I am really curious..my class rep is weird...

[Anonymous]

my class rep is really weird..when he talks to me and my roommate,he will only look at her but avoiding eye contact with me completely...i mean, come on, it is not that hard to make eye contact with me for a just a second...but,he will never make eye contact with me...he will talk to almost all girls in my class but not me...seriously,what is wrong with him?or is he just some kind of freak guys?i really want some opinion on this matter...

[martyfellow]

He either likes you, or is embarrassed because he knows something about you through the grapevine! Do you have some secret that would make him uncomfortable? As the class rep, he talks to everyone, and would find out almost everything!

[Asker]

i don't think I have any secret that would make him uncomfortable...oh,but he has a group of friends...and his friends sometimes stare at me..one time,they told him something...suddenly,he looks at me while smiling...are they badmouthing me?

[martyfellow]

Quite likely he hears ALL the gossip, so yes, if a bunch of people are saying things, he will feel embarrassed when he talks to you.

[Asker]

why?i don't get it...did he actually hated me or he thinks that I am such a weird girl?

[martyfellow]

He's probably just embarrassed about what he hears, and can't tell you about it. Why would he hate you?

[Asker]

yeah..it makes sense to me...

[Distant]

You're either attractive to him or ugly to him. In each case, he would be avoiding you out of nervousness or neglect respectively.

[sikoo31]

yes

[sikoo31]

he either hates you, or wants to f*** you so bad that he can't even look at you cause he'll get a boner.

[Asker]

haha..i don't think so...

[sikoo31]

i don't see what else it could be.

[Asker]

why?

[sikoo31]

cause I know how guys are, and this is pretty typical of a guy that either wants a girl really bad or hates her.

[Asker]

but, if its true that he hates me, why would he?i mean, we never talked before...i don't think I had done something that probably makes he hated me..

[sikoo31]

he probably wants you then.

[Asker]

no, I don't think so...i mean,if he is interested in me,he will talk find a way to talk with me,not avoiding me at all costs..so, I don't think he is interested...

[sikoo31]

nope, some guys ignore the sh*t out of the girl till she talks to them.

[Asker]

oh..why would guys do that?is it because they are egoistic or what?

[sikoo31]

cause he's too insecure to be honest with you, he'd rather play mind games than risk being straight forward and getting rejected.

[Asker]

oh..ok...but,my class rep is a very confident guy and he is very outgoing too... I will never see him as an insecure guy...so,do you think he probably is insecure with me?but,why?

[sikoo31]

like I said, he must want you really bad. he must think you're hot as f***.

[Asker]

but,i am not hot..i am in fact is quite chubby..honestly,i don't think that I am his type...

[sikoo31]

you're just being insecure.

[Asker]

no.im not..do you think he will talk to me?or making eye contact with me?i just wanna be one of his friends at least..i mean,he is friendly with all of my classmates,but ignored me completely...

[sikoo31]

see what I mean? its working.

he's already got you thinking about him like you want his attention desperately.

i can't help you if you're not gonna listen.

[Asker]

ok..but,thats not true..i don't want his attention desperately...so,what is the best solution?should I ignore him too?or start the conversation?

[sikoo31]

really? you don'g?

haha OK, I've said all I can.

[antonlikesmlb]

Tell him to look at you.