We just broke up?

[Anonymous]

i knew it had to happen.well not really.

I wanted us to stay together and work things out.because he was getting his license soon and I just felt like that was something that would fix a lot of our problems.

He broke up with me saying "its like trying to fit a square in a circle" and that maybe we can still work out and get better, just not while we are together.

How am I suppost to make our relationship get better if we aren't together anymore?

I feel horrible and I have know idea what to do. I'm so sad!

He doesn't even seem to care, if anything he seemed happy.

How can I get him back?!

[sarah-a180]

Oh honey, I'm so sorry. I know it hurts. Make sure you have your friends and people who love you around you.

You're right that your relationship isn't going to get better by breaking up. But, it sounds like he's set on that right now. So, don't chase after him right now. I know you want to, but it'll only make you feel worse and him more certain about breaking up.

Instead, give him a little time to start missing you, and for you to start feeling a little better without him. This gives you a better chance of getting back together in a good way--or realizing you're better off with someone else.

I know it hurts sweetie, but try to remember the good things about your life and that you still have people who care about you.

[elliegrl93]

break ups are hard and how do you think a license is going to solve the issues you had? Problems can't be solved that easily and if he ain't willing to help solve the issues and actaully seems happy without you don't be seen sad infront of him pretend like you don't care and just have fun witth your friends even if your crying inside put on a brave face and soon you won't have to put on a brave smiling face because you will be happy without him he is not your life you control your own ship and if he don't want to come abord let him drown!

[Anti-God]

i would generally say move on. There are many other lads out there who would work on the relationship than to dump you