I have only liked one guy in my life?

[Anonymous]

I'm starting to think something is wrong with me. I'm in my 20's but I have only had romantic interest in one guy. I have seen guys I have thought were attractive, and met guys who were really nice but I have had no interest in dating them and didn't feel anything towards them. And I'm not necessarily talking intense attraction or love at first sight or anything like that, just a simple crush. I am not sure if this is normal and/or healthy? Any ideas of what could be wrong with me?

[serp777]

ridiculous standards possibly.

Actually, not possibly, most likely.

I mean what are your requirements to liking a guy? Like bachelor charming + beef cake+ 8/10 face + amazing eyes + whatever?

I'm pretty sure you could like George Clooney, etc.

So the better question is, what's wrong with the guys you've met so far?

[Asker]

No I have met attractive charming guys that I could see other girls liking but no spark for me personally. I can't really explain it other than I don't have feelings for them. The guy I liked was nothing out the ordinary, except an exceptional personality but I yet to met another guy with a personality that was as amazing as his.

[bdeakol]

Let me guess you're a so called "Nice" guy who's angry at the world?

[serp777]

You suck at psychology bdeakol. Spare the world your horrible analyses.

But anyways QA, it could be that you only accept a certain range of pheromones, and so only guys with the correct genetic profile are acceptable. You could try an oxytocin supplement to try and mitigate this effect, in theory.

[thissitesucks]

Well, you explained why you are this way, but you never explained what happened to that guy and or what he is. I mean, why were you attracted to him. What kind of guy he is etc..We need more details about him in this question.

[lerzygirl]

I don't think anything is wrong with you if anything you just have not found the right person and you are not just flirting with everyone so you are actually mature. I have only had one interest in one guy and I am 18 1/2 and we have been only dating for six months now. So in the end nothing is wrong with you you are just great.

[Asker]

Glad to see I'm not the only one. That so sweet that you are dating the first and only guy you have ever liked. I wish things could have worked out with the guy I liked :-(

[lerzygirl]

He probably was just not the right one. It is better to look in the present then regret the past.

[bdeakol]

There's nothing wrong with you. I'm exactly like that, I find most people boring and I want someone who's interesting (personality wise) and weird.

I'm with a guy right now and he's the only guy I've ever liked. I don't see what's fun about serial dating.

[JamielovesKU]

There is absolutely nothing wrong with you at all. In fact I think that is very normal and you seem like a person who would keep a relationship together because you have your eye set on only one man.

[Anonymous]

You're demi-sexual, which means you need a strong emotional connection for you to take things seriously. Don't worry, I'm the same. It's unusual but you're not alone.