Yes it is true. Just look how many vocal young men all over the internet that say they never had sex or a girlfriend or in a recent my take how older women blame men love for porn as causing a problem in the bed room.
Now what this means is overall 40% of men will be able to secure a girlfriend. Most relationship don't last and some girls might give the remaining 60% of men a chance at dating. This means that on average 60% of men will be able to find love around the teen and 20's year.
Now as women get late 20's and over something called biological clock kicks in. Women who say they never wanted kids start having baby rabies, women see friends and people they know getting married and they want that too. They start realizing the guys who will fuck them will not commit to them. They also begin realizing that they aren't getting prettier each year and less and less men want to commit to them.
So they lower their standards and dip into 60% of male. These guys now get a chance which is why many men experience a sudden increase in interest from women in their 30's. The hot guy these girls are swooning over either let themselves go or are lock down. They know they aren't going to get any prettier and each year get less attractive so they have to move quick and secure a mate unless they want to end up a lone cat lady.
The result is men in 60% who got no play in their teens and 20's get a chance with women but have to pay the full price for the pussy. What this mean is while a frat guy could have gotten her with some game, few bears at a party. You have to wine and dine her ass, give her gifts and wait on when she think you have been good enough to get sex.
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I voted Yes. I have friends who are considered very handsome womanizers. All women want them except when another friend of mine is around. He is not as handsome as them but will put James Bond to shame in getting women. He's in his mid 30's and he must have slept with over 250 women in his lifetime. When women hear about this they just forget about any other guy in room. Including the other very handsome womanizers. And within the hour he will have one and yes sometimes two women going home with him. I have seen it with my own eyes. And when I ask how he does it he says he doesn't know.
I also read about this experiment on a dating site where a guy had two profiles. One was like himself. In the other he pretended to be this guy that had a different women every week. The same women that rejected his normal profile threw themselves at his fake profile.
I guess women want a man that is desired by other women.
Do you think the 80/20 rule is true for women?
B. No
Why?
Studies show that it's generally males who go for the top percent. Take OkCupid's data Your Looks Your Inbox showing 2/3 of men go for 1/3 of the most attractive gals. The data showed that even though gals found most guys unattractive they still pursued a vast majority of males.
It can go both ways smh...
I find it kinda funny that men have such high expectations of women but when their own game is played against them they suddenly whine and complain about how artificial women are and blah blah, guess hypocrisy never fails to stand it's grounds and show itself when it comes to men lol.
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Yes and no.
The rule is true on a solely physical, hedonistic level. Aka what makes panties wet. Why? Because women have a tendency to think in a hivemind. If one woman thinks a man is attractive and displays that attraction, more women will think the same. Additionally it's a fight for social hierachy as well as the childish "I want the toy that someone else has".
Any guy who was in a happy long term relationship will know that once he was taken, he got approached a ton more.
It is not true anymore when there are more aspects coming into play such as emotional bonding, affection, love.
Presuming it is accurate, pretty much the same rule would apply to men, but may be 70/30.
Most men are hypocrites in this arena. They complain the women they are attracted to are not willing to "give them a shot", but will justify turning down easily attainable women they are not attracted to. They are not willing to make the same exception they want from the women they lust after.
Then the other segment are pussies and afraid to take a risk and approach a woman in fear of being rejected.
It also means that below average women (looks and personality) date the 20% of guys every girl wants to date.. like really? Women have it also difficult when it comes to dating and u can't generalize that anyway. Just take the responsibility that it is mostly your fault that u aren't getting what u want and work on that instead of always blaming "the others or society". I know it's not always fair like some people are born with rich parents or have better gens but u should ignore that and play out your strengths. Then u can form your life the way u want
No----If the 80/20 rule was applicable than 80 girls will go for 20 boys. So 1 boy will have 4 partners. Now the other way round 80 men will try to match with 20 women. So one women will have 1 partners. This rule is completely out of tune and assumes rigidity. I believe in the law of demand and supply and the law of equilibrium because I was an Economics Student. Some people may believe in the law of chance.
OKCupid did a survey and proved it was true. Men's ratings of women, meanwhile, followed a bell curve as you would expect.
I would highly doubt I am in the top 20 percent of men, and I don't have a problem with women.
And even if I was, somehow, unaware of it, in the top twenty percent, there's no way 80 percent of women are available to me.
Who I like might not necessarily mean my best friends like. Vice versa for them.
It's true I believe. None of my girlfriends have been babes or anything.
There's some truth to it
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