Why are men such perverts?

[BambinaCiui]

Why are men always perving on other women? Even when their women are smoking hot, or when their women have become hotter, never last more than a week, before they're eyes are wandering, why?

[Matt2k]

Glancing at a woman doesn't make someone a pervert. Men look because they are attracted to women, it's sort of why the human race is still here :p

Generally speaking, men are the ones that usually make the first move, so we are geared towards perhaps being a bit more open and honest about our glances. Of course, some men take it too far and it just becomes staring, but you're kidding yourself if you think women don't look too.

Also, a lot of men who do it, do it to flirt. There is no harm in glancing at another person, even if you are in a relationship. I'd be fine with my girlfriend doing it and she'd be fine with me doing it. I don't think she's a pervert for that and neither am I.

[kheserthorpe]

It's how we evolved. It's a pretty deep instinct.

A friend of mine almost got hit by a car while crossing the road last spring, two cars side swiped and one got knocked and nearly hit him. And as he's diving out of the way he told me later he noticed the driver of the other car (not the one that nearly hit him) had a great body.

[ironeddie]

If she's driving a car. How the heck would he know she had a great body? Was the car invisible like Wonder Womans jet?

[kheserthorpe]

@ironeddie , just for you I'll be more clear.

Tits. He noticed her tits.

[ironeddie]

Even still... whatever.

[rUinSAYAN]

may the woman have great "airbags" to save her life

[BambinaCiui]

That's just sad really...

[kheserthorpe]

It's not sad or not sad. It just is. The only reason I know is he himself was amazed at how even in that situation part of his brain was still aware of any attractive woman in sight.

[Littlestarr]

Being perverted is fine as long as you are not harassing or harming anyone there is NEVER and excuse for that. When I first met my current bf one of my first thoughts was that I wanted to grab his ass did I? HELL THE FUCK NO that is sexual harassment and I am not a mindless animal. ... Now though I grab his ass all the time (not in public) but he's not practically a stranger anymore and he's told me he thinks it's hot to know that he turns me on at random moments hahaha seriously though be a pervert all you want as long as you VALUE CONSENT.

[Anonymous]

It's just the way they work.

The sexes weren't really made to get along well, they were made to make babies...

[BambinaCiui]

Aren't you sick and tired of the 'that's just the way men are', lame excuse really. But great answer.

[MsFZB6]

It's the way they are conditioned ;)

[Mesonfielde]

Because many females have not properly learned how to assess the attractiveness of bystanders as a way to pass the time. They are missing out.

[LaikaFreefall]

Everybody looks. Males and females. It's pretty normal.

Personally, I'm no cheater. Even if I look (which I try not to do if I'm with my gf at the time), I would never go after another woman in any way. I'm a one woman kind of guy. I wouldn't share my partner, and I wouldn't expect her to share me. It's as simple as that.

Additionally, I personally know a good number of guys who are like me in this way. If all you're meeting is men that cheat, I think you've just had trouble finding the good ones. But if all you're talking about is men (literally) looking at other females, then there really is nothing to worry about there.

[MsFZB6]

Yup.. women look as well. That's the way humans our.. and there's nothing wrong with looking and thinking "ow damn.. she/he is hot" . That doesn't mean you think less of your girlfriend/boyfriend.

[Phantom-menace]

well what would be the point of you girl going out looking good. If there is no man to look at you? then how are you going to get his attention? You women certainly don't go out your way to ask out.

At end of the day, we are very much visual creatures, thats how we are designed, You are designed not so much on visual ques, but by romantic gestures, gifts, touch, a man she know.

If it looks good in our eyes, its gets us going, cars, bikes women, you name it. If there's is a nice car, we go to it, and want to drive it. If there is hot women, we will want to it , talk to her, and have sex with her. We are visually stimualted creatures. If it looks good, we want it. Its that simple

[CuriousEddie]

You seem to be confusing perversion with philandering. Are you speaking from personal experience? If so, I would encourage you to improve both your vocabulary and your grammar. After all, it is not physical appearances alone that create a relationship, let alone sustain it.

[BambinaCiui]

That wasn't the question.. my bad, i didn't realise we were here taking an English exam

[cagefighter1568]

This is so bias. Women do the exact same shit. Right before my fights when I'm in my prime shape, women will not only be staring at me but will straight up hit on me right in front of my girlfriend.

So if men are perverts for doing this the my question is why are women such sluts?

[BambinaCiui]

I didn't say ALL men... Jeez what's with the over sensitivity. Some women are just as some men are. My question was why.

[HokkaidoWolf]

I have a bad habit of looking at men's junk. lol

[cagefighter1568]

No you said man always. Same thing.

@HokkaidoWolf hahaha. That hilarious. But its human nature. Nothing wrong with it.

[BambinaCiui]

Oh boy are majority of the people on this site so stupid and sensitive.

[cagefighter1568]

From the looks of your question, at least one is stupid.

[LoverOfTheAges]

You're telling us, that you're going to judge a man based on where he looks. What's next? Should we not be allowed to smell? Or listen?

There is no perversion in that whatsoever, and is such a radical generalization of an entire gender.

[BambinaCiui]

I asked why they do it, no one seems to be getting the question here.
And absolutely, if your attracted to trash then why would a woman want you, men judge women the same way it's entirely hypocritical.

[Outofthegrey]

I hate questions like this. Not all guys do that, just like how not all girls intentionally draw attention to their boobs and then get pissed when their boobs get attention.

[Calex]

I don't know.

I guess they can't keep their fantasies to themselves or are not ashamed of expressing it in public?

Oh and for anyone who wants some definition reference: "A person whose sexual behaviour is regarded as abnormal and unacceptable."

Remember guys, that not all sexual behaviour is unacceptable, but most of the time, lots of guys refuse to be acceptable about it.

Luckily, I'm not one of those guys.

[rjroy3]

Why are girls so slutty? Why are girls always wearing smaller skirts? They get smaller and smaller every year. Even ass hanging out of shorts Is common now a days

[BambinaCiui]

Because a woman wears a short skirt it goes without saying a man should perve? What are you a primate?

[stevie123]

Guys are going to notice a girls ass hanging out of her short shorts.
She is deliberately looking for attention, and is going to get it.
Don't blame the guy for noticing.
It's not pervy to glance at exposed flesh.
It would be pervy if he grabbed her or played with himself while looking

[BambinaCiui]

You got to be kidding me. It's hot I'll wear short shorts, I sure as hell don't want the attention of a 40 plus year old man.

[Mr187canada]

So it's a guys fault to look but not the girls fault for dressing like a whore basically. Why don't you look at it as it's the girls fault for being half naked to the point where a guy has no choice but to see whats going on. Pretty sure most girls see a half naked buffed out guy they will stare and wounder.

[rjroy3]

You missed the point of my post.
I don't think all girls are sluts. I'm just responding in the exact manner you presented your post, directing it towards an entire gender.

But yes, if a girl dresses slutty and doesn't want to be judged. How can you turn around and judge a guy for being a perv and ogling a girl with her ass and tits hanging out?

[rjroy3]

But yes, if I had do describe myself with an animal I'd say I'm a Wolf. Ruff ; )

[BambinaCiui]

A guy has no choice but to see what's going on. What pig answer!

[rjroy3]

I never said he didn't have a choice. I said, how can you judge it?
A girl has a choice of how she dresses. Are you going to judge her about dressing like a slut?

[BambinaCiui]

Um yes you did.. And a woman can't dress like a slut, she could have tassels on her nipples and a t string on in public does not make her a slut, nor justifies a man staring!

[rjroy3]

Show me the quote of me saying it, then I'll consider what you say. You won't find it, because I didn't say it.

[Red_Arrow]

@Asker - "You got to be kidding me. It's hot I'll wear short shorts, I sure as hell don't want the attention of a 40 plus year old man." Just cuz we are over 40 does not mean we do not appreciate beauty or sexiness. If you wear short shorts or a short skirt, and have good legs, I will notice. I won't bother you or hit on you, but I will look. There is nothing that says "older" people have to only look at older people. "Because a woman wears a short skirt it goes without saying a man should perve?" Looking at something that a woman puts out publicly is not "perving". Peeping in windows, upskirting, hitting on women inappropriately, etc., is perving, not just looking as we pass by.

[BambinaCiui]

Uh huh. Ok. You keep justifying that however you see fit, as long as it helps you sleep at night.

[rjroy3]

Just what I thought. You couldn't find it

[BambinaCiui]

Haven't you got better things to be doing buddy?

[rjroy3]

You realize you are the one keeping this going? That's why I don't respond for hours at a time. I'm living my life. When I come on here I see you responding again. Just stop lol.

[Rubolina]

Well... women are told to be a slut to get the attention of men

[crunkers]

Because why not? Is it seriously wrong to admire the female body and be attracted to it? I get being jealous but seriously, sex isn't so emotional for men, or at least not all desire is. Just thinking about another woman doesn't mean your man wants to leave you, or that he doesn't love you. Or that he loves her. Or that he would actually sleep with her.

And come on, you haven't checked out hot guys or had a fantasy about someone that wasn't your man durring your relationship?

[BambinaCiui]

I've never stared, stalked, furthest is a passing glance, I mean the staring, the obvious perving, believe it or not it makes women uncomfortable to be looked at like that. And no I haven't.

[chocolatedragon]

There's a difference between being a cheater and a pervert. Cheaters are just unfaithful, perverts have abnormal sexual desires/envies etc.

[PhiOmega]

Well, I don't think men are pervs, and the women I know understand that men look, it's nature, just cause we're together doesn't mean I'm no longer attracted to women

[myspacemybroke]

Because we're sexual. You're emotional. Complaining that he's looking at someone's else's ass is as daft as complaining that she has a conversation with a different guy.

[Jonzor]

To keep mankind alive, without our extreme attraction to woman and sex, the human race would have died out long ago. Our sex drives is what ensures the continuation of our species!

[GreenMan92]

Why are bitches always making generalisations about men?

[BambinaCiui]

I wasn't. Unless you see an ALL there I don't see..

[GreenMan92]

I didn't say you said all, I said generalisation which is what saying "men" with out a qualifier means genius. Learn the nuances of the English language.

[BambinaCiui]

Ha wow, my apologies there sweetheart, I'll make sure I write MOST in future so not to hurt your little feeling ok schmucums?

[GreenMan92]

I'd like to hate fuck you, princess.

[BambinaCiui]

Feelings not mutual sweet cheeks

[GreenMan92]

Ahhh, such a shame.
I'm crying. Boo hoo :,(

[FrekiWolfdregil]

Lol this is funny, women can be just as pervy, and I love it xD

[Keyspirits]

man for ages have always been wanting all the cuties for themselves. Simple isn't it?

[halloweenvschristmas]

I want you to myself
I don't want you looking at anyone else

[Keyspirits]

@halloweenvschristmas honestly, dst line was cheesy lel. Yas as u wish, ma precious inncoent body is all urs hunny. Come and claim it ;3

[Cómoestás]

Then I ask the question, Why are girls trying to impress boys by wearing slutty dresses and showing off their bodies. I see this every single day -_-

[Anonymous]

haha just wait until you get into your 30s. You will be horny all of the time and have a better understanding. I just had a 31 year old female friend said she understands teen age boys now.

[BambinaCiui]

😂 that's funny.

[zombiebabe]

hmmmm good to know

[Anonymous]

It's human nature as if you don't check guys out, you disgusting hypocrite.

[BambinaCiui]

Wow talk about overly sensitive 😂

[BambinaCiui]

Also yes I can confidently say no I don't, passing glance perhaps, but the physical aspect of the opposite sex doesn't interest me, and you didn't answer my question, instead throwing insults. What is wrong with people today.