Here's the thing. People with less than average attractiveness usually have to make up for it with other things... usually personality and attitude, or sometimes even money. Super attractive people generally can get away with having just looks.
If you turn into a douche bag, girls probably won't go for it unless you become really attractive. I suggest you get control of your weight and take care of your appearance, and then just let your true personality come out. The worst thing you can do is try to fake it, whether it's acting terribly nice or acting like a jerk. Just act natural. Watch the movie Hitch. :)
Every guy I've ever liked has had average looks, but their personality drew me in. Some were smart, most were funny, almost all of them were kind and thoughtful, but none of them were muscley douche bags.
I am not sure if I really understand your question. Sometimes a person with low confidence will work harder to make people like them. If that same person gains a lot of confidence, sometimes he or she will start to act like a douche bag, but that is because that has always been their true personality. They just lacked the confidence to be themselves before. If you are actually a good person, then you can gain confidence without becoming a douche.
Don't become a douche bag. It won't attract girls, and you'll just come up as desperate which will turn off not just girls, but people around you.
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