What would you rather have someone be at you, angry or disappointed?

[Anonymous]

Would you rather have a person close to you like a, family member, boyfriend, girlfriend, or a friend be mad at you for something you did? Or have them be disappointed at you? If not one of these than what is thing at person can be at you, that makes you feel horrible? For me it is when they are not mad, sad or anything, but when they are disappointed, it makes me feel like crap.

[Anonymous]

Angry.
Disappointment is a difficult realm to crawl out of, especially if you're there through no real fault of your own (just a character trait or circumstance). Anger *can* change the dynamic of the relationship, but disappointment definitely DOES and it's hard to make up for that. Apologies are so much easier.

[Lauren2410]

I'd rather have them be angry at me than disappointed, because I feel really bad for letting someone down. When someone's mad it's easy to make them forgive you or to ignore what they're saying. The phrases "You disappointed me" or "I am disappointed with you" get stuck in my head and make me sad.

[lovedcursed]

yes , just like you !! if they are mad it will be okay , but disappointed may change their look at you , but the end we are all humans and we do mistakes

[sovetskii13]

I prefer them to be angry. I find it easier to get others out if the anger zone than out of disappointment.

[Tellytubby]

Couldn't care less. Its their prerogative to feel whatever they want about me. Not my business.