She talks about herself a lot. Is that a good or bad thing?

[gaggleii]

I'm seeing this girl and she spends a lot time talking about herself, her life, her friends, etc. ... and basically not much time talking about me and my interests.

I mean, I don't really mind since I like her and it's better than having awkward silences but do you think it's bad that she does this?

[zetabeta]

I do this occasionally myself and I've met a lot of girls/women that do it frequently. Sometimes people just have a lot going on in their lives or haven't had someone to talk to for a while. It's not bad as long as you don't feel ignored when you try to add something about your life to the conversation at times. Another plus is she'll love it if you ask questions when she's on a roll. Everyone loves to be heard.

[Anonymous]

Bad. She's ten kinds of selfish. You can't know for sure yet so try to add to the convo and get the subject off of her. Then see how she acts.

[Anonymous]

Girls do a lot of nervous talking. try talking about yourself and incorporating your life in.

[gummybear888]

why don't you bring up something about yourself then?