First time my bf came inside me today, could that be why he was super affectionate afterwards?

[Anonymous]

I started birth control pretty recently and am now fully protected by it. My bf and me hung out together today, had sex and he finished inside me. He loved it, asking how it felt for me and said a lot that i felt so good.

Anyway he was super affectionate afterwards. i mean we had spent all day together and had a lot of fun, but he seemed in an even better than usual mood. Even though we were together for almost 9 hours straight, 5 minutes after he dropped me off at home he called to tell me that he's very thankful for me hanging out with him, that he really enjoyed it and that he doesn't remember the last time he had so much fun.

Could the extra affection, especially that phone call, have anything to do with him coming inside me? or what do you think is his deal?

[stevie123]

Cumming in the girl knowing that it safe is a big relief, and he can concentrate on you more.
Guys with girls NOT on birth control have a certain level of anxiety about pregnancy and it
overshadows complete affection.Now he can be with you, think of you, and not problems.He appreciates that you have removed an issue and he can now be with you totally..Enjoy!

[icantwait]

Yes it definitely does, that's a very intimate feelings. There's almost no comparison. For a guy it means a lot of things and some of it, on a very deep level.

You opened up to him and made him feel complete. In our deepest desires we crave this. Sounds like you've had a long time to get to know each other too so the bond is strong.

[Asker]

haha okay, hopefully. Would the same apply, even if this is not necessarily the first time he has come inside me, just the first time that he's done so after which we've had to rush out and buy a plan B? Like would he still view it as special and intimate?

[icantwait]

I'd say in the moment yes. Having to stress over getting a plan b can make things different after though. Worry free vs stressful.

Either way is very intimate, but even more so when you can enjoy the full experience and not worry.

[Gharrison1998]

I take birth control for the exact same reason the feeling as as he’s finishing inside me is so intense and romantic. Crazy how where you lan ejaculates can boost a relationship