I'm a white girl with a Hispanic guy. I think that as long as there are the right feelings and chemistry, then race will not be a factor. However, if you want a serious or long term relationship, there are things that may surface later. Like if your family or hers (particularly parents) have issues with you dating someone from another race. It can hurt if you/she hear derogatory remarks or feel like the others family disapproves or expects you to behave certain ways. Also, I don't know where you're from, but if you two are from two different cultures ( for example, a German and a Puerto Rican), issues may surface later, simply because of different cultures. I did not think these things would matter at first, but now they do pop up sometimes. I think this holds true, even with people of the same race, raised in different cultures ( say, a white American with a white Swedish person may have similar issues). So you all may want to make sure you make an effort to share BOTH your cultures together, and try to come up with your own values and traditions. Hope this helps! I think multi-cultural relationships are beautiful and as long as you both have that chemistry, then things should be great.
personally I wanna know why "white girls are not worth it"? we "white" girls are just like any other girls in my opinion. as long as you treat us with respect and not like dumb whores there's no reason we wouldn't consider dating you. I personally prefer hispanic guys over white guys. They're just sexier in everything they do. To me white guys are bland and boring, hispanic guys are sexy and exciting.
I think hispanic guys are getting more attention right now though because of the two newest books out where white girls are falling in love with hispanic guys. called "perfect chemistry and rules of attraction".
I'm actually dating a puerto rican guy right now and I love him with all my heart because he's one of the sexiest, sweetest, and most amazing guys I know. He does have a past with gangs and wars and all that stuff he doesn't like to talk about but I love him anyways. Its made him who he is.
Girls (of any ethnicity) will sneak peaks at guys (of any ethnicity) who they find attractive. (or horrendous, but...I'm going to guess you don't have a massive hunchback and a facefull of boils...:p). And when it comes down to a relationship, skin color really falls by the wayside of important things. And you can ask them out like any other girl.
That all said- the influx of white girl glances could be chaulked up to the aforementioned exotic factor. Or in this case the Spicy-Romantic-Latino-Man daydream. People like the familiar, but are intrigued by what's different. Lending to the looks. As a white girl who wandered around Spain for a few months, I got stares all the time, vs the occasional sideways glance in the states. the Exotic look factor ir legit.
Venividivici jealous? Jealous of what “you” please don't insult me. My friend is Asian-5' 2” at 105lbs I put her up against you any day. My girl is so beautiful that I dedicated a whole website just about her. Who done that for you. I am jealous of what “you” I wouldn't give you the time of day from that photo.
I am with whom I am with so if you're referring to someone that he doesn't have then your answer is no. I been with so many different race of people while stationed in the military I could careless whom someone with or wants to be with.
Jealous please venividivici, I probably been in more p**** then you have and if I wanted to which I don't; I could be in yours! No need to come back and say you wouldn't blah blah, I and you know the truth.
No one can tell you whom someone to prefer to be with unless you go up-to them and ask. This guy is (Age:18 to 24) and if he doesn't know the answer to his: “I think its a silly” as I said before, actually I think he'll a little racist for even asking this dumb question. You can only give advice on personal experience or your own upbringings. You can't speak for anyone else.
The thing about white women is that you have to have you're life together. You have to have a good job and know how to take care of yourself. Because if you don't treat yourself right then what makes you think you're going to treat anyone right? White women are the kind of Angles that wants a man to be successful And not about the low life way. I'm Hispanic! I'm Puerto Rican and my girlfriend is Blond. I didn't like her because of her skin. I loved her because she motivated me a lot and made me Successful. And so I didn't want to every let that go. and she was a virgin and really sexy. I couldn't believe it until I found out for myself. She's with me because I love her for who she is and I don't treat her any different. If you pur you're mind in you're work and life and stop with the skin or race issue then any girl of any race can be attracted to you. I'm still with my beautiful Cindy. And I love her to death.
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i'd definitely go for it. I'm on of those girls staring and I'm staring because to me hispanic guys are incredibly hot! I wouldn't let your friends determine what you do in this situation, if they say white girls aren't worth it, then that's their opinion, but I would definitely try us out before you make that judgment. remember though that it is all about personal preference, so even though I'm up for it, not everyone is. and yeah, asking a white girl out is just like asking any other girl out! it's not that difficult :]
I am sure that many girls would. I don't go out and say to myself " Holy sh*t that guy is hispanic so no f***ing way man " I grew up in a racist family. My father told me I was not allowed to date blacks or hispanics...( the terms he used were a bit harsher ) My stepfather didn't allow me to bring my friends over who were black or hispanic. It was all a little ridiculous. I am more often than not attracted to white guys...but everything really depends on personality...and intelligence for me...
Race is not a factor when I date... Any race can be hot! The only thing that would be a turnoff is if you act like a "stereotypical" mexican "gangster" and you try to act all in "in the hood" and you talk in that really annoying "gangsta" voice and sag your pants. If you act like a normal person and don't try to be a pimp you should be fine. Just act sophisticated and normal. And wear your pants up
White girls aren't any different from any other race. Just talk to them like you would talk to any other girl. I personally only date out of my race and have a lot of girlfriends who do the same. It just depends on the girl. If you feel like she's giving you the vibe that she's interested then approach her. The worst thing that can happen is that you denied but you just gotta pick yourself back up and brush yourself off if that happens.
Well I consider myself mixed half spanish but yea I would consider dating a Hispanic guy as long as thier not Colombian already came into contact w. two didn't like how it turned out. But your kind is fine & seem so passionate in the way they carry themselves. The only issue I have with the race is the anger/jealousy issues that fiery attitude but in another way can be very appealing lol. Also as long as their not the player type I sometimes get that vibe lead you on to leave you hangin. When it comes down to it am not sure I'd seem myself having a beyond physical relation with one not sure if I'd do long term if their the traditional type.
I would! But, I don't because all the hispanic and black guys who are in my area/go to my school are the classic wanna be gangster. And they are all dousche-bags, players, and only wanna get with a girl if they think they will get some and then dump the girl. If the guys in my area were different I would most definitely date a hispanic/black guy if I liked them!
When I'm attracted to someone, it just... happens. I don't really let their race play a factor one way or the other. I've been attracted to guys of many different ethnicities. To be honest, I figured that's how it was for most people.
Mestizo Hispanic guys resemble White guys more than Black guys, and a lot of white girls date Black guys, so I assume plenty would be willing to date Hispanic guys. Do you have an accent? Some girls consider it sexy. As for how to ask one out, do what you would do with any other girl. Approach them, show that you're interested, try to get a number, and take it from there.
Im a full blood latina && I'm dating a cuban guy right now. His girlfriend before me was white and idk... for me I feel like he upgraded A LOT because white girls are too.. simple. and I mean if the guy is latino, why wouldn't he want a girlfriend whos also latina, who speaks spanish and whos able to communicate with his family and friends? I have nothing against white girls.. and sure theyd date latino men, but I think that latinos && latinas are a better match. sexier babies ;)
I love Spanish women too much to suggest that you should date a white women. I believe that they are better mothers, I mean every time I go to the park it is full of Mexican families relaxing and playing with each other, where are the white people? must be at the mall..
I definitely would! I don't know what it is about them but Hispanic guys do attract me. But it depends on their attitude also, I've dated different races there is no nothing wrong with dating a different race. Its amazing
Hispanic guys are my number one I love the hot accent and language and everything about hispanic guys! Especially tall hispanic guys yum... Puerto Ricans and Mexicans <3333 I had a huge crush on a guy forever and he's Mexican, I don't like him anymore but I had the biggest crush on him. I have a couple hispanic guy friends, a couple I'm interested in too.
yeah, I dated one before and lots of latino boys are hot
My boyfriend is Puerto Rican, and I don't really think there's a difference, you know? I'm just like any other girl abad he's just like any other guy. Asking a white girl out is just like asking anyone else out. Make her feel special and make her feel like you're sincere and romantic and she'll go for it. Best of luck.
Also... Why aren't white girls worth it? So your friends realize that white people aren't the only people who can be racist?
I am a spoiled bitchy white girl and have never been into Hispanics. But I fell for this Mexican boy at work. He's super cute and in shape. People who know me well know I have attitude against Hispanic guys. Cause most of what I've been exposed to is creepy Lanscapers. Of all ages. Staring at me and shouting at me.
Basically I've been mostly exposed to dudes that fit all the badstereotypes.
I'm not sure what it was about this guy. So yeah sure a white girl would date a Hispanic guy. Go for it. I worry that he doesn't take me seriously. Like seriously being interested in him. So don't doubt that a white girl could really like you :)
why does your friend say white girls are not worth it? just wondering :)
and yes, some would, others wouldn't. it's a matter of preferences.
YES! Hispanic guys be be so much sexier than anglo guys ;)
Yeah I know a lot of Mexicans guys with white girls or at the least did a couple of them.
lol hell yea why not :P especially if he's hot xD
plus spanish is sexy :P
Damn straight they would! Race isn't a determining factor for me, but I have seen some very attractive Hispanic guys (not saying that only looks are important though lol). Unfortunately, it seems that you have a racist circle of friends... obviously some girls are dumb but some are amazing (this applies to all races) and they all have the same emotions. So yes, you ask a white girl out JUUUST like any other girl, because that's what she is. A girl. Not a colour!
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