Combine it with a certain amount of outgoing-ness, and you'll find yourself as the "mysterious" guy which can potentially be just as attractive as the outgoing guy. They will hold on to your words more because they know that you don't speak as often, so they better listen up while you do talk. Also, if you say meaningful things, they will hold onto what you say that much more. But you have to at least put yourself out there more, or they won't know you exist.
If you combine some introversion with a little extroversion, you will be the acquaintance of some and truly known by few. This could inspire curiosity of you when a person doesn't know you deep down.
Being quiet doesn't have to be a negative thing. You just need to learn to play your hand to the best of your OWN abilities, while learning a few universal abilities.
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not at all! however, girls tend to attach a negative connotation to the word quiet. Girls make it seem like a bad trait but I understand why, its because most of the time quiet people appear standoffish and can be difficult to converse with.. ha ha but I don't mind unless you have severe social anxiety problems. I personally love introverted men, they have more to meaningful things to say...thats just my observation :) (I don't like loud rowdy guys)
um...f**king hot? I love a quiet guy who's cute/good looking...i like seriousness not jokers. loud/brash guys aren't really my type either, I find them show offy.
a quiet guy exudes a crapload of confidence to me.
but he speaks and sounds confident and articulate, it confirms it for me.
i also love guys who don't talk on and on with a ton of words...but those that are a little more concise.
I like quiet guys...I like them because it's fun getting down through all the layers getting to know the quiet guys better than most people. Also, quiet guys are awesome listeners :)
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I don't mind quiet guys but I would want him to talk to me haha.
Well, there's the quiet guys that are funny when they talk. I like those type of guys cuz I can relate to them.
I don't mind quiet guys, but I don't ever get along with quiet people, being that I'm quiet myself.
I absolutely LOVE quiet guys (not lacking self confidence). They seem more mysterious, smart, and that they understand people's inside more.
Super f***ing hot
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