I had a dream about a guy I've never met

[Anonymous]

hey everyone!

I had the most amazing dream this morning..it was about a guy I have never met..but I knew instantly that we're going to be together,i didn't understand how this happened..

his touch gave me tingles,and every look from him made me smile..

He was not the perfect guy, but he was my guy...No pretenses, no misgivings,i knew he loved me and vice-versa..

I didn't think of anything related-no guy, no thoughts about anything ..but I don't know how..

Am I going crazy?

help me please

thanks :)

[Anonymous]

No, not crazy. I had a dream as well. Whether they mean something is tough to say.

In my dream,I was getting off a train station or something and I eventually landed at a park. It was large, green grass and tall trees. The sunlight was a glowing orange through out the park. I met a guy there. I spent the day with him, not knowing who he was or his name. But for some reason, he felt like a friend to me. although at the back of my mind, I was thinking I should leave before my mum goes and tries to find me. But I liked talking to me. As I was leaving, I felt sad. Very sad, like something was aching. For some reason, as I was leaving the park, I envisioned a girl who would be with later on, a girl who is his friend. I don't know why, but that made me sad.

That was years ago. I didn't have a dream about him ever since. That was, until last night. I had a dream that for some strange reason, I went on public transport and found myself in that same park. I saw him there, somehow, I just knew it was him . He ended it with the girl a while back, they're still friends though. At least, I think that was it, by how he spoke. For some reason I had the feeling that he liked me, though I also thought that, it can't be true. I spent the day with him at the park, even longer than the first time. I don't know why, but he made me feel comfortable. While being with him, as the day went, I had the urge to kiss him. I held myself back though, since I have a boyfriend in real life and he is precious to me. But for some reason, when I was saying goodbye. I grabbed him by the hand, feeling like I couldn't take it any more, and I kissed him and he kissed me back. I couldn't help but have this bitter-sweet feeling throughout the whole thing. Now I'm feeling extremely guilty for kissing this guy I dreamt of that I hadn't even met ever in real life. I'm confused, wondering if I should tell him or not. Whether I deserve my boyfriend any-more :( But the one thing I can't deny at all, is the way I felt when I was with this person (in the dream) I just. I can't put it into exact words.

[autumn_wind]

You are most definitely not going crazy. I've had a dream exactly like that too! Except it's two different kinds, one light, warm, sweet and protective, the other dark, passionate, adventurous. I'm not entirely sure what it means but they are reoccuring guys in my dreams. But I know exactly how you feel, when I am with either of these guys I can feel the warmth and love they have for me and I can see the adoration in their eyes. I don't know who they are but I know that I have a stronger connection with them than any other guy I've ever known. And of course like you said they are human and have their flaws. And maybe this is just wishful thinking, but when I woke up the first night I met this dream guy I saw the morning star shinging bright through my window. And that alone made me believe that a guy like that for me is possible. =) I also noticed that when I'm with one guy or the other they bring out different sides of me. Now I don't what that means but it's something to definitely think about. Anywho, we all love and aspire for dreams like this so enjoy them and don't think you're crazy at all, many people go through this.

[ivarei]

why is it that girls always do this? I have yet to see a guy saying, "i met my soul mate in my dream last night! I gotta find her! that dream meant we're destined to be together!"

HELL NO! IT MEANS NOTHING LIKE THAT. it means that for about 10 minutes last night, you dreamt about some guy that you fabricated in your mind. and then guess what? you had 5 or 6 other dreams last night that you don't remember. you dream several times each night, and most of the dreams you don't remember. this particular dream wasn't you tapping into the future, it was just a dream...i dream about guys I've never met before all the time. I dream about Russell Crowe all the time, last night I dreamt that there was a horde of guinea pigs outside my house lol. I few nights ago, I had a dream that my car got totaled. dreams are wacky, they can say something about what you desire (Russell Crowe and guinea pigs apparently) or dread (my car getting wrecked), but they have nothing to do with the future.

[ivarei]

Fyi, when I was very little, I had re-occurring dreams where I was in the back seat and my mum got out the car to mail a letter or something like that. every time she did that, the car would start rolling away with me trapped inside, powerless to stop it. it represents a deep fear in me to not have control over my own destiny...

[ivarei]

A few years later, when my mum had parked the car on the top our driveway so she could get the mail from the mailbox, IT HAPPENED. the car started rolling down the driveway. for the longest time I thought it had to do with my dream. but then you take a psychology course and realize that believing that your dreams all come true or believing in astrology or palm readers is all just a form of pseudo psychology. it plays up WHAT WE WANT TO HEAR.

[Asker]

Lol,you are right till a point I agree with you but I felt different about this dream.maybe I can't explain it but it has happened to me before.thanks a lot for answering :)

[Anonymous]

I don't think you are going crazy, but whether or not your dream really meant anything is pretty impossible to know.

I've had a dream similar to the one you are talking about before. I was sitting in a park with this girl who I never met. She was amazing and when I looked at her I felt the most pure, unconditional love I have ever felt before or since. The dream went on for several hours (in dream time as dreams often do) and we spent the day together talking and just being with each other. Then I woke up and I felt a tremendous sense of loss and sadness because I knew she wasn't there.

I've never had another dream with her in it that I can remember since then, but I still remember that one pretty clearly.

As far as prophetic dreams go, I have had them in the past. I haven't in quite a while. When I've had them I usually forget them almost immediately after waking up, but then when the scene starts to play out again I know what's going to happen for up to a couple minutes accompanied with an intense feeling of deja vu. Could it be coincidence? Sure. It's just an odd thing to experience.

[noricat]

Lucky. The worst kind of dream is dreaming about someone you do know, most especially someone you sorta like but for various reasons it will just not work/never happen.

Its enough to make me want to avoid them completely (I don't like people getting under my skin so much I am consistently dreaming about them).

You had a nice dream but that was all it is.

[Heygirlheyyy1]

Omg! I had a dream that I met the perfect man aswell, I never met him before and I've never seen a man like him. I was at a beach surrounded by beautiful bright blue waters almost blue green but Crystal clear, I was on top of this really tall board walk that was above the waters and when I was about to leave I had the sudden feeling of habing to find someone, when I loomed back it was him, the guy of my dreams! Toasted tan skin, ocean green and blue eyes, caramel shiny curly hair, pink lips, body was just woahhhh. I sat next to him and he said "why are you so beautiful amor " and I smiled so big, i also felt his love to be so pure and kind and humbled. I couldn't explain it but it was beautiful and when I woke I felt really sad and wish i hadn't. I have a boyfriend and I would never cheat... but why this dream?

[here4you]

thats cute

and no ur not going crazy

it might just be a recollection of all ur treacherous past boyfriends and what you seek in a partner or sometimes dreams have something to do with something that happened previous

which correlate the two theories I just said

and I think I was that guy in ur dream hahahaha

[Anonymous]

The same thing happened to me about a month ago and I still remember every detail of your dream. Some people don't believe dreams mean anything but we know better ;) Especially since you've had a prophetic dream before then you're right to notice the signs. This could be your future love. Who knows? I believe I met mine in a dream too. Just wait and maybe he will be sent to you. I have heard of people who saw their future husbands in dreams before they even met them. It could be a sign.

[Opinion Owner]

*every detail of MY dream lol

[MandyRaye]

Hi I too have had a dream of same guy in every dream my dreams with him are so vivid his love is so pure and unconditional towards me in my recent dream of him i notice he has accent i asked him what nationality are you he told me he is scottish i remember he once told me his name but i couldnt remember when I awakened was really sad missed him when I woke up...

[FreckledFish]

maybe your sub concious is telling you that you've matured to the point where you don't care about guys being "prince charming"

[Anonymous]

no, you're not crazy, just a little dumb. don't get hung up on your dreams. they don't say anything about the future.

[beerY33]

Haha, agreed.

[Asker]

Really?has it never happened with you guys?cuz it defnitely has happened with me..

[Opinion Owner]

What never happened with us? dreaming about some random guy. or having pre cognitions of the future?

[Asker]

None of your dreams came true?

[Anonymous]

You could always take the Stephenie Meyer route, write a series of books based on said dream and hope it'll be the next twilight ;)

[cbollin69]

i had a dream like that lastnight