GIRLS, is being indifferent to you such a turn-on? I'm sick and tired of this... (Page 2)
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When a guy doesn't care a girl will want him more. That's just logical. You want what you can't have. The question is how long will they stay? I think that all depends on the person.
wrong. if a guy is indifferent, I would not waste my time especially not my dignity. How can you respect yourself going after someone who does not care. no way bye bye.
and ut is not logical to want what you can not have, is delusional.
toulouse, what you initially stated is delusional. IDEALLY, a woman and a man both are attracted to each other equally and a relationship blossoms between them. But we all know that is rarely, if ever the case. When a guy is initially apathetic and only responsive sometimes in the beginning to a girl that finds him attractive, that makes the whole ordeal a lot more interesting. After all it's not the end prize that makes a guy worth it, it's the chase.
Not every girl wants a guy like this, but there are some that do and I believe this is the reason why. And it's true to want something you can't have. That's how people are. It's just human nature.
Lol a lot of guys do what you do. But to me, if a guy ignores me it means he doesn't care. If you are being nice one day and ignoring the next, she will figure out that what you want is games and she will give up even if now she seems to be more interested. You should just be honest and stop playing childish games. Be honest and be yourself, because then if she likes u, you know she likes you for who you really are, not for who you want her to think you are. This guy I really like, I think does this to me and I realized that if he is not scared of losing me by acting like that, then he really must not care. So I kind of just let it go even though all I can think about is him.
Girls are different. I know because my friends are like this and I cannot understand it. I don't like wasting my time. If you don't act like I am worth your time then don't bother. I know what I want and what I am looking for, if you don't see me chasing you then it's not you, end of story.
I don't feel that way at all. If a guys appears interested one week and then not at all the next. It just confuses me. In the end I feel he's just an idiot and really isn't that interested. So I won't want to have anything to do with him. Even if I like him I will stay away. Who needs all the drama.
I've never been asked out by a guy in my life. A few months ago I was told that over ten guys had liked me and wanted to ask me out. I'm kinda dumb so I didn't realize it but that time is passed. If even ONE of them would have shown more interest in me, or said that they liked me, I would have gone out with them.
And what about you? If a girl ignores you, what do you think? You think she isn't interested and you move on right? Girls are the same way.
When you find a woman that is truly open and honest and confident she will appreciate the transparency. I am 48 and I have had men show attention to me and then just disapear and then a year later call me and apologize for being not ready for a relationship. Pick better women and not girls..
do women have to be tricked?
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that remind me of my relationship with my guy
he said that he "tricked" me into marrying him
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ok good luck with tricking your fair maiden
if a guy acts indifferent to me I'll treat him the same way and won't bend overbackwards to get his attention. I DONT like clingy guys but I DO like a guy to show interest. over course I will reciprocate
Actually, guys are the same way. By ignoring them, they respond to you more. Ever notice that?
That is true for emotionally undeveloped guys. And there are A LOT more of those around than the other type. (other type being me x)
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Attempt to get what you would want but can't completely reach...
I always say, mind games are necessary, but only at the beginning.
@ update: Some guys who act like you are considered players and are not genuine in their approach to girls. She was probably checking to see whether or not you were really that 'nice'.
guys who act like me? how so?
Idk, she wanted to make sure you weren't just playing her .
A guy that doesn't need the attention of a particular girl comes off as aloof, mysterious, and hard to get -- all factors that get women hot and bothered about and makes it fun for them to chase you.
Curry:
A guy that does not need anything or anyone outside of himself and his relationship to God,
is a three percent man, fully mature, fully independent and overflowing with health, wealth and relationships. Being indifferent applies to every day, every situation and interaction. Nothing should faze us. We are cool under fire. We have Gods Peace and Strength so deeply hidden in our hearts that we have no fear. Being indifferent simply applied to this conversation is, to guard your heart.
For me it's not a "turn-on"
I don't say that she needs to show major interes in me .
But just a little clue .
u are wrong. I appreciate honesty. unless you wanted to trick me into a relationship that would actually be perfect lol
I honestly DESPISE indifference. I like to know that the guy cares. So show it. I don't know if that makes me needy or whatever but I don't appreciate feeling as if you don't care as much as I do.
Well it depends. Some people want what they can't have. It's human nature.