Is it true that black men view white women as trophies and just use them?

[Anonymous]

I was talking to a white man and he said that white women don't belong with black men because no matter what black men will always prefer black women and the white woman is just the accessory / trophy and it is seen as a high status to be an interracial couple made of a black man and white woman. He also said how white women are used by black men for sexual acts some black women won't do as they are seen as degrading...

Is this true?
Will black men always prefer black women instead?
Are white women just used by black men for sexual favours some black women aren't willing to do?

[Anonymous]

Watch out... black guy coming through XD... here's my thoughts on the matter:

-When I was a kid, I grew up in a wealthy white area. Where I lived at... the town was 98% white and I was the only black kid at school (no, I was not adopted and my family is black). So... going through school (kindergarten-high school), I was highly into white women and I could never see myself dating a black girl.

-In my old town, there were quite a few black people... but not many. All the black guys in that town seemed to only attract BBW white women... and that was never my thing, so I never dated much during my time in that town.

-When I got to college, my family relocated to Texas. Living in Texas... there's a TON of diversity. During my first few years in Texas, I transitioned from white women to Hispanic and Asian women... I still wasn't entirely into black women yet.

-After college... my dating preference started changing again and for some strange reason, I started finding black women very appealing and now I am highly attracted to them and want to date a black girl. Don't get me wrong... I am still 110% willing to date someone outside my race... but I am mostly attracted to black women now.

Anyway... as a black guy... I have noticed that when people get older, they tend to start dating people who are a similar race to them. I personally don't view white women as trophies, but I'm also not that interested in white women because it seems that it's only the bigger white women that are into black guys... and the black guys that do get the nice looking white women are usually athletes, actors, musicians, etc, etc... very successful black men.

I am not trying to be funny by posting this... but this is what I see:

Typical black guy with a white woman:
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Famous black guy with a white woman:
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[Asker]

very interesting thanks for sharing :)
also i found the 2 pictures hilarious to be honest.

[SaltandVinegar]

Some see white women as trophies and as open to doing things sexually that black women won't. Although I'd wager that most black men (like most men) simply like attractive women regardless of her race.

[Anonymous]

I think some do but you can't generalize everyone into the same category. I had a black boyfriend in high school and I definitely felt like he treated me that way. He was always showing me off in front of his friends, which felt awkward. And he wanted sex all the time and tried his hardest to get me pregnant because he thought having a mixed baby by a pretty white girl would be "cool". So that mentality does exist, but I don't think it's everyone by any means.

[xobrowneyedbeauty]

Using people doesn't depend on someone's race, it depends on who they are as a person. It's impossible to go around saying ALL black men use women, just like you can't say NO white men use women. Im sure some black men use women (and not just white women) just like some men of any race do. Overall I think this generalization is false. This guy just sounds racist, bitter, and like he has a superiority complex.

[SarahsSummer]

You are implying that white women have no say in who they date or what their bf's do with them.

[Asker]

I never implied anything i wrote down an opinion that someone else said to me so...

[SarahsSummer]

Oh, I disagree with that other person but what do I know. Someone should ask the question do black girls not do certain sexual things that white girls do?

[Southernman1]

As a black man myself, I don't care about the skin color of the girl as long as she easy on eyes to look at.

[fauchelevent]

No, it's not true, the guy you were talking to is just a racist prick.

[AmandaLynn1930]

Amen!
that's ridiculous...

[TheDevilInside]

Is that guy a guess player or is he just stupid?

[TheDevilInside]

Chess