How come most white girls dont like black guys?

[shakeel1992]

i can be polite and most of the time they act as if they dont see me or like im rude for saying hi or saying they're gorgeous. i like white girls but why is it so difficult to connect with one without them thinking im just another black guy. i went to school with white women theyve always been my friends but now trying to meet new ones are stressful.. I don't know

[Mammyblue]

I love dark skinned guys I prefer them over white guys any day, every black guy that I've dated has been so caring but also a bad boy and they seem to have the most beautiful personalities and I seem to be the girl who opens him up and connects with him, every time I date a black guy he always makes me feel loved and he treats me like a princess, not because I want him but that's what he always wants for me. he's like my protector.

a lot of white chicks are told from a young age especially by their dads that "black men are bad, they'll ruin your life, they're dirty and they'll steal from you, they'll kill you" which is completely fucking racist. I am half white and I'm mostly friends with black people all of the 4 white friends I have are rude and spoiled and judgmental racist assholes and I don't even know why they are my friends tbh. I hate seeing people being discriminated against and I do all I can to help, but when I date a black guy people start targeting me and telling me that I'm just a black wannabe which again is just fucking racist.

but in total black guys are more bad boy and caring which is what I like so

[shakeel1992]

i can dig it, but im not a bad boy im calm and cool. a simple man. i work and come home. i dont smoke weed and i have goals. i went to college for computer animation and graphic design in florida. i jus want love.

[Mammyblue]

that's so cute, that's what I mean "beautiful personalities" you sound so amazing and to think that white chicks only look at you for your skin colour or your stereotype. id think your a badass cause you show your feelings and men don't do that, that's very attractive. I'm not trying to be weird or anything but you honestly sound like a beautiful human

[shakeel1992]

would u wanna be friends and text sometimes/ talk on the phone?

[Mammyblue]

but why?

I live in Australia so calling is out of the box but we could private message on here if you want someone to talk to

[shakeel1992]

thats ok too nd i didn't know u were in Australia i thought i was jus talking to people in Philadelphia 😕 lol

[Mammyblue]

Aha no sorry to let you down

[Mammyblue]

hey sorry for the random ass question but what do Americans think about Australians? aha

[shakeel1992]

na its ok i was jus looking for friends to talk to anyway so this is pretty cool

[Mammyblue]

cool then

[shakeel1992]

ummm 🤔 that they play with crocodiles like crocodile Dundee and that they say crikey lol I don't know.. oh and that they should take iggy azalea back lol jk I don't know

[Mammyblue]

ahahahah I'm dead, I'm sorry that we gave you Iggy she is a monstrosity. Australians don't say crickey unless they live in the centre of Australia or in land of The Northern Territory, we don't play with crocs as we only get them at the top of Australia, that's so funny but just so you know what Crocodile Dundee is, is what normal Australians call a bogan or what you would call a redneck. Coastal Areas are very nice and the people who live there are well spoken and don't say crickey and Australian things you think we do. ahah. Australia is filled with A LOT of cultures, in the North there are mostly Greek and Vietnamese people, and in the east is where Chinese and New Zealanders live and the South and West are filled with Lebanese people there are more people and cultures than that but that's what I can think of atm. coastal areas don't have red dirt aha like inland does

[Mammyblue]

and we don't say "ill throw a shrimp on the barbie" we call shrimp "prawns" and we call barbies- barbies or bbqs ahaha

[shakeel1992]

lol, u taught me a lot

[Mammyblue]

glad I could help lol

[BelleMmichelle]

Not sure where you're located but in rural or small urban communities there's a lot of microaggressions, and unfortunately racism, you will see those walls disappear in metropolitan centers. People like predictability and for that it's what's their "norm", people who only grew up around people of their own race will exoticize others. This exoticizing will put you "off limits" for some or fetishize you for others.

I grew up in metropolitan centers and come from a multicultural family, when I moved to a small community for junior/senior high-school (pop. 50k) the first words out of my mouth were "Why is everybody white?" ahahaha (I left once I was 18)... But in that I got to see first hand the microaggressions towards people of other ethnic backgrounds. So it's likely your location

[shakeel1992]

im in Philadelphia

[phyllisisabelle]

I wouldn't have a problem dating a black guy if he was nice. Sadly there are some real jerks out there. I asked how a girl went about meeting black guys and of course the jerks stepped up and attacked me for even thinking about it. There were three black guys I thought were interesting but two turned out just wanted to send me photos of their things and wanted nude photos of me and wanted me to tell tell them things about my fantasy and sex I have had with other guys I guess to get off. I dropped them quickly. The other guy though has been really nice and we have had some nice chats telling each other about ourselves so we can get to know each other better. Something could develop. Thats what I would want. A nice guy who isn't just all about sex.

[navychick2006]

There are white girls who like black guys just keep looking. Many of us are told from a young age not to date outside of our race. Fortunately that attitude is less common than it was thirty years ago. I personally tend to stick with white guys because that is generally what I'm more attracted to but that is not all white women, just me. Keep smiling. You'll find a girl. There are plenty out there 😊

[shakeel1992]

i can dig it.

[Chost]

It depends on how you present yourself. Most black guys tend to be players and not have a good work drive or family drive. Women want to be safe and have a solid in their life but by self given stereotype black men do not fit. If you were to dress in a scholarly or sophisticated manner and have good manners you would be able to have many dates. But it is preference for sure though. Some girls don't like black guys

[shakeel1992]

i know what you mean like im always in my work clothes but when im dressed i dont dress like a thug or rapper, i wear nice pants button up shirts. i also went to predominantly white college and highschool so im comfortable around white people its jus when im out here in the world/ non school or work setting its hard to meet the type of Caucasian female i prefer.. I don't know

[Chost]

who do you prefer?

[shakeel1992]

i like nice women in general not ratchet or ghetto.. nice pretty educated women who are openminded and not judgmental. i have goals and plans so im looking for a wife business partner and friend all in one. someone i can branch out, explore and enjoy life with.

[Chost]

I recommend not looking for a spouse right away and becoming friends first or join a dating site

[shakeel1992]

yea i know what you mean, friends is what i look for but i always seem to fall for the female friends i really click with.. so lately i haven't really been looking for any thing I've jus been working.. but when i see females i wouldn't mind being friends with and getting to know it seems really awkward like they look at me or talk to me like i have an alternative motive and its weird i jus wanna be friends and have someone to talk and text and maybe go out to places with.. friends..

[Chost]

Just laugh. Laughing is the easiest way to clear the air. Tell jokes and make things simple. At the end of your meeting shake hands or something, leave an impression and ask if you would like to meet again, don't make any movement towards her if she thinks you are trying to make a move

[shakeel1992]

ima do that, i usually always leave awkwardly like ok bye lol and sometimes i get the feeling that they do being thinking things like damn he didn't even ask for my number or fb.. and thats only because of all the negetive people i get when i try to be nice

[Chost]

That should work.

[shakeel1992]

i hope so

[SachikoSuzumi]

well, I have to say, That I dont care about color or race. If I think he is attractive, I do, no matter if he's black or not. I mean... we dont say "what do you think about dating a white boy?", right? so we shouldn't be so... specific? about that. We are dating a guy. what color he has or where he is from shouldn't really be the matter, I think.

[annie2016]

I like black guys though I had a bad experience with the other one. But still I prefer to be with black guys because they are just straight forward, blunt and know what they want. They are not much on a flowery talkers. I am currently in a LDR with a black guy. So cheer up, you will find the right girl for you dear. :-)

[Anonymous]

I'm this girl. Sorry just being honest. It's a stereotype. Most black guys are conceited, cawky, and use women. It's the majority of asshole black guys that ruin it for the good ones. I will talk to a black guy, I don't hate them, but that's as far as it goes. I've always, ALWAYS seen these blinged out black guys dating these heavy set white chick's with low self esteem so she can shower him with money and gifts because she doesn't think she can get any better. Hope my answer helped you out :)

[shakeel1992]

not really one thing that women forget is that you choose who you date so when u pick the wrong guy u can't judge everyone off his one mistake.. almost everything u described white men do the same thing to white women too so your argument was pointless.. jus saying not trying to be rude.. but at the end of the day a lot of smart beautiful women ( no matter there race) have very poor judgment when it comes to good men and us men know it smh

[Curlybeauty17]

If they don't like you they either dislike your personality, are racist, have a racist parent, or you're just not their preference. Chill out. If a girl doesn't like you, there are plenty of other girls (of many races) that will.

[shakeel1992]

true

[Nadzzz]

Eh not all white girls buddy
I stare like a creep when a sexy black guy passes on the street lmao
Probably that happens bcs black guys here are *very few*
But yeah if he's hot then fuck yeah
Same attraction as for a sexy white guy

[shakeel1992]

lol where r u from?

[Nadzzz]

Albania European

[shakeel1992]

oh im in America in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

[Kamiink09]

I like black guys. I would date a guy who's black. I don't know what's wrong with the girls you live around haha.

[shakeel1992]

where are u from? i live in philly

[naomi10wylde]

There are tonnes of white girls who like black guys!!!

I think it's quite possible that the women you are talking to have some internalised racism and are afraid... it's really fucking shitty but keep looking you'll find some eventually!