I barely ever go to the bar but when I do I cover up my work because men flock to me like I'm going to sleep with them.
Is this honestly what comes to mind when guys see this on girls? Does this deter you from taking them seriously?
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Well, you have to think like this. a tattoo is not something a traditional person would get, isn't it? So usually a person with tattoos might be considered more... opened to stuff, more inclined to trying new things, would be perceived as more of a "daredevil" when it comes to lifestyle.
The person who wrote the blog is most likely a frustrated conservative person.
I will explain why guys hit on you at the bar like flies. It's actually simple: tattoos provide subject for conversation so that's why you get hit on at the bar. The bar itself is a place built/conceived for people to actually meet/talk/socialize with other people. Most of times bars and pubs are pick up places. Hell even girls go with their mind set to find someone and "get lucky"
The fact that you (with tattoos), sit next to a girl with no tattoos, will make you more visible, you attract attention, so the guys who usually are at the bar to pick up girls, would go for you, cause they have things to ask you about. "what does that tattoo stand for?", you answer to be polite and say what it means and bam, the guy has some info on you, which he uses to build on the conversation. If it bothers you, then sure cover up, that would be the best.
Personally I don't find tattoos trashy. I learned to like them. The girl I like now has lots and pretty big ones. She is nowhere near trashy. She is not conservative either. She accepts everyone the way they are and I guess that's why I like her. I have none :)
What kinda blog is that? who cares if you have tatto or not. personaly me I like tattos. you may look cool confident girl, I guess. :)
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I actually am not a fan of tattoos on girls. It's not that a guy like me thinks a girl with tats is a slut at all. I just like seeing clean skin. The last two girls I've fallen for had about 5-10 tattoos each and it was the personality and looks that attracted me the most to them. We shared friends that had a lot of tattoos. The girls I liked got tattoos that meant a lot to them and they had really deep reasons as to why they got them. I could look past the tattoos because they were so meaningful and because of how I felt about them.
Here's the catch, and I'll use the last girl's friend as an example. She was 20 and not the most attractive by normal standards but I fell for her really bad, she was wild and crazy but fun and amazing. I would have worshiped her if she felt the same even if she would have gotten a lot more tattoos. Her friend on the other hand, was 35 with a full sleeve and many more elsewhere, but she just looked trashy to me, and her husband was her artist, who did a good job... But I'd never find her attractive and the tattoos made her even less attractive in my opinion.
I think that's the difference really. The right guy will look past the tattoos and see you if that's what they want to see. Some guys like me normally can't stand tattoos but can do that with the right girl, others can't. If the tattoos mean a lot to you and you explain that then it might help.
I think slutty is the wrong word for this question, I'd substitute it for trashy. Too many tattoos can sometimes look trashy, and when I see a lot of tats then I also tend to think that a woman might be older than she actually is depending on her looks.
Hope that helps.
Yes. Your assumption is correct.
Sorry. I know it's a generalization but that's how it is. Personal experience tells a lot of guys that tattoos=slut. Look at any p*rno , 90% of them have tats somewhere on their body, same goes for piercings.
I honestly avoid girls with tattoos for various reasons:
1. They're too wild for me.
2. They're too independent for me.
3. They would find me boring.
4. Tats are unattractive.
I'd be totally cool with her and strike up conversation in passing but I would never take her seriously. That's not to say that I'd use them. I'm a pretty serious dude so all that means is that I would not get involved with them AT ALL. I seek out "good girl" types. I've always had the settle-down mentality.
Around the world women with ink are working girls. The tramp stamp in other countries are actual advertisments for sex. A tattoo always means poor judgment and in many places in the world you cannot enter the country. The USA has began to limit persons with ink from entering the USA.
Girls who have ink are easier, follow the thought process, they scar their bodies with no clue that having a good life has been cut in half. So many men cannot take them home to meet their mothers, they are just for sex.
That doesn't have anything to do with it. I've talked to girls with a good amount of tattoos and they were very down to earth. It's just one of those things that's in style at the moment I think. If I see a girl without any tattoos I always try to mention it at some point and compliment them on it since I don't like them. It's not a deal breaker though. Just I like I don't think it's fair that girls reject me for being short I don't think it's fair to not give a girl a chance just cause she has tattoos.
I wouldn't necessarily consider a woman with ink a slut, but I do consider them to be bad decision makers. No woman commits to a hairstyle for the rest of her life, nor to the same dress or same pair of shoes, but she'll get something permanently drilled into her skin? Ever see a tattoo age? After 10 or 20 years they lines blur, the skin stretches and that tat you're proud of looks like hell. I wouldn't necessarly consider such a woman a slut, but I don't think I'd trust her judgement on anything.
I am not aware of thinking IT.
I remember a study that came out a few years ago at a beach men approached and anticipated a greater chance of success when the woman had a back tattoo. I don't know if they were consciously thinking it.
If anything I probably think she'd choose a guy with tattoos over me.
do I think they are sluts? no
I think they are uneducated morons who don't expect to ever get a decent job in their life (assuming these are all in places that cannot be hidden by clothes.).
for those that get them on thier face, that is a special kind of fucking idiot.
but it is your body. if you want to waste your money defacing your body, more power to you. But if the tattoo is in a place that cannot be covered by clothing if needed, then that is stupidity.
Tatts indicate impurity to me. Whenever I see a girl walking by and think of how cute and agelical they look, then I see a tattoo... and I'm like noooo... Also I think that girls w/ tattoos are likely not virgins anymore (not sluts, just sexually active). And even that is a no-go for me.
Tattoos aren't hot for me (but I'm sure it is to some). And I'm not proud to admit this but, I've yet to find a female p*rnstar that doesn't have a tattoo. Most of the time it's in the lower back.
I have many tattoos myself... mine are all above the elbow on my arms and my chest and my legs.. so when i wear a shirt and jeans you can't see them. But like today i was wearing a tank top and shorts. I was just relaxing at home. I went to Wal-Mart and i noticed several women stare at me.. but if i'm covered up no one ever stares at me... so i felt a little self conscious because i'm a really good person but i have and i like tatoos... my point is this. Your tattoos don't make you appear as a slut. People automatically assume that those of us that like tatoos are trashy or slutty or uneducated or whatever...
Many sluts do have tattoo, it's well known, but that doesn't mean every girl with tattoos is a slut, hell, I would like a girl with one or two tattoos, and I won't date a slut.
I wouldn't instantly assume that you're a slut just because you have tattoos. Slutiness is related to someone's behavior, not the amount of tattoos they have.
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