i mean you make up excuses for yourselves saying...well its just my nature. I am sorry I don't believe it, I just think most men are greedy and have come accustomed to getting away with sleeping with numerous women...so then they come to the conclusion that's their genetic make up to do so...BS I say...if a woman is treating you right, she is putting the goodies on you when you need it, and keeps herself looking sex, if their is chemistry...why can't you guys just keep your manly in your pants and stick with one woman?
Why do men risk getting caught to sleep with a whore?
Then they beg for forgiveness like puppy dogs...WHY? What is the point?
ladies, I know you have been in a situation where a guy cheats and all of sudden he's crying and whaling about how " he loves you" and wants to stay together...i could see if you weren't getting anything at home...but when your women is a "goo
"good woman" its just ridiculous and I honestly have no sympathy for you at all.
Yes it's a fact, some guys cheat. Here's another fact, some women do it too. So the question should be, why can't some "people" be faithful ? That's anybodys guess, and I suppose you'd get a multitude of different answers if you could ask all the people that "do" cheat. Most of them would probably come up with all kinds of excuses, to try to justify their immature behavior. One would probably be, I don't "get enough" at home. And who knows, maybe they don't. But that's where communication comes in. If people would just sit down together and talk about their perceived problems, and try to work them out together, the divorce courts would have a lot less business. I know I would (and did) ask myself, if someone that is supposed to love me cheated on me, how much does that person really love me, if they even really love me at all ? It is my opinion that if you really love someone, you wouldn't want to do anything to hurt them, right ? I think "maturity" or the lack of it is a key factor here. As we mature we are expected to make mature decisions, and accept responsibility for our actions.
Some guys are quite faithful, and the ones that aren't tend to do their thinking with their other head, if you'll pardon the reference. And many times, the guys that are cheating don't know how fortunate they are to be with the woman they're with in the first place. That being said, there are still good ones like us there.
I have to say the myself I'm a faithful guy, I agree a guy going after another woman when he has a perfectly good one at home is an idiot and should be put to sleep for giving the male sex a bad image. However my answer is probably the same you'll always read on here because no man will man up to his childish actions. And as for the cheating...once you cheat, you'll always cheat.
Well as crazy as this may sound to you, I think the girl/guy cheating ratio is literally equal, but I'm just basing this off of what I've personally seen and been through. If your man is cheating on you, tell him to get lost, plain and simple. But I assure you, every man is not like that.
It is a guy's nature, literally NATURE to sleep around, and whether you believe this fact or don't has zero impact on its truth value. He wants to go get and you want to tie down, so essentially the same argument about 'greedy behavior' could be made of either of you.
Just think about the evolutionary reason why you want to keep your guy at your side and realize that you're no saint either.
Don't generalize, it's not every guy that's like that. I, myself, would never try or even think of doing such things to a girl for the simple reason that I would feel like I've betrayed that person and well I couldn't live with it.
If you threat him right and he does these kind of things, then I'd say he doesn't deserve you. If he begs for forgiveness and you actually forgive him, then he'll just start doing it again because he thinks he can get away with it. So if a guy is like this, don't waste your time with him!
In a man's brain, sex and love are two completely different things. We can love a girl more than anything in the world, but once you step outside you are completely bombarded with amazing women all around. It would be stupid not to do it. All relationships are a pain in the neck after one year. If this wasn't genetic, we wouldn't act like this. You just have to learn to accept it, and if you love a guy, just let him have his space.
Interesting... well did you stop to think about the person that your dating first? The reason why I point this out is that there are men out there that knows of faith, that knows of love. Well I guess what I'm trying to say is that you've dated someone that didn't love, for that reason you had to experience this mishap... and 1 more thing ... love is not someone you say when mistakes are made... love is something that builds from day 1, love is someone more stern and splendid... then mere kindness. I guess there are much deception of love, that it's hard to see that there are true loves that still exist in this world. God Bless. =)
I've been in a relationship for 5 or 6 months now and i d9nt feel loved... Not in the beautiful way... there's cuddling and going to the store when ever i want and etc. he's amazing but there are levels to love. Some situations are worth getting upset about but he doesn't.. I caught him about to cheat on me and he thinks its ok as long as it didn5 happen. I have seen the messages he sent out and everything he thinks its ok... He doesn't make me feel preety in public i feel below basic bc he is constantly looking at another girl... " someone better than me " or thats what it feels like when he does it. He doesn't