Oral?
Wristies?
Honesty!
Or all the above but
Don't avoid the topic and make it clear when it's available, why u feel this way and what your expectations of him are if he's going to compromise what his expectations are can you compromise some of yours?
Relationship means share
Share means you have compromised
Your compromise can either compromise or improve the other
But in doing all this u grow as a whole if it's a two way street
Things, ideas, time, values, control, mistakes, faults, problems, achievements, failures are all shared, changed, lost, improved and hopefully worth it
As long as u both feel willing to come to a compromise that total positive is greater than negative for both should work out
Talk regularly about it and read body language or twitchiness lack of eye contact and changes in them
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Of course guys love dating non virgins, they like the idea of taking a girl's virginity. I highly doubt just because you're a virgin he would be more likely to cheat or break up. If he truly cares about you he won't care about little things like that in a negative way
Nopes I am not a relationship kind of girl in the first place. But That just means more extra work for me or sexual frustration
Unless he's a total doucher, he won't cheat because you're a virgin. He probably knew what he was getting into.
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I was in a relationship with a girl. She was a virgin. I wasn't. In all honesty I didn't mind at all. She still messed around with me. Just no intercourse. Sex has never been important to me, yeah it's fun and can be very passionate and romantic, but that's about it. so it really didn't matter to me. Being around her, she was fun, smart, etc etc and knowing she was mine. That's all that mattered.
If he really likes and cares about you, then he will respect your decision.I have no problem dating someone that wants to wait. If it bothers him and he can't deal with it like a decent grown up then you want to get away from him as fast as you can and don't look back. Its not worth it and neither is he. If you want to wait, do not let anyone try to coerce you. If they do, they do not respect you and they are not anywhere near good enough for you. With that being said, good luck and I hope it works out for you.
I'm not one, and i wouldn't care if the girl i did date was a virgin.. Are all sexual stuff a no to you or are you willing to do some stuff because there are more things than just sex out there
My views on a girl wouldn't change because she's a virgin, I would like her all the same. Only a moron would treat her bad.
Well are you interested in having sex with him or wanting to remain a virgin?
If I really liked her and could see myself settling down with her, then yes, I'd date her. If not, then no; I wouldn't.
Oh wait. You want to maintain your virginity? No, I would not go for that sort of thing for too long.
I would. I think virgins are sweeter than non virgins (based on my experiences in dating) I dont think he will break up with you
Yes I would if she was interested knowing I wasn't and the interest was mutual interest.
Sure I would, I'm one also.
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