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Am I Doing This Dating Thing Right?

So I've been on OkCupid for a couple of years. Gone out on a couple of dates with guys from there. My last boyfriend (2yrs together) was from there. I'm back in the dating game and I was wondering about this one particular guy I am immensely attracted to.

We messaged each other for about 2 days and then asked for my #. We texted for a bit and then he asked me to grab some food and drinks. Met him on July 4th at a bar. We had great conversation and just clicked right away. I like being honest and pretty challenging with the guys I meet up with and he and I bounced off each other nicely. In mid-conversation, he gave me a kiss on the cheek. By the end of the night we hugged and went our separate ways.

The next day he sent me a text saying that he was glad we met and that I'm a "kooky" girl and suggested we get together again soon. I think a day passed and he texted me again asking if I could hang on Friday. I said I had other plans, so we set it for Saturday. He's an artist so he wanted to take me to his new studio (nobody had been there before me).

So Sat (July 9th) comes. He got me yellow roses (!) and we go to his studio, shows me his art and then we go to a bar he loves going to. We chatted up a storm again. This time around we got a little closer; ended up sitting next to each other on a sofa. Again, mid-sentence another kiss on the cheek. Then he asked if he was impressing me. I said sure and then he asked me to give him a kiss on the cheek. I did. We had eye contact for a bit and then he went in for the mouth kiss. Nothing too crazy. Just a peck on the lips. We decide to end the night and he takes me home. Right before I get out of his car, he gives me another kiss on the mouth and I slipped a little bit of tongue and left.

About a day or two later he wants to hang out again. We decide to get together to go to an arcade on Thursday (July 14). We go and have a blast. Grab some drinks, play some games, talk a lot again. We get bored oft he games and go to a restaurant. This time he sat across from me, but we kept a bit of contact (feet touching). After that we went to another bar. As we are walking over, he gives me a kiss. He holds my hand and we walk to the bar. Lots more talking, more closeness, more spontaneous kissing from him. At one point he made a toast "to us." We decide to go back to his car. I put my seat belt on and he says "Girl, why do you have that on? Come here." And so began our make-out session. So unbelievably awesome. He takes me home and before I get out of the car, he hands me a gift: a piece of art he made for me, dedicated in the back. "Keep dreaming."

That was the last time I've seen him. He texted me the next day (Fri.) with a picture he took of me on Thurs. This whole time, he's been making all the contact and plans. I want to know something: this guy is into me, right? I haven't heard from him in 2 days and I'm doing the typical female freakout. I just needed to vent so as not to f*** it up with him. :)
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OH! I forgot to mention that this guy is a total catch. VERY attractive (women flock to him), phlebotomist, artist, funny, intriguing, thinks outside of the box, etc. I think I'm freaking out because he's so attractive and I'm just recently getting comfortable in my skin (lost 65lbs in the course of 3 years). I guess I'm just thinking he' "too good" for me, but I KNOW I deserve someone like him. I'm not your everyday run-of-the-mill kind of girl. I am selective and he's what I want.
Am I Doing This Dating Thing Right?
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