about. Class begets class, trust can be trusted, etc.
* If the girls at the party are... uh... less classy, or if they tend to get shitfaced, then, who knows what will happen and with whom. These situations can get out of hand pretty quickly, especially if there are one or two more aggressive women setting the tone and egging the others on to push the envelope of doing things they'll later regret.

As for how I know these things -- I've been to a couple of parties myself, with the aforementioned "classy" crowd.
As for the others... My husband was an exotic dancer for about 13 years. He was in revues, he worked at some clubs, and he did private parties, among other things. Ohh the stories that boy has to tell.

On the other hand, to be honest, if yr girlfriend is the type to hang with the less classy crowd -- or if she's the type to get shitfaced at parties -- then, well, mb you should question whether she deserves to be yr girlfriend.

[Asker]

She is kinda classy but she does drink a lot with her girlfriends and one of them is pretty wild

[Asker]

So what are the stories of the girls that drink a bit

[redeyemindtricks]

If that's true, then, this is simply a matter of trust between you and yr girlfriend.
I mean, look, let me shoot straight with you here. This situation is more sexually charged than most, yeah. But, if yr girlfriend is hot, she's getting every bit as much male attention -- and she has every bit as much opportunity to capitalize on it -- pretty much EVERY DAY.

Srsly. If yr girlfriend is hot enough to draw consistent attention, then, there's really nothing out of the ordinary about the "sexual opportunity" factor.
This is a hard thing for guys to understand, but, you have to understand it. If you can trust her in general, then, you should be able to trust her at a party, too.

That said, there are 2 things you should thikn about, here.

1)
How much does alcohol affect her judgment?

2)
This "wild" friend of hers... how PUSHY is this friend with OTHER women? And how much influence does she have over YOUR girlfriend?

The perfect storm of awfulness here would be if

[redeyemindtricks]

the answers are 1) "a lot", 2) "very pushy" and "a lot".
In that case... you have something to worry about, here. But even then it's still a matter of trust, and YOU have to decide whether you trust her enough. If you don't, then... what kind of "girlfriend" is this? Do you really have a relationship at all? You might have some painful realizations to make, in that case.

As far as stories, I'm not really up for writing a shit-ton of lurid details at the moment, since you can probably imagine those.
But, the essence is this:
Women can be pushy spoiled brats. Especially hot young women, who are, frankly, used to getting what they want.
Get a crowd of those together in the same place, and get them liquored up, and they can get VERY pushy.
Put them together with someone whose job is to entertain -- in a situation where there's no supervision, and where the definition of "entertainment" is fluid -- and you get a situation in which the GIRLS can pressure the

[Asker]

Would be if?

[Asker]

Oh... Sorry did not see 2nd message

[redeyemindtricks]

entertainer into lots of things.
Partially it's the pressure of business -- he's there to entertain them, for money, and he doesn't want to disappoint. Partially it's the usual masculine pressure to perform (what guy would want to feel like he couldn't "perform" for a crowd of women?). But, yeah.
The worst of it happens when the WOMEN are pushing the situation further and further. And that can happen a lot more often than you think -- especially if the entertainer (s) have that whole masculine pride thing going on, where they couldn't possibly say no to something like that. You get me.

Even if the party devolves into something like that, it's still perfectly possible that yr girlfriend could sit out the, um, festivities. Again... trust.

[Asker]

Do you mean like sleeping with the girls or them giving blowjobs or handjobs?

[redeyemindtricks]

I see that you're trying to torture yourself here. You should probably stop that.

Grabby-grabby is normal, and at least *some* groping is more likely to happen than not. As far as that is concerned, I'd just say deal with it -- in the big picture, seriously, who gives a shit.

Hand jobs? Haha, what are we, 14 years old again? Lol.

Blow jobs are where you could draw the line between "normal" and "out-of-control trashy chicks".
Actual fucking would be even more rare.

[Asker]

So I guess at least a handjob should be expected. Do the girls expect the guy to cum for them?

[redeyemindtricks]

Lol, that is so totally not what I meant there.

"Hand jobs? Haha, what are we, 14 years old again?"
^^ this... meaning, "hand jobs" are a thing that basically just... isn't a thing anymore, now that we are adults. I mean, a "hand job" is basically THE ONE thing a boy could absolutely do for himself better than any woman could ever do for him, right? Lol.
Dude, I've been married for 15 years and I'm basically a nympho sex addict, and I don't think I've even given my own husband a "hand job" before. Hahahah.

At 95 percent of these things, the limit is a little bit of grabbing and groping, through the dude's g-string or whatever. (Most women still wouldn't want to touch a naked penis, even if they WOULD grab it through his clothing.)

Rare that they would get all the way to the point where the dude would cum.

Again, STOP TORTURING YOURSELF.

[redeyemindtricks]

Tx for the MH luv. <3

[Asker]

Anytime :)

[Anonymous]

I've never seen them get naked. Usually it's mostly drinking, the guy dances around a little, everyone giggles, a few people (especially that crazy old auntie" put dollar bills in the straps of his g string and he leaves and people eat apps and drink more. It's pretty PG-13.

[Asker]

Have you seen them more than once?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, a handful of times.

[Asker]

So you haven't seen anything get crazy before?

[Opinion Owner]

Not sexually. People drinking a lot and eventually falling down or puking - I've seen that a few times.

[Asker]

So no girls like getting drunk and getting into lap dances that much?

[Opinion Owner]

Lap dances, not so much. Getting drunk - it depends on if they are drinkers or not.

[Asker]

Interesting

[Jenn1991]

Well if this is in Canada the guys in both clubs and parties get fully naked. Depending on which province you live in.

[Asker]

Guess you are Canadian? Have you been at both clubs and parties? What's it been like?

[JennieF]

Yes they do!