Does weight really matter? Does it effect a relationship in anyway?

[Anonymous]

I know this question has been asked time after time, but does a girls (or guys) weight really matter in a relationship? Or does it even matter at all? I'm asking this because I really hate my body (5'4, 128 pounds), although my boyfriend loves it. He said he doesn't care if I'm 400 pounds he'll still love me. He says my body is perfect, and I don't doubt that he's lying, but I can't help but to feel that guys are obligated to say things like that to their girl. To cut this short, does someone's weight really matter at all?

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Yes, unless the guy is a chub chaser. But your weight isn't bad at all. Most people just want someone with a healthy BMI , but its also important to take care of one's self so that you don't get diabetes or have a cardiac arrest and die. And if you are not happy with yourself then make a commitment to fix what ever you can , it more about how you feel about yourself than about how he feels.

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Thanks for best answer

[queen-b]

For me , no, i dont care if my boyfriend is 400 or 20. , but for alottttt of guys maybe most of them. Even girls. Its a yes,,, they do care, But maybe ur boyfriend isn't lying, not everyones the same

[Anonymous]

you're height and weight seem perfect to me.
weight is important at least to me it is. I'm 15lbs over weight so I can't say much about girls who are a little over weight but fat girls who need to loose like 30+lbs I don't like.

[Eternallylucky]

That's not fat at all. You probably feel that way because you're influenced by the media