If your questions are thoughtful and probing, and if she is interested in your interest, then questions are good. But if you are only asking for the sake of asking, if you don't truly care about her response -- what's the point. And besides, a learned woman isn't interested in engaging with a dull and conceited male generally. And to label your typical guy as merely dull and conceited would be enormously charitable. Also, a genuinely interesting person asks little, because they know a lot.
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No, most have too many things to hide and prefer not being asked many personal questions. It's not a bad idea to ask a few right away just for this reason You can tell right away if she's hiding something!
yes I do because most of the time I'm the one who asks questions and I feel like I talk a lot. lol bt I do hate it when a guy talks to me and expects me to be the one talking when its them who hit me up in the first place. I also like asking questions though to find out how they really are.
I definitely don't like having to make the conversation but if you ask too many 1 questions (like not letting me answer any) then yea it'll p*ss me off. But, like I said it's a really quiet conversation if he doesn't make the conversation and expects me to.
Depends on the girl. Personally, I hate talking about myself and it makes me very uncomfortable when someone asks me a lot of questions. If the question relates to a topic or it's done slowly over time then I am comfortable.
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I like it. I hate it when a guy only talks about himself all the time, especially when he's boasting. It's nice when he's interested in me and wants to get to know me.
dont make it seem as if its an interview for a job..they don't want to feel like theyre being interrogated so, keep the questions to a minimum. ask the important stuff later and keep the small stuff for the first little while
Yes, I do. I think it shows that the man is interested in getting to know me better. Questions in general though. I wouldn't ask about past relationships or anything like that.
Yes, I do, it shows interest. However I don't like feeling like the whole conversation is entirely about me.
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