"If a guy ignores me, or is indifferent to me -> he's not interested -> forget it"
But what continually happens to me in my personal experience is:
Indifference = hot = WANT
Without exception, that's exactly how it's been for me. I actually realized this by accident, on occasions where I failed to acknowledge female attention because I was distracted or busy with something else. On such occasions, I thought to myself "damn, I missed my chance, this sucks". But instead I got 1000x better results. Let me stress this particular point: the difference really is like night and day. In all honesty, I actually thought these girls were bipolar or something, because it was such a wild turn in their attitude and disposition towards me. Needless to say, I was tremendously confused at first. A while later I started to see the pattern, and it's really depressing.
I've come to the conclusion that showing interest is mostly a turn-off for women. That only a minimal amount of attention must be given to them in order to yield positive results. With this knowledge, however, another question appears: do women have to be tricked into a relationship? Is that how it works?
Help me. Right now I'm facing a very bleak mindset on this matter, and cannot find one single woman -- regardless of age, background or lifestyle -- who actually appreciates honesty and transparency.
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