Girls how can I become the opposite of needy?

[TheManHimself]

What are the detailed mannerisms, gestures, postures, moves, wording, etc. of someone who is not needy, I want to be one to get the girls

[muliebrity]

We can go into detail, unnatural, manipulative actions to come across self-sufficient

-ignoring calls

-waiting couple rings before answering

-waiting couple minutes to even hours before responding a text

-sparingly give out compliments

-create tension by using sarcasm and condscending comments to show authority. seen this use a lot in social situations "did you hear about...?" answer "how can you not know that? lol yeah its been out for awhile...its so strange (give opinion)"

I really believe clinginess/neediness only exist if the other person doesn't feel the same. Whether be it in friendships/ romantic interests. If both parties have mutual respect/feelings doing the above would create drama and confusion. So I'd say, be yourself and find people who will reciprocate the respect back.

[TheManHimself]

good points, I don't like your solution tho

[TheManHimself]

i honestly think many of those things are faked, the most important is probably the condescending comments because you need to have a good tact for it

[honeedip87]

Mullebrity is right. Don't change in order to get girls. That is manipulative and it;s not who you are.. who you are WILL come out sooner or later.

Just get busy. Start volunteering places, have meet ups with your friends, start doing more activities where you can't or aren't looking at your phone all the time or Facebooking all the time.

Start playing more sports or some other attention consuming hobby.

[TheManHimself]

would hit on other girls girls count? like on a club or bar

[Anonymous]

Act like - if she were to break up with you, you would not be too bothered. Act as though you are certain that there's another girl around the corner, and you can find a new girlfriend without difficulty.

If you can pull that off, you won't come across as needy.

[nvestan]

you can try talking, dating with many girls at once. before the committed relationship of course)) It helps me to stop being needy. and after a bad break up, where I became very needy, and she didn't give a damn about me.

[chocolateismylover]

Try to make yourself busy