Do girls like sad men?

[helphelpimdying]

I sad a lot and sometimes i try to act sad around girls so they will feel bad for me and love me or something. Yes this is and has been my last resort to getting girls for a while.. i dont think it worked.

[xxmamichulaxx]

Well your username definitely makes this question more believable. Personally, I'll try and cheer someone up if they're sad or want to help them out with any issues but I don't want to date someone who's sad all the time , that'll just rub off on me and bring me down too.

[helphelpimdying]

girls cheering me up/ help out of issues is exactly what i want. basically attention. anyways, yes i made this account when i was depressed because a girl got a no contact order on me. (the first question i asked)

[luvstoned4him]

If you are talking about depression then it can be a let down. Depending on how often it offers but tempory sadness happens. If I had a friend or boyfriend who was sad often tho, I would try my best to make him happy

[RJGraveyTrain]

In general, acting pathetic doesn't inspire people. Turns you into that wounded puppy they wanna fix, not the guy they wanna date.

[ak666]

Sounds incredibly sub-optimal. You're probably singling out some girl who has a very strong nurturing side at best, but you'll also have to simultaneously attract her sexually. It's quite a feat to inspire both pity and attraction at the same time.

[ak666]

The one case where I think this might kinda work, but still seems dumb to me if you're thinking it's a good way to get girls, is if you're sad because you're a widow... like a former husband who is so sad because his wife died. That might inspire an instinct in girls where they're not only nurturing, but thinking this guy is so incredibly loyal to his deceased wife.

[ak666]

In that case they might become attracted thinking that incredible devotion to the deceased wife will transfer to them. You'd probably still have to be kind of a badass though who mostly hides this vulnerable side to have a decent chance of attracting.

[helphelpimdying]

this doesn't sound like an easy way to get girls :/

[ak666]

[...] is if you're sad because you're a widow[er] [...]

>> [...] this doesn't sound like an easy way to get girls [...]

Yeah, I was just trying to think of a scenario where you might be able to inspire pity and attraction at the same time.

Really think it's easier if you just avoid showing sadness so much around girls. Don't try to inspire love through pity.

[helphelpimdying]

thanks

[ak666]

About girls liking sensitive guys, I think it's sort of hogwash. At the very least you're targeting a very small minority of girls if you try to play the sensitive angle.

I think what most girls mean when they say they want a sensitive guy is really a guy who is willing to sometimes take off his analogical armor when he's close and intimate with her, showing that he trusts her with his heart.

It doesn't mean the girl is going to fall for a guy who never wears any armor in the first place and is sensitive and vulnerable all the freaking time.

[MagiAlphaOne]

Yes. Women are attracted to the "silent and brooding" type of Men.

www.dailymail.co.uk/.../...-attractive-ladies.html

[Browneye57]

Ah, the sympathy fuck. No, being sad is not really gonna draw in the good ones.
Girls are looking for strength and leadership - they are biologically wired to do that.

And really, no well adjusted adult wants to babysit another adult. So all that requires anyone to do that is a huge red flag.

So, hit the gym, hard, make lots of money, and you'll have pick of the best.
And work on your game. Look up Illimitable Men and Rollo Tomassi, both are good blogs for being a real man.

[kelenz]

maybe they can see that you are faking it... you shouldn't do that.. just be friendly and you will be fine

[disgustingweebtrash]

>i try to act sad aroudn girls so that they will feel bad for me and love me or something

https://i.imgur.com/dptHldO.png

And you honestly thought that would work?

[karahiri]

i think i kind of liked that in high school. the emotional type. now i know better.

[Slytherclawette]

If you're gonna pull the 'sad guy' card then make sure that it's the sexually tense vampire/emo sad that always gets girls hooked on the romance.

[gigi5678]

no and that's really bad of you to do that it's dumb as fuck

[xDocilexFaeriex]

You're 13 and you know better... I'm glad :)

[gigi5678]

@xDocilexFaeriex haha thank you

[xDocilexFaeriex]

You're welcome, hun. Do well this quarter in school. =)

[gigi5678]

@xDocilexFaeriex i'll do my best :)

[xDocilexFaeriex]

:) Night X. X

[FýrdracaDócincel]

If you're gonna act sad, do it because you're actually sad.
Plus expecting to get any girls out of it is ridiculous.

[Anonymous]

lmao people think I'm depressed sometimes but I'm not, I don't express emotions that well. Not one girl ever felt bad for me but a few did ask if I was ok. Try something else

[Anonymous]

No, seems pretty silly. How about you be yourself and ake the effort to get to know some women as people?

[Anonymous]

99% don't.. sorry :/ Girls like confident guys. It makes them look more attractive :)

[Bumbocat]

Your looks - IS your confidence
Who looks more confident
5''6 school geek or 6''4 male model?
The answer is hella obvious

[Anonymous]

lol hell no, why else do you think they go for losers, they're bumfuck confident cause they don't realize they're losers

lol if you can't beat em, join em bro

[Kurodo]

playing some 4d chess here, they might feel sorry for you but i doubt thats attractive to anyone

[Anonymous]

oh yeah sure they love it when you cry like a bitch, it shows emotion.

[Anonymous]

They see you as a child and look after you.

But they aren't attracted to weak men.

[Pomegranate139]

No they do not like sad men. They pity them.

[DramaGirl2000]

That's stupid dude. Sorry, but I'm being honest

[deraz24]

That's stupid lol

[helphelpimdying]

derazie is always mean to me :(

[deraz24]

I'm telling you the truth

[helphelpimdying]

i know i know. but geez still i got it!

[deraz24]

Got what?

[helphelpimdying]

that i suck!

[deraz24]

I didn't say you did, you just have to find a new/better way to approach things, the way you go ab certain things isn't really right in case you haven't noticed. Just work on that and you'll be okay

[helphelpimdying]

do you love me?

[deraz24]

Don't do that first off

[helphelpimdying]

please... :( IM DESPERATE

[deraz24]

Sighh..

[helphelpimdying]

im sorry... again. please WHAT DO I DO?

[deraz24]

Don't do that honestly think before you do things if you act like this in everyday life Its a problem fr, start cleaning up your act, its all you have to do

[helphelpimdying]

i do have problems. i can't controll myself from refraining from girls. the teacher had to switch seats today because i kept touching a girls hair.

[deraz24]

Well you have to start or you're not gonna go far with that nd thats the truth, don't be weird be nice, throw cute compliments out there, make them see you differently don't poke them...

[helphelpimdying]

cute compliments? what are those?

[deraz24]

You think she's pretty, like her hair, clothes. Those are good openers when trying to introduce yourself also

[helphelpimdying]

ok. but i usually fail at that... i end up coming creepy.

[deraz24]

Train yourself, get some lunes in your head and test them out, ask a friend if this sounds cool or anyobw that'll listen and then work on how you say it, a compliment is really not hard just don't over think it but know what you're saying also

[helphelpimdying]

derazie is so sweet

[deraz24]

I was mean before tho hmm

[helphelpimdying]

me no care

[deraz24]

Lol neither do i

[catelyntje]

No in the long run it gets annoying

[Chico_brah]

@rjgraveytrain loves them.

[RJGraveyTrain]

Oh lord.

[445533guy]

a lot... but not pathetic men