I'm dating a Libra man and pregnant with his first child?

[Anonymous]

To All Libra men please read and answer..?

I have never been into the whole astrological thing until now. I'm dating a Libra man and pregnant with his first child, he is 40 years old and I'm 33.I have read nothing but bad about Libra men, he has dated allot or your normal for a man at his age. I did find out that he cheated on his ex girlfriend like 16 years ago. he cries to me and expresses himself when we argue and I want to let it go, but all this nonsense can really question a person. I'm scared of him anyways,i mean scared to be hurt. But are the Libra men always unfaithful even at this age 40 years old. would they cry if they really didn't mean it meaning would they care just to make you believe their lies or will they cry and sob only if they really do care,basically do the tears mean something.like I said I never really paid mind to this stuff because its about the person and not the sign, but all I see is negative stuff, and that started when I was doing the whole compatibility thing Libra men please answer.and if there are any faithful ones out there please answer let me and everyone who posts these things that not all of you are cheaters like they all say...no offense to anyone who has had a bad experience with them that's understandable.

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why is it that when you ask a question on here people just seem to get offended,if you don't like what the question pertains ,then don't answer it..I think I explained myself ,like I said I don't believe in it, but once all you see is bad stuff it makes you question your belief,no need for anyone to get upset...and just comment and not even have a real answer...jeesh people need to relax..we are all dealing with our own sh*t, that's why they make up sites like this so we can try and find answers.

[saelym]

Before you do anything else, you need to reassess how you look at him and forget about the ridiculous astrology.

I noticed this in particular from your update: "I don't believe in it, but once all you see is bad stuff, it makes you question your belief"

What in the world makes you think that seeing all the negativity makes something more credible? Doesn't that seem biased to you?

You are 33 years old, and old enough to know better than to fall into all this astrological nonsense. You want to figure out how to predict his moves, look into psychology, not psuedosciences.

If you had a feeling he might not stick around for a child before this, then you should have made damn sure that you didn't end up pregnant.

In appeal to your growing interest in astrology, I present the following:

My first boyfriend was a Libra. He cheated with every girl except me. Why? I was gone before the puppy love faded. And he's STILL infatuated. He was immature, ignorant, and disrespectful first, a Libra second.

The best, most trustworthy man I know is a Libra. If I had trusted all the surface, false ideas that were given to me, I would have never made one of the best friends I'll ever have. I owe my life to that man.

Go tell the compatability charts and "experts" on astrology to screw themselves. Start paying attention to how he treats you and whether or not you see red flags with him - NOT his sign. You're going to get further with logic and female intuition than you are with a couple of books suggesting you plot out planetary positions and moon cycles to determine whether or not he'll be good to you.

Finally, for what it's worth, I'm pagan. I've been fiddling with this sort of thing since before I was in kindergarten. The rune stones, the tarot cards, the "fortune-telling," the palmistry, message boards, pendulum and candle magicks, cast sachets, voodoo blah blah blah. If I, of all people, think that the astrology you've been investigating is bullsh*t, that's really saying something.

[Asker]

Thank you first taking your time to answer maturely ,he is a good person but can however sometimes seem naive.but about the pregnancy I was on the pill but still ended up pregnant so I see it as a blessing.but thanks again and I will think about your answer.

[saelym]

In that case, you're not overstepping your bounds in wanting him to be a man and take up responsibility as a father. I've still got many years ahead of me, but I've already learned that men are notorious for continuing to act childish. Considering you were using contraceptives to begin with, that's added reason for him to step up - you didn't "trap" him. Ready or not, parenthood is happening to both of you. I wish you the best of luck and I hope things go well in the long run

[Anonymous]

While I do think sometimes people are similar to their horoscope descriptions I would not consider it binding or truthful in any sense, just some fun gimmick to play with.

But that being said, I know a few Libra guys. They even had the same birthday. And they were both quite different people. Interesting thing is that I fell for both of them (not at the same time, and I met one way before the other one) and I am a Gemini, making Libra men one of my "best matches".

I did feel a connection with both of them. And I was crazy about both of them. But it still could just be irony. Astrology to me is a game, not a science. Just for fun.

But anyhow, to answer your question.

One Libra was very quiet and to himself. If you spoke to him he was very sweet and charming and girls did actually like him. But, he was shy and a bit unapproachable.

The other guy is more typical Libra. Major charmer, extremely flirtatious. Can talk the pants off a woman. He just has this soothing charming voice like he's going to make all your problems go away and make you feel like the happiest woman in the world! Problem with this Romeo is that he's probably doing it to every woman he knows. He definitely crossed lines, while I can't say he actually cheated on his girlfriend he was hitting on me like crazy even when he had one, and having a woman does NOT stop him from flirting and hitting on other women and making his sexual attraction obvious. I can see why guys like this get a bad rap. But I am sure men of all signs, not just Libra, are like this.

They both did have a certain thing in common, a likable charm. Plus they were both the type who is always trying to please everyone, be helpful and polite...the type who will run to open a door, act like a gentleman, smile a lot, etc. Yet they were extremely different, one was ridiculously bold while the other was shy.

But like I said, I don't believe astrology is a science.

[Missaly]

I fee the same way im with a 42 year old libra he tell me what i want to here but says what he really feels the side of his mouth.. says i a big regreat and he doesn't want to marry me and be engaged.. he has such a big ego... he act like spoiled child.. and yes im am 35 and pregnant with his baby.. someone told me no matter what fight him with kindness .. its seems impossible to do cause im very emotinal right now.. but i think its a libra thing.

[capricorngirl]

i really can't answer your problem but I understand where you coming from to the fullest. I'm a capricorn woman dating a libra man and he is a handful we are a lot younger then you two but the same thing you going through [your feelings towards him basically] that how I feel about my libra guy.. he's too nice to others females which comes off as flirting to me and libras are known for flirting. he could be a bit confusing at times which means I sometime have to take chances in believeing in him. which is really hard for me all I can say is take a chance in trusting in him just not too hard and see what the outcome may be you'll never really know until you try because at the end of the day no one really knows your man like you know him or come to know him:)) hope I help

[SovietBall]

As a Libra guy, I'm quite flirtatious and playful, but I can never cheat on my partner when it comes to relationships

[TylerMMA]

16 years ago... that's all I need to say about that.

[Shatae]

I dont know what to believe because at first i though he would be the right one. I am was with a libra man and i would say its the worst for me. he want me to get pregnant so bad, when i keep telling him i am not ready, anyway i love him so we try and i got pregnant and he is the worst person right now. when i miss my period he was the one to first realize and then get me a test. he was glad but now i dont know him. he change somehow and i am wondering why. i am sick most of the time, he didn't seem to care. i dont cook anymore because if i do, i will not eat the food and he will get food for himself only and dont care if i eat or not. he doesn't call or even check on me at work anymore just to see if am okay or not. He would leave the whole evening and come back in the next morning, and he wouldn't even check to see if am okay or not. my first ultrasound he doesn't even come with me. he my first real boyfriend i leave my parent place just to be with him and whenever he is going through so hard time i am also there to help him even though i would the last person to who when the situation is so bad. then i would myself through a lot just to my it possible or help clear the situation. I know he didn't have anything the first time we start dating and i do so much for him and end in so much problem that i am still try to get myself out of right now. i got so much opportunities that i turn down because of him and now i am regretting my mistake. i said i am moving out and he didn't even say any to me. i move out and i had a lot of stuff and he see me moving the heavy boxes and he wouldn't even help me, knowing that i am pregnant with his child. i dont think i would even talk to a next libra man. not in my lifetime.

[sweet_18]

I don't believe in that astrology bullsh*t. Seriously.