What is up with that?!

[what-do-guys-want]

ok, now, I have a question. Guys are always saying that they love a curvy girl, one with hips boobs, you name it. I have a medium hourglass frame. I get looks by guys when I'm alone, but when I'm with a skick thin girl (who may not be that attractive) they always get the looks! its very fustrating and upseting, because it makes me think, well is there somthing wrong with my body? I don't know... I just need some insite pleeeassee

[beforetherushofdawn]

I know what you mean. I am the same body type as you, and I have had guys do the same thing with me; they look right past me to my skinnier, less curvy friends. One thing I have come to realize is that there is no stereotype girl that all guys like. Even though you may be attractive, some guys may appreciate your looks more than others. Those guys who check out the skinnier girls may be into their style, look, or attitude more than yours at first glance.

Don't worry about your body, there is nothing wrong. You just need a guy who will appreciate you for who you are, physically and mentally. Don't take every look at another girl as a blow to your image. You are perfect as you are, and no one else should make you feel bad about your size/appearance.

[Lis4Loca]

Maybe your body is more ideal, but guys are attracted to other features on the skinny girl such as style, hair, eyes, etc. I wouldn't beat yourself up over it. I'm sure she notices a lot of guys checking you out too when you two walk together. If you walk with confidence, guys will also be really attracted to you.

[what-do-guys-want]

I think I do walk with confidence... I don't know, maybe I'm not being truthful to myself. but I'm allways smiling and laughing having a good time. but maybeee I'm just looking out too mkuch for whos looking at me...

[Lis4Loca]

Awesome! you sound really pretty I just wouldn't fuss over it

[germanotaku]

Oh sweetheart,

be confident of your self! First of all, a body isn't everything. It determines the first interest but nothing else. There are SO many factors which attract people, it's very hard to keep them all in mind ^^

Figure, Clothes, Attitude, Behavior and so on.

If you get looks when you're alone you'll get looks when in a group, too ;) Little more self confidence please ^^

[what-do-guys-want]

Thankyou:-) your right, your completly right, I do need to be a lot more confident (even tho I preted to be) I think my problem is that, I worry too much about if a guy is looking at me, what their thinking and so on... I can't help it but I'm always scoping the room to see if I'm being looked at.

[MrSchneider]

i look at skinny girls because theyre so disgusting

when I see her next to a normal good looking girl I look at the skinny one more because I'm just so disgusted

[what-do-guys-want]

Hahaha why are you disgusted???

many guys I don't think are like you lol

they usaly prefure stick thin chicks lol

[MrSchneider]

Hahah cuz! there's nothing there! its so gross. I mean, there waist and hips are like the same size. its so ugly looking. a good looking girl needs some sort of curves. some cushin for the pushin =D ya know?

of course you know, you have curves =P

but anyway, shoot, they so ugly

[what-do-guys-want]

: O haahaha.. ok then.. but yeah it is hard sometimes, because I just fell like they don't like my body.. like, I'm not flabby. quite the opposite, but I just got hips and boobs..

[MrSchneider]

Then I would be looking at the other girl in secret disgust.

if you have hips and boobs, don't worry bout those skinnies

[fleeble]

This guy is right.

[Anonymous]

No offense but skinny girls usually dress better. Most skinny girls I know dress really well, keep up with the latest styles and have nice hair. I don't think your frame has anything to do with it because like you said, you get attention when you're alone. If there was something wrong with your body you'd know because you wouldn't get attention at all and might even get rude comments.

[what-do-guys-want]

No offence taken. I'm not saying that I'm fat, because I'm not, I'm a size 4 (australian size 10)

i have to igmit though, I fashionable, but I don't keep up with everything, because not everything suits everyones body size. but yes. your all right, more confidence and I should be fine lol

[Lis4Loca]

As soon as you said skiny girls dress better the image of me trying to fit into abercrombie and hollister in the dressing rooms flashed into my head. I hate those f***ink stores because they only limit who can buy their clothes to a size 00 or 3. I'm a 6 and I'm athletic and healthy and have never been able to fit right into their stuff. It's so f***ink ridiculous. I think stores do that kind of stuff a lot and that's why girls that are really skinny can wear that stuff.

[Anonymous]

I know what you mean. I have the same problem but I'm probably bigger and heavier than you but I still understand. I think its because with stick skinny girls guys can feel like they are a model, and a lot of the time arnt that pretty or healthy lol,.