I always get p*ssed when a girl calls me a "nice guy" - Is it always mean "no sex for you just friendship?

[Anonymous]

Lets start of with I'm a gentlemen, but not a total nice guy. I have a few rough edges here and there. I'm involved with a very dangerous sport and I'm not afraid to argue at times. I'll admit I was afraid of confrontations when I was younger...but I've gotten a little tougher over the years.

However I always act polite/respectful when meeting anybody (both men and women). I do believe in courtesy/chivalry.

When dating women I sometimes get them saying w/o thinking "your such a nice guy". Ever since my first real heartbreak (girl called me a nice guy over and over...never any sex though...) I am about ready to vomit when a girl says the N word. I did tell her I hated it when she called me a "nice guy". She kept calling me it anyway.

I guess the acid test is this: Have you ever told a guy he is "so nice" and AFTERWARDS got into a sexual relationship with him (duration of the sexual relationship doesn't matter)?

My last ex...who I was sexual with (but never went all the way). Was careful not to call me "nice" but "kind and good". I count my blessings with that one.

Still though when a girl I'm interested in calls me "nice" should I cut my losses and move on if I want to get laid?

Updates

+1 y

There was a time when I was younger (teens, early 20s) I took "nice guy" as a sincere compliment. After years of painful friend zoning/disrespect my attitude changed.

[djmzes]

First of all
Define ur values by urself and try not to follow society and remember the pyramid rules...

Majority are at the. bottom in a sense...

Secondly girls just see that you want sex with them... that all they see cuz that what they were taught and believed.

So just hold to ur belief and get bush today but gain the prices tomorrow, or follow the hurd today and get thr price and fucked up tomorrow

Call is urs..

[Michaeldurrant]

its a gentle shoot down...

if you wanna just get laid go to the bar.

[bBop345]

Next time a girl says the N thing to you, ask her to clarify using specific examples why she thinks that. Then, fix that behavior.

[Petertheniceguy]

Nah... you just need to find a nitch. I happen to actually get laid as a nice guy. Just don't let them walk all over you.

Go for the girls that are tired of all the jerks on the world. Be a knight in shining armor.