Why would my boyfriend all of a sudden change his profile pic?

[Anonymous]

He hasn't been changed his profile pic in about just over 2 years now all of a sudden he is updating his fb profile and pictures, yet he won't even send me pics of him when i ask thats so messed up?

[ImTinkerbell]

Sounds like he's playing games or talking to someone else.
My ex was the same way. Very controlling of what I did and who I was friends with. Turned out he was cheating the whole time

[Asker]

We had a fight about it a week ago so he removed it and now all of a sudden put it back up💔 He didn't even read my msgs from 4pm yesterday afternoon its still not read and its 12pm here now yet he had time to go on fb lastnight past midnight and post that , and whenever he is online can see he is talking to some one whole time avoiding me then he says. I must not question him that he doesn't have to explain himself etc, and says its work guys he speaks to but i dont believe it💔

[ImTinkerbell]

Sweetheart, if you feel like he's playing games with you and he's up to no good, maybe you should leave him. He's only hurting you and doesn't seem to care.
At the end of the day it comes down to two scenarios: 1. he's either up to no good and being scandalous and cheating on you or 2. you're just overthinking things and blowing it a bit out of proportion because you're worried about being hurt

[Asker]

Do u agree with me that if he has not even read my msgs since 4pm yesterday afternoon yet he had time to go on fb etc he clearly doesn't care bcos its still not read and afternoon?😔

[ImTinkerbell]

It's very possible

[ShaunaM95]

And here's another classic example of social media ruining a relationship for absolute no reason. It's Facebook. Stop reading into it when it literally means nothing.

[Asker]

Im not upset for no reason its just the fact that i dont do such things cause he would get jealous and question me he even told me he would leave me yet he goes and does what he wants, im not even allowed to have guy friends yet he talks to any girl he wants, he still has not read my msgs since 4pm yesterday afternoon and its 12pm here now so he had time to read my msgs lastnight but instead posted pics of himself, a caring guy doesn't do that to his girlfriend he doesn't even bother saying morning to has not came online

[ShaunaM95]

If that's how you feel, then you need to talk to him about this. If he refuses to listen, then break up and move on. You deserve to be won someone who won't control your life like this or ignore you.

[Asker]

Do u agree with me he is wrong it doesn't seem like he cares?😔

[ShaunaM95]

Yes he is wrong and that's why you need to sort it out with him or leave the situation.

[Asker]

He isn't even reading my msgs💔 He doesn't seem botherd about me, i honestly feel he just wants attention from every one im just here to make his damn ego feel good because im much younger than him aswell im 20 and he is 34 i think because i care and he sees it im just here for that💔

[ShaunaM95]

Yeah I think it's best for you to leave the relationship. You're not happy and he doesn't seem to care about that either, when he should be literally moving mountains to make you happy.

[Errhh]

So maybe he doesn't like taking photos... him posting a new one after 2 years should make that cristal clear... 💁🏼! 🤓!

[Asker]

He doesn't even send me pics at all when i ask yet he goes posting some isn't that messed up ur girlfriend should be allowed to get a pic before posting one on fb?💔

[HSPGuy]

Don't act crazy. Is just a fucking profile pic that hasn't been changed in 2 years. How many times do you change yours? Does it mean you're flirting with others each time?

[Asker]

No i dont change mine he doesn't allow me to even post pics thats why im so upset, if he saw me even talkin to guys or posting pics he would leave me he said, yet he does whatever the fuck he wants doesn't that seem unfair?💔

[HSPGuy]

That's not only unfair, but horrible. He's a person I would never recommend being with. That's not a healthy relationship at all. I would point to him those differences and see how he answers.

[Musicgeek21]

You're reading into this too much. Relax and trust him. If he won't send them take them! Set one of the new pics as your phone wallpaper. He'll notice.

[yaanis]

If he's controling you but he's allowed to do what he wants, leave him. Girl have some standarts, to me it sounds like its going to happen anyway... But again its your life your choices.

[gingersage]

pft choose your battles... if your worried that much copy the photos of him and do a google image search and that will show you all the places its used i e single sites and such.

[ashu04]

Because he wanted to do simple. Don't make your life complicated by thinking to much. Its just the over thinking.

[Janedoe25]

Why are you calling him a boyfriend if he had a dating profile up.

[OfDeath]

These are the sort of problems facebook, instagram etc causes.

[Asker]

Dont u agree its strange that he did it after so long he did it after. Midnight lastnight even

[OfDeath]

Lol you even know what time.. but yeah I admit it's strange.
But then after such a long time of no change - change was due.

[Asker]

Yah the time shows next to the pic💔 And whats even weirder is we had a fight a week ago about it then he took the pic down now he went and put the same pic back up so isn't it obvious some things going on?

[OfDeath]

It's worth asking the question but at the same time isn't really proof

[Asker]

He has not even read my msgs since 4pm yesterday afternoon yet he had time to go on fb after midnight and do that😔

[OfDeath]

Yeah that's the thing with message reading. You can never really know if someone has read them or not.
If you put your phone on airplane mode and then read messages from an app like whatsapp or line or kik or facebook or whatever - it won't register that is has been read even though it had been.

But if he hasn't or did but hid it, it shows something is wrong.

[arjunk69]

don't ask anything.. let them how they are, if you ok with that, you can accept or you can move on

[Asker]

He does what he wants yet im not allowed to thats also part of the issue im not even allowed to. Have guy friends but he has girl friends and talks to his exes every one, i feel like he is playing with me💔

[Musicgeek21]

Hmm... I told you don't read into it, but if he's not letting you have guy friends and he has lady friends or is talking to exes dump his ass. He's too controlling and only cares about himself. Jealousy is one thing. Its another to have double standards.

[Anonymous]

Why do you want pics of him? Women aren't visually stimulated.

[Asker]

He travels a lot i hardly see him and in the start when we started dating he use to send me out of his own without me asking so i miss seeing his face💔 The fact that he would post instead of sending me one first is a low blow💔

[zombiebabe]

he might be flirting with some chick online

[Asker]

So this is a bad sign you agree?💔

[zombiebabe]

yea... am sorry

[Asker]

He did it past midnight, he did it a week ago then i questioned him then he took the pic off now he went and put it back up wtf?

[Asker]

He did it past midnight, he did it a week ago then i questioned him then he took the pic off now he went and put it back up wtf So you think its obvious?💔

[zombiebabe]

he's playing games

[zombiebabe]

yea its obvious

[Pomegranate139]

He just wants a change of scenery

[baby181036]

please don't try to read anything into the move,

[Anonymous]

Get rid of that insecurity of yours.

[Anonymous]

you are overthinking