What could it mean if a girl calls me everyday?

[Anonymous]

So I just met this girl 5 days ago, and she's called me everyday to hang out. I've been busy so I've only hung out with her one time. She's got a boyfriend, could she be calling me just to talk? Because she wants me? Or because she wants the attention that her boyfriend won't give her? We've been flirting a lot, but I don't have any solid signs that she likes me, I mean, I've only just met this girl. Maybe she's a psycho :)

[greeneyedgal1]

This is going to be difficult since it's so premature and being I don't know her age. I think it might be all attention based and to compensate for what she isn't getting her from her boyfriend. I think you hit the nail on the head. Typically, if it's a platonic friendship and one of the party's is dating then there won't be flirting. In addition, she seems a little desperate for attention calling you everyday to hang out. She seems clingy and a little needy.

I can't tell you what to do but proceed with caution. You don't want to lead her on or start something when she is involved with someone else. Either you or her will end up hurt and it will turn ugly. Certainly there is nothing wrong with being friends but establish boundaries NOW

Good luck.

[Asker]

Thanks for the nice answer, were both 18.

[Anonymous]

Be very careful. She could be using you just to make her jerk boyfriend jealous for some type of revenge. I got burned bad by a girl that used me to try to make her ex jealous.

Besides, she has a boyfriend so you shouldn't even be entertaining the thought of getting anywhere with her. I'm sure you wouldn't like it if you found out your girlfriend was cheating on you.

[Asker]

Just cause there's a goalie doesn't mean you can't score. ;)

[Opinion Owner]

Well with an attitude like that you're going to end up getting woken up in the middle of the night by a husband or angry boyfriend at your door with a baseball bat or worse someday. Have fun.