Is this normal behavior for my girlfriend, or should I be getting upset? Girls opinions.

[Zimbo113]

My girlfriend has been getting on my nerves lately. Some of her friends has a thing for Asian guys, and she does somewhat too. So lately, she and her friend have been joking around about this famous Korean singer, and how they are going to become mistresses and marry get married to several Korean celebrities.

Typically I just turn my head, but she starts to do it more and more. On her Facebook wall, her friend wrote "You are the one person who finally understands my taste in men!" and posted a picture of this half naked korean guy. She responded with another picture of him, and they started debating which one was the sexiest.

Jokingly yesterday, she asked if I wanted to see what her future Korean husband looked like. I mean come on, this is annoying -.- If I EVER suggested anyone was hot, she would get upset and constantly insult said person and desperately try and point out in which ways she is hotter.

I mean, I don't act like it bothers me. I just brush it off. but the more and more she does it, the more it kinda irritates me. Should I be upset and vocal about it? Or is it just stupid girl talk and to leave it alone?

[LizTheWeirdKid]

yeah I guess its normal. some of the girls in high school would act that way.

they get all crazy and obsessed over some celebrity and get all giggly and start talking about how they're going to marry them and stuff.

doesn't it sound familiar? (think back to the twilight craze)

dont take it personally. its just girls being girls.

but she shouldn't be doing that so often in front of her boyfriend. it is kind of disrespectful.

just ignore it.

[Nicefuture]

who likes famous Korean men? Gross,I would wonder if she is lesbian or something like that because I don't see them as Men with all this girlie look.

I think you shouldn't be that much upset because she is not going to leave you for them unless she was very obsessed about them then I don't blame you for being upset because sometimes it is just annoying.

[Zimbo113]

Yeah, I don't find him very attractive at all...

link lol

[Nicefuture]

Where did his eyes go? lol

[Nicefuture]

Just make fun of him until she hates him lol .

[Zimbo113]

I mean, she says she likes him for his body. He's got an insane six-pack. I'm not fat or anything, but I don't have a six-pack. She sometimes jokes around and pats my 'tummy'.

Then when I see her rave about this guys body lol. I guess that's what pisses me off. It makes me feel unattractive I suppose.

[visual]

lol no :P don't make fun of him, you'll fire her up in all the wrong ways. :P

[Nicefuture]

Tell her to stop comparing because not everything is about looks.

[Nicefuture]

lol at visual but hey she will start noticing his flaws.

[Throwawayacc566]

Wtf r u jOKING ME? Asians and bts r hot af, sorry tht u guys gotta lie to make urself happy. Whatever floats ur boat ig, just know tht these boys are considered attractive as hell but many people (a whole wide variety of people and different cultures) and even by straight men. U may not find them attractive but many others do, to say they aren't and to diss them for that is just embarassing,

[Throwawayacc566]

By many people*
I stg typos r fucking annoying

[PinkPenguin]

It's normal to talk about celebrities and their looks, but to some extent. That marrying part and her increased interest and no consideration for you is a little overboard. Joking about it with friends once, and you happened to hear it is one thing.. But constantly nag about it is something entirely else. You should be careful.

[Zimbo113]

I mean, I've seen her talk about him on Facebook to her friends and such, and I just ignore it. On Sunday it was the first time she ever mentioned him, and she addressed him as yes, her future husband. THAT did annoy me and I responded kind of with a blank, "Tch." noise while looking at the picture she brought up.

She quickly replied, "I was just kidding don't worry." and closed it immediately. Of course it was ALL over Facebook today, her constantly calling him sexy -_-

[PinkPenguin]

Talk to her about this bothering you. If she doesn't stop, she's not really worth it, is she?

[Zimbo113]

Ehhh. We've been together two years. She loves anime like me, she's a gamer like me, she even goes with me to conventions and cosplays. Typically she's very warm and funny.

Just lately she's been a tad unaffectionate, hot-headed, and materialistic. I'd rather not just throw it away though.

[PinkPenguin]

comfront her. Tell her it's bothering you.

[Bleep]

Looking is OK, but I mean she seems to be getting some sort of obsession. Either she's just trying to get you to act jealous or well... I think you can guess the latter.

[Anonymous]

She's just having fun with her friends. Acting jealous would be the perfect way to lose her. Just get in on the game and have fun with it like you did.

[Anonymous]

It is just stupid girl obsessed with kpop talk which you could leave alone but because it's bothering you, you should at least say something about it.

It's really up to you what you say but stay away from anything that insults her taste in kpop guys and their music.

[Anonymous]

Yeah I tend to talk about k-pop artist to my BF, but he introduced me to big bangs music. He told me how it made him feel upset when I talk about other guys to him. I don't do it intentionally, I just like being open and honest. I noticed he does the same thing to me with talking about other girls. Jealousy has a way of tripping me up. So now I know how he feels I will be more sensitive about the topic of other guys. Just be honest with her and she may do the same.

[gamerrrrrrrz]

dude if she really likes making u jealous do the same man talk about marrying celebriteies or P*rn stars she will get mad then she may realize wht she had done.