Girls, what makes a guy physically hot?

[Anonymous]

What is it about his looks that makes him hot? Also, could you find yourself attracted to a guy who is considered average looking by societal standards?

[Anonymous]

Great smile, being fit, no receding hairline, and good hygiene lol.

To answer your second question - societal standards don't matter when it comes to attraction because everyone has a different idea of what is attractive. I mean, my sister and I are related but we have completely different taste in guys and she doesn't understand how I could possibly find a guy attractive (and vice versa). Just be yourself and don't worry about where you fall in the "societal standards" rating. I know that sounds trite but you want someone to like you for who you are and what you like, etc.

I'll add "confidence" to that list above. Good luck!

[cherrymarina]

I've always liked guys with a good looking face. I don't care much about the height or muscles. If he has a sexy personality, if he is my type in terms of his personality he is already the hottest man out there. At first there must be some attraction, the next step is his personality if that's also there -> hot man. Very hot.

[Asker]

What personality traits do you like?

[cherrymarina]

sense of humour, generosity, protectiveness, sweetness, manly and boyish at the same time. Sense of humour is very important to me... I can be my grumpy self and he says something funny and I instantly have a smile on my face. Can't stay angry for too long :D Tough to describe like this, each person is different and has a different set of qualities that you find attractive.

[cherrymarina]

Thank you for choosing my answer! :)

[Anonymous]

You could find yourself attracted to anybody no matter what they look like, sometimes the physicality of somebody is not even why they're attractive though. In the end if all that is there is physical attraction it will never work out, it needs to be deeper.
Try growing a beard if you can, or change up your hairstyle for something new.

[Anonymous]

Personally, if you just take care of yourself, and be kind to your body, that's all I care about. It's more of how you treat us. And if the "societal standards" boy treats me kindly, yes I could. Being attracted to someone also depends on your lifestyle. I like to live a very active lifestyle and could not see myself with someone who does not. Honestly, do and look how you want to look. Confidence is where you will find the courage to find someone who loves you for you.

[Anonymous]

Posture.

Absolutely! The things society looks at as attractive are not necessary that I find attractive at all!

[Asker]

Posture is a good one.

[Anonymous]

amazing or hot face, nice body, tall, has a nice walk, big hands, broad shoulders, not balding.

[Anonymous]

tall and muscular and yes it happened more than once